You Miserable Gay Hypocrite

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    Aug 15, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    I'm put on this show last night called, "Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys." There is a person on this show that embodies pretty much everything that drives me crazy about a certain segment of the gay population.

    Sanhil is a gay Indian immigrant who resides in New York. He is somewhat feminine, definitely not fit and is certainly a miserable hypocrite. This is a guy who on the show has never had a boyfriend but is desperate to find intimacy.

    He stays away from the gay community because doesn't want to be associated with all the stereotypes and obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine.

    The show so far has shown him going to a speed dating event, being set up and beyond but he has rejected everyone because they weren't his type except he creeps on hot white muscly straight bartenders. He rationalizes everything to suit his own idea of how he thinks things are and how they should be, to better accommodate his own unrealistic ideals.

    I simply cannot stand people who subject other people to standards to which they can't even hold up to themselves. They want everything they cannot themselves bring to the table. I guess however that the joke on them because they are miserable but there is a part of me that just wants to set them in their place.

    I just have no sympathy for them what so ever. I used to 260lb guy with no social skills to speak of but I took my life into my own hands. I do better with guys than I could have ever imagined.

    What I want to shout at these people is that if want a catch, you better do the WORK and make yourself a catch first. If you don't want to, then shut up and keep your miserable life to yourself.
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    Aug 15, 2012 6:46 PM GMT
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    yeah, got a friend like this too, frankly grown weary of his self-pity and excuses as to why he can't do this or go with us here and there as we try to make his miserable life better.
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    Aug 15, 2012 6:56 PM GMT
    I caught someone well worth much more than any meathead you'd find at a gay bar because I don't have ridiculous standards such as 'your body must look like this and you must be this ethnicity and you must be this height and you must have a huge dick'.
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    Aug 15, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    omg can it be anymoar judgemental than OP post?! wtf

    live and let live man
  • Suetonius

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    Aug 15, 2012 9:18 PM GMT
    Your life can't really be so empty that you are intentionally watching crap like this on TV? Please tell us that you fell asleep watching the previous program and only woke up to that drivel, and were too disoriented to turn it off.
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    Aug 15, 2012 9:21 PM GMT
    ....." obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine. "

    Wow, they've really stepped up the criteria for gym membership since I last went icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 15, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk said....." obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine. "

    Wow, they've really stepped up the criteria for gym membership since I last went icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    cocaine, creatine; same thing.
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    Aug 15, 2012 9:59 PM GMT
    Lakeview27 saidI'm put on this show last night called, "Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys." There is a person on this show that embodies pretty much everything that drives me crazy about a certain segment of the gay population.

    Sanhil is a gay Indian immigrant who resides in New York. He is somewhat feminine, definitely not fit and is certainly a miserable hypocrite. This is a guy who on the show has never had a boyfriend but is desperate to find intimacy.

    He stays away from the gay community because doesn't want to be associated with all the stereotypes and obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine.

    The show so far has shown him going to a speed dating event, being set up and beyond but he has rejected everyone because they weren't his type except he creeps on hot white muscly straight bartenders. He rationalizes everything to suit his own idea of how he thinks things are and how they should be, to better accommodate his own unrealistic ideals.

    I simply cannot stand people who subject other people to standards to which they can't even hold up to themselves. They want everything they cannot themselves bring to the table. I guess however that the joke on them because they are miserable but there is a part of me that just wants to set them in their place.

    I just have no sympathy for them what so ever. I used to 260lb guy with no social skills to speak of but I took my life into my own hands. I do better with guys than I could have ever imagined.

    What I want to shout at these people is that if want a catch, you better do the WORK and make yourself a catch first. If you don't want to, then shut up and keep your miserable life to yourself.


    You sure use that word a lot. Your post had a little too much bile for my taste.
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    Aug 15, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    Lakeview27 saidI'm put on this show last night called, "Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys." There is a person on this show that embodies pretty much everything that drives me crazy about a certain segment of the gay population.

    Sanhil is a gay Indian immigrant who resides in New York. He is somewhat feminine, definitely not fit and is certainly a miserable hypocrite. This is a guy who on the show has never had a boyfriend but is desperate to find intimacy.

    He stays away from the gay community because doesn't want to be associated with all the stereotypes and obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine.

    The show so far has shown him going to a speed dating event, being set up and beyond but he has rejected everyone because they weren't his type except he creeps on hot white muscly straight bartenders. He rationalizes everything to suit his own idea of how he thinks things are and how they should be, to better accommodate his own unrealistic ideals.

    I simply cannot stand people who subject other people to standards to which they can't even hold up to themselves. They want everything they cannot themselves bring to the table. I guess however that the joke on them because they are miserable but there is a part of me that just wants to set them in their place.

    I just have no sympathy for them what so ever. I used to 260lb guy with no social skills to speak of but I took my life into my own hands. I do better with guys than I could have ever imagined.

    What I want to shout at these people is that if want a catch, you better do the WORK and make yourself a catch first. If you don't want to, then shut up and keep your miserable life to yourself.


    This guy exists... A lot. They are often extremely bitter too.. however if they had more realistic standards and a sense of reality about themselves and how other people see them, they would probably have a better dating life and attitude.

    But this kind of gay is so friggin insecure inside they do whatever it takes to assure that they are never put in a spot where they can see the truth about themselves.. So they drool over people farr out of their league and suround themselves with people who will never challenge them. They do that so that when they are rejected they can have an excuse that doesn't really place any blame on themselves or just maybe they are unlikable or miserable and judgmental and a pretender.

    This type is also dangerous... untrustworthy as all out hell.

    I've had two roommates like this..minorities too.
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    Aug 15, 2012 10:26 PM GMT
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    cocaine, creatine; same thing.


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    Aug 15, 2012 10:38 PM GMT
    ......

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    Aug 15, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    The only time I've watched that show was the same episode. Have to say I agree (for the most part) on OP's opinion. Nobody else is responsible for making you happy, but you. Tough times, issues, & life circumstances happen to everybody, but you choose how you let it affect you, & what you make of it.
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    Aug 15, 2012 10:43 PM GMT
    VieniQui saidThe only time I've watched that show was the same episode. Have to say I agree (for the most part) on OP's opinion. Nobody else is responsible for making you happy, but you. Tough times, issues, & life circumstances happen to everybody, but you choose how you let it affect you, & what you make of it.


    No you don't.
    One time I bumped into this 6'5 guy at the gym and he fucked me that night.
    Often times I don't bump into 6'5 guys and they don't fuck me...and that makes me sad. Not my choice.

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    Aug 16, 2012 12:05 AM GMT
    I think the OP is trying to say that before you go out looking for people, you should at least put in the work and make yourself a catch as well. I completely agree with him. You have to have realistic expectations when it comes to dating, and make sure you know yourself before you get to know him.
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Lakeview27 saidI'm put on this show last night called, "Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys." There is a person on this show that embodies pretty much everything that drives me crazy about a certain segment of the gay population.

    Sanhil is a gay Indian immigrant who resides in New York. He is somewhat feminine, definitely not fit and is certainly a miserable hypocrite. This is a guy who on the show has never had a boyfriend but is desperate to find intimacy.

    He stays away from the gay community because doesn't want to be associated with all the stereotypes and obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine.

    The show so far has shown him going to a speed dating event, being set up and beyond but he has rejected everyone because they weren't his type except he creeps on hot white muscly straight bartenders. He rationalizes everything to suit his own idea of how he thinks things are and how they should be, to better accommodate his own unrealistic ideals.

    I simply cannot stand people who subject other people to standards to which they can't even hold up to themselves. They want everything they cannot themselves bring to the table. I guess however that the joke on them because they are miserable but there is a part of me that just wants to set them in their place.

    I just have no sympathy for them what so ever. I used to 260lb guy with no social skills to speak of but I took my life into my own hands. I do better with guys than I could have ever imagined.

    What I want to shout at these people is that if want a catch, you better do the WORK and make yourself a catch first. If you don't want to, then shut up and keep your miserable life to yourself.


    You sure use that word a lot. Your post had a little too much bile for my taste.



    You think that's crazy, checkout the thread he started about "The Dog Killer", and how much he looks just like the killer icon_eek.gif

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2604779
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
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    I think the OP is resentful that he's put a lot of work in to improve his appearance (which is true he looks good) but c'mon now... let that Indian guy do whatever the hell he wants. Perhaps you and many others think he's in a league below you but he probably has a different perspective. Best accept that.
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
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    I think the OP is resentful that he's put a lot of work in to improve his appearance (which is true he looks good) but c'mon now... let that Indian guy do whatever the hell he wants. Perhaps you and many others think he's in a league below you but he probably has a different perspective. Best accept that.


    Yeah this slut is right.

    How sef centered do you have to be to tell anybody who's in their league and who's not...mkay...
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    AlexAdrianx saidI think the OP is trying to say that before you go out looking for people, you should at least put in the work and make yourself a catch as well. I completely agree with him. You have to have realistic expectations when it comes to dating, and make sure you know yourself before you get to know him.

    You forgot purple.
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:17 AM GMT
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    AlexAdrianx saidI think the OP is trying to say that before you go out looking for people, you should at least put in the work and make yourself a catch as well. I completely agree with him. You have to have realistic expectations when it comes to dating, and make sure you know yourself before you get to know him.

    You forgot purple.


    Purple Is one of my favorite colors but I didnt feel like squeezing it in there.. Sorry.
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
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    Lakeview27 saidI'm put on this show last night called, "Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys." There is a person on this show that embodies pretty much everything that drives me crazy about a certain segment of the gay population.

    Sanhil is a gay Indian immigrant who resides in New York. He is somewhat feminine, definitely not fit and is certainly a miserable hypocrite. This is a guy who on the show has never had a boyfriend but is desperate to find intimacy.

    He stays away from the gay community because doesn't want to be associated with all the stereotypes and obligations like going to the gym "once or even twice," a day and doing cocaine.

    The show so far has shown him going to a speed dating event, being set up and beyond but he has rejected everyone because they weren't his type except he creeps on hot white muscly straight bartenders. He rationalizes everything to suit his own idea of how he thinks things are and how they should be, to better accommodate his own unrealistic ideals.

    I simply cannot stand people who subject other people to standards to which they can't even hold up to themselves. They want everything they cannot themselves bring to the table. I guess however that the joke on them because they are miserable but there is a part of me that just wants to set them in their place.

    I just have no sympathy for them what so ever. I used to 260lb guy with no social skills to speak of but I took my life into my own hands. I do better with guys than I could have ever imagined.

    What I want to shout at these people is that if want a catch, you better do the WORK and make yourself a catch first. If you don't want to, then shut up and keep your miserable life to yourself.


    This guy exists... A lot. They are often extremely bitter too.. however if they had more realistic standards and a sense of reality about themselves and how other people see them, they would probably have a better dating life and attitude.

    But this kind of gay is so friggin insecure inside they do whatever it takes to assure that they are never put in a spot where they can see the truth about themselves.. So they drool over people farr out of their league and suround themselves with people who will never challenge them. They do that so that when they are rejected they can have an excuse that doesn't really place any blame on themselves or just maybe they are unlikable or miserable and judgmental and a pretender.

    This type is also dangerous... untrustworthy as all out hell.

    I've had two roommates like this..minorities too.



    totally agree, there are alot of guys out there like that. I know some....they basically tend to put down guys who are out of their league...like by several leagues, all the while forgetting that they are no beauty queens themselves. They judge everything and everybody that is beyond their "safe zone" and you are right, they surround themselves with a bunch of enablers and people who think their barbs are funny...basically surround themselves with people even more insecure than they are. Its all about their insecurity and lack of confidence... so somehow they try to tear down people who actually are self confident and secure
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    This thread is clue #2 that the OP may be unhinged...

    Does ANYONE else think the OP is the same guy who was arrested as "The Dog Killer" in the other thread he started? Go look here...

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2604779
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidThis thread is clue #2 that the OP may be unhinged...

    Does ANYONE else think the OP is the same guy who was arrested as "The Dog Killer" in the other thread he started? Go look here...

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2604779


    clearly NOT. C'mon now.
  • Montague

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    Aug 16, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    And here I thought this post was going to be about one/if not all the posters on RJ. hah
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:33 AM GMT
    As a former fat guy with man boobs, I have to say unless you take charge of your life nothing will change. If this guy someone out of his league but don't want to change anything then he is the one facing the consequences. No point getting worked up about someone like that. Why waste your time and energy on someone who isn't doing anything for himself.
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
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