Thoughts on promiscuity

  • jayatl56

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    Aug 15, 2012 2:08 PM GMT
    I seem to have a high sex drive. I can have sex once a day but there are things that stop me.

    Since I'm a bottom, I'm scared shitless about getting sick, period. I take every precaution but still it's in my head all the time that this could be the guy who gets me sick. I even think about it while we're in the throws of sex often reaching down to be sure the condom is still there. Seeing/reading about guys who are out all the time having sex with random strangers makes me wonder why I'm so anxious about enjoying myself.

    Does anyone else feel like this? I can't be the only guy having these feelings.
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    Aug 15, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    I think you will feel much better if you find yourself ...one..healthy..nice ..kind..FB..Go out together ..get tested for everything..and still use condoms..
    I have a friend who does that..it seems to work for him..!
  • slimnmuscly

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    Aug 15, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    Have you ever thought about trying other things besides anal sex? Does someone have to get fucked every time you hook up with a guy, no matter how well or little you know him?
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    Aug 15, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidI seem to have a high sex drive. I can have sex once a day but there are things that stop me.

    Since I'm a bottom, I'm scared shitless about getting sick, period. I take every precaution but still it's in my head all the time that this could be the guy who gets me sick. I even think about it while we're in the throws of sex often reaching down to be sure the condom is still there. Seeing/reading about guys who are out all the time having sex with random strangers makes me wonder why I'm so anxious about enjoying myself.

    Does anyone else feel like this? I can't be the only guy having these feelings.


    This is why you should get to know a lot before deciding having sex with him. If he recommends having sex right away without talking much, that means he is likely to do that with others as well.

    Read up on sexual health and STIs and know how to protect yourself. Knowledge is power. Don't have sex under the influence of drugs and alcohol, then you've set yourself well.
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    Aug 15, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    slimnmuscly saidHave you ever thought about trying other things besides anal sex? Does someone have to get fucked every time you hook up with a guy, no matter how well or little you know him?
    This*
  • jayatl56

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    Aug 15, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    Yes, I've thought of and actually enjoy hours of cuddling and kissing but then it seems to get to the point where I have to have more. (Just a hungry hole needing to be fed)
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidYes, I've thought of and actually enjoy hours of cuddling and kissing but then it seems to get to the point where I have to have more. (Just a hungry hole needing to be fed)


    Dammmm!!! icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    Sounds like a self control/self discipline issue to me. Nothing wrong with having a high sex drive but if you're gonna let it drive you all over the map with no general direction then that's when problems start to happen. Get to know who you are dealing with and limit your activities to someone you trust and know about so you don't have these kinds of doubts.

    Sex isn't the only form of enjoyment. Turn some of the energy you have into something else like sports/fitness.
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    Aug 15, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    I find it hard to think that you don't already know the advice given so far.

    If "sick" equates to a specific infection, well....you may have to be very patient for that one.

    Honestly, it sounds like you are aroused by danger. In which case, mediation won't work. You may have a risk addiction.

    Lots of people have high sex drives, but no risk addiction.

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    Aug 15, 2012 4:34 PM GMT
    Yeah you are fucked as a bottom. Only way around it is to
    Have a monogamous BF.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Aug 15, 2012 4:35 PM GMT
    Just use protection if you're going to sleep around.
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    Aug 15, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidYes, I've thought of and actually enjoy hours of cuddling and kissing but then it seems to get to the point where I have to have more. (Just a hungry hole needing to be fed)



    Damn boy sounds like you need a career change and need to join the set of "macho fucker". I'm sure they'll leave you satisfied
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    Aug 15, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidYes, I've thought of and actually enjoy hours of cuddling and kissing but then it seems to get to the point where I have to have more. (Just a hungry hole needing to be fed)


    Get a toy for when you're alone.
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    Aug 15, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    just limiting yourself to sober fisting....that will feed your hole very well
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    Aug 15, 2012 4:50 PM GMT
    yeah, my Slut Summer 2012 is going great.
    I am, of course, exaggerating.
    I go through ups and downs. Sometimes I'm fine for a week and then for a few day's I'm all "I NEED DICK."
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    Aug 15, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    Aress saidyeah, my Slut Summer 2012 is going great.
    I am, of course, exaggerating.
    I go through ups and downs. Sometimes I'm fine for a week and then for a few day's I'm all "I NEED DICK."


    This post is useless without pictures.
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    Aug 15, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
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    Aress saidyeah, my Slut Summer 2012 is going great.
    I am, of course, exaggerating.
    I go through ups and downs. Sometimes I'm fine for a week and then for a few day's I'm all "I NEED DICK."


    This post is useless without pictures.

    So is your profile.
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    Aug 15, 2012 6:33 PM GMT
    *Thumbs up* @ Aress icon_cool.gif