Hotlist question

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    Aug 16, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    What are your thoughts when you:

    1) see a guy with no hotlist?

    2) see a guy who have listed 500+ guys?


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    Aug 16, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    I think the people have no one on their hotlist is a prude

    People with too many on their hotlist is a slut.

    There I said it.
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:29 AM GMT
    MisterMars saidWhat are your thoughts when you:

    1) see a guy with no hotlist?

    2) see a guy who have listed 500+ guys?


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    1. I don't give a fuck.

    2. I don't give a fuck.
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:32 AM GMT
    WhyWhySee saidI'm a prude - I just cleared out my hotlist. I prefer the buddy list.


    Some of your buddies are hot. You sure you don't find them attractive?
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:35 AM GMT
    MisterMars said
    WhyWhySee saidI'm a prude - I just cleared out my hotlist. I prefer the buddy list.


    Some of your buddies are hot. You sure you don't find them attractive?
    I'll answer for him: Friendship goes deeper than attraction.

    In fact, I just buddy lsited a guy tonight that SHOULD be on my hotlist, but we have a deeper connection through conversation. And he's not the only one.

    My hotlist shows guys I think are hot. My buddy list shows guys I've corresponded with and think would be awesome to meet in person, sex or not...many of whom I've already met. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:43 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    WhyWhySee saidI'm a prude - I just cleared out my hotlist. I prefer the buddy list.
    I think I might do the same, because a lot of what's on my hotlist was an intellectual attraction which some members might find strange.
    I have intellectual attraction with people whom I wouldn't sexually touch with a 10 foot pole.

    Those will not be on my hotlist. That list is designed for eye candy...not people I want to build a friendship with. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:43 AM GMT
    WhyWhySee saidI'm a prude - I just cleared out my hotlist. I prefer the buddy list.

    I just cleared out mine too
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:49 AM GMT
    I cleared out my hot list because people seemed to take it as people I would date, which was true for some people on the list, but not for others. Besides, I don't like the fact that it's public. Who I think is hot is my business, no one else's.

    It's kind of the same for my buddy list. I don't know why that's public. I need to add more people to my buddy list anyway. It looks so small.

    EDIT: As for people with large hot lists, it depends on how long they've been around. It really isn't any of my business anyway.
  • Karl

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    Aug 16, 2012 10:09 AM GMT
    I hot listed only one person.
    And that was me.
    I feel embarrassing when guys receive a mail named "Karl hot list you" , ew.
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    Aug 16, 2012 5:09 PM GMT
    MisterMars saidI just cleared out mine too


    So now you're a prude?
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    Aug 16, 2012 5:45 PM GMT
    Karl saidI hot listed only one person.
    And that was me.
    I feel embarrassing when guys receive a mail named "Karl hot list you" , ew.


    lol you're adorable. icon_smile.gif



    unfounded7 said
    MisterMars saidI just cleared out mine too


    So now you're a prude?


    Haven't gotten laid in about 6 months. you tell me icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:17 PM GMT
    I just view it as a compliment to whoever I hot list.
    It's like saying "hey you're pretty attractive.", not "hey I want u 2 fuck me here's my address come and rape me i'll be in bed naked waiting 4 u"
  • Kriss

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    Aug 16, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    I THINK YOUR HOT AKA ATTRACTIVE DEAL WITH IT! WE MAKE GOOD CONVERSATION OR I WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT YOU DEAL WITH IT. Is my mutual understanding of the RJ mail notification system
  • Kriss

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    Aug 16, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    kawaiidesu saidI just view it as a compliment to whoever I hot list.
    It's like saying "hey you're pretty attractive.", not "hey I want u 2 fuck me here's my address come and rape me i'll be in bed naked waiting 4 u"
    can i just say +10
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    When I see a guy with no hotlist, I wonder why. For a moment.

    When I see a guy with thousands of guys on his hotlist, I assume he found thousands of guys attractive and good for him.

    I mostly hotlist guys who hotlist me first. I almost never hotlist first, since I'd prefer not to be perceived as "that creepy old guy who hotlisted me, eeew!"
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    Aug 16, 2012 6:31 PM GMT
    kawaiidesu saidI just view it as a compliment to whoever I hot list.
    It's like saying "hey you're pretty attractive.", not "hey I want u 2 fuck me here's my address come and rape me i'll be in bed naked waiting 4 u"


    LOLOLOL some people view it as "my body is ready" tho
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    Aug 16, 2012 7:31 PM GMT
    Could be any of 1000 reasons. To decide what their reason is can only be described as judgemental.
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    LadyMars said
    unfounded7 said
    MisterMars saidI just cleared out mine too


    So now you're a prude?


    Haven't gotten laid in about 6 months. you tell me icon_sad.gif


    Do you want to have sex?
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    LadyMars said
    unfounded7 said
    MisterMars saidI just cleared out mine too


    So now you're a prude?


    Haven't gotten laid in about 6 months. you tell me icon_sad.gif


    Do you want to have sex?


    who doesn't? icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
    LadyMars saidwho doesn't? icon_wink.gif


    Then you're not a prude.
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    Aug 17, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    unfounded7 said
    LadyMars saidwho doesn't? icon_wink.gif
    Then you're not a prude.
    But sex is gross.
    that's the point
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    Aug 17, 2012 8:11 AM GMT
    I rarely hotlist.. you have to be a special breed to make that list icon_wink.gif

    (not really) But, I guess I just never get around to hot listing people. Plus if you hot list EVERYONE, then is it really that special anymore?