Gay men of color

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    Aug 15, 2012 6:16 PM GMT
    Why is there no unity between us? We constantly tear each other down when we need to stick together. We belong to two minority groups so the outside world already hates us. Why do we make it more difficult by putting each other down?
  • Karl

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    Aug 15, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidWe're all the colors of the rainbow. Of course we're separated, but each of us melts into the next like the spectrum we're on even if we don't realize it.

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    Aug 15, 2012 6:52 PM GMT
    Maybe because you attack everybody that disagrees with you in the slightest.
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    Aug 15, 2012 6:53 PM GMT
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    Aug 15, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
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    Aug 15, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    People put each other down on this site no matter what. A lot of immaturity and rudeness. There overall isn't a unity among gay people yet since unfortunately a lot of guys concentrate on who's "hot" or "what would you do with the guy above you?"
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    Aug 15, 2012 9:01 PM GMT
    I dont get why gay men in particular cry victim yet marginalize each other in their respective communities.

    sounds like a bunch of whiny bitches that refuse to have a taste of their own medicine.
  • Kriss

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    Aug 15, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    Fear its why we marginalize each other and why some gay men of color seem rather particularly venemous towards other men of color. Gay men aren't rare where I am but everyone from what I have seen seem to be looking for the same exact white knight in armor and really despise/fear any sort of competition.
  • TheBizMan

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    Aug 15, 2012 9:46 PM GMT
    I'm glad you are asking yourself that question Boland92, because if I recall correctly you were one of the main ones putting Black guys down and calling them self loathing for liking other races. That really does a lot to promote unity and sticking together...

    Oh and victimizing yourself and saying the world hates YOU (try speaking for yourself) makes you like puny and pathetic. Please don't go there.
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    Aug 15, 2012 10:27 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidI'm glad you are asking yourself that question Boland92, because if I recall correctly you were one of the main ones putting Black guys down and calling them self loathing for liking other races. That really does a lot to promote unity and sticking together...

    Oh and victimizing yourself and saying the world hates YOU (try speaking for yourself) makes you like puny and pathetic. Please don't go there.


    There was a kernel of truth to my claims. Most black men that posted in that particular thread stated they don't feel attractive because of their ethnicity, and some even went on to say they had wished they were white. That sounds like all the ingredients of a self loathing person.
  • Another_Jerem...

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    Aug 15, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    The gay community is far more racist and misogynistic than the straight community.

    Read some threads on this website for proof.

    There is no unity because people most of what the "gay movement" spends all of its resources on has little to no bearing on a large section of the homosexual population in this country. A lot of gay white men's (for whom the "community" is expressly tailored) liberalism only goes as far as their desire to suck dicks without being called a pervert. Oh and getting married to one of the 9843579874 "hott" en they meet on grindr. Best of luck to them.

    I couldn't care less about gay marriage.

    I'd be content to read more posts from white men on this website that do not condone blatant racism and brush off the experiences of gay men of color.

    Welcome to Planet Faggot. It's a very depressing place.
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    Aug 15, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    Thank you for proving my point.
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    Aug 15, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    Another_Jeremy saidThank you for proving my point.

    What point?
    You said that gays are "more racist and misogynistic than the straight community" and then you went on to bash white people, essentially calling all of them sluts. Not a great light to present yourself, I would think. Not to mention how you're seemingly against equal rights for gays when you're part of a minority group yourself that had to fight for their own rights many years ago. And you don't address your topic of misogyny at all in your post.
    Heck, yourname's image is perfect.
    Also, you obviously don't read the forums enough because there are threads that don't "condone blatant racism and brush off the experiences of gay men of color."
    I have one in mind and I'm going to go find it.

    Edit: here it is.
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    Aug 15, 2012 11:39 PM GMT
    Another_Jeremy saidblahblahblahblahblah white people suck
    Maybe you just think this way because you're such a huge douchebag. icon_yatta.gif
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    Aug 15, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    Neight said
    Another_Jeremy saidThank you for proving my point.

    What point?
    You said that gays are "more racist and misogynistic than the straight community" and then you went on to bash white people, essentially calling all of them sluts. Not a great light to present yourself, I would think. Not to mention how you're seemingly against equal rights for gays when you're part of a minority group yourself that had to fight for their own rights many years ago. And you don't address your topic of misogyny at all in your post.
    Heck, yourname's image is perfect.
    Also, you obviously don't read the forums enough because there are threads that don't "condone blatant racism and brush off the experiences of gay men of color."
    I have one in mind and I'm going to go find it.

    Edit: here it is.


    but white people are sluts. are they not?
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    Aug 15, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidHow 'bout this? icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 15, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    This is not gonna end well.

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    Aug 15, 2012 11:57 PM GMT
    kawaiidesu said
    yourname2000 saidHow 'bout this? icon_razz.gif
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    Einstein's brain was smaller than most people's. icon_exclaim.gif

    he was a racist then
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    Aug 16, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
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    Aug 16, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    MisterMars said
    Neight said
    Another_Jeremy saidThank you for proving my point.

    What point?
    You said that gays are "more racist and misogynistic than the straight community" and then you went on to bash white people, essentially calling all of them sluts. Not a great light to present yourself, I would think. Not to mention how you're seemingly against equal rights for gays when you're part of a minority group yourself that had to fight for their own rights many years ago. And you don't address your topic of misogyny at all in your post.
    Heck, yourname's image is perfect.
    Also, you obviously don't read the forums enough because there are threads that don't "condone blatant racism and brush off the experiences of gay men of color."
    I have one in mind and I'm going to go find it.

    Edit: here it is.


    but white people are sluts. are they not?


    The point that anyone who points out the racism in the gay community will be written off. Bean counting racist posts, huh?


    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREThis is dumb, this is just another minority bitching about how he, being a minority, has it harder.

    Guess what, life is hard.

    When someone rejects me what do you think goes through my head? "Oh, he didnt like me because Im white" or "Oh he didnt like me."

    Yea the second one.

    As long as you let race rule your presence of mind, it always will.

    Tools.


    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREThis is the most racist posting I have ever heard.

    1) The naggers comment was a reference to South Park. Yea, he is cultural.
    2) Who the fuck cares. So two black people cant be compared now?
    3) Guess what? Tons of blacks on this site throw the race card...every fucking time...even in uncalled for matters. The OP is one who threw the race card (hilariously) in regards to having someone break up with him. How fucking oblivious can you get?
    4) Isnt Trayvon the guy who got shot? Yea, maybe he is making fun of the name because of that. But thats ok, we will assume everything is racist.
    5) The OP is a baboon, not because he is black, but because he is fucking retarded. Ive been compared to monkeys before and no one said shit. If it is ok to compare a white guy to an animal, its ok to compare a black guy to an animal. No more of this double standard bullshit.


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    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2504944/

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2241892/

    And so on. Also, I don't give a shit about your indignation. The gay scene is dominated by white men. Superficiality and promiscuity also run rampant in the gay community. Therefore, most of the superficial & promiscuous men will be white.

    This is a fact.

    These same men then throw shade on the Latino and African-American communities for their apathy regarding the gay movement. And as far as misogyny, how many threads are there on which everyone talks about how they hate fats and "fems?" There is no unity in the gay community because no one cares about anything except finding the hottest piece of ass they can and then getting the hell out of dodge. A unified gay community will not exist until it's stratification is addressed.
  • Another_Jerem...

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    Aug 16, 2012 6:01 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Another_Jeremy said
    [ more of his uninformed, uneducated, racist bullshit ]


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    God bless realjock. And all the morons therein.

    Amen.

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    Aug 16, 2012 6:02 AM GMT
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    I'd hit it.
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
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    LOLOLOLOLOL. WANT.

    You want a race card?
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:05 AM GMT
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    You want a race card?
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:09 AM GMT
    I think you put too much emphasis on what other people think about you. The world is not a perfect place but life is what you make it. If you keep looking at the negatives of the 'gay community' you will never see any positives in both yourself or in others.