Confidence in a guy

  • Latenight30

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    Aug 16, 2012 7:31 PM GMT
    It's a poll or just an opinion thread-

    How sexy is a guy who has confidence in who they are?

    I think it's a total turn on. You can have a great body and be really smart, but if you don't carry it off with confidence it becomes less, than what it could be.

    I like hot smart guys who know they are the SHIT! It's not being cocky (but usually they have a nice one too) it's confidence.
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    Aug 16, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    I think guys that are the opposite..just a little timid..can be just as attractive..!!
    Op my self confidence comes from the fact that no matter what happens to me in life..i'm proud to say at age 36.. 98% of the time i treat the people i meet with respect and i will make the right decisions and do the right thing !
    ..I have yet to factor my looks or body or iq into this equation!
    And yes i know i'm no Greek God and i'm quite happy with that!
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    Aug 16, 2012 10:34 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidI think guys that are the opposite..just a little timid..can be just as attractive..!!
    Op my self confidence comes from the fact that no matter what happens to me in life..i'm proud to say at age 36.. 98% of the time i treat the people i meet with respect and i will make the right decisions and do the right thing !
    ..I have yet to factor my looks or body or iq into this equation!


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    Aug 16, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidI think guys that are the opposite..just a little timid..can be just as attractive..!!
    Op my self confidence comes from the fact that no matter what happens to me in life..i'm proud to say at age 36.. 98% of the time i treat the people i meet with respect and i will make the right decisions and do the right thing !
    ..I have yet to factor my looks or body or iq into this equation!
    And yes i know i'm no Greek God and i'm quite happy with that!


    +1000

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    Aug 17, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    yeah, i think i prefer modesty over confidence ( some call it arrogance) to quote beyonce icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    I'll bet anoxcu has a huge cock.
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    Aug 17, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    I think there's a difference between being confident in who you are and being a cocky, arrogant hole. I'm a little timid, although very strongly opinioned about a few things but I definitely am attracted to a guy who doesn't rely on others to define who he is.
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    Aug 17, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI think there's a difference between being confident in who you are and being a cocky, arrogant hole. I'm a little timid, although very strongly opinioned about a few things but I definitely am attracted to a guy who doesn't rely on others to define who he is.


    I just do what feels right and what I want to do. You love me. You hate me. OK. I don't care. I just want to drink and dance and laugh. Join me or go be bitter over there. Mwah.
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    Aug 17, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    I excrete awesomeness.

    Oops I meant exude. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 17, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    I like it when a guy doesn't know he's hot.

  • Aug 17, 2012 6:43 AM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iW5EzxFR4SM

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    Aug 17, 2012 8:36 AM GMT
    irishguyinsydney saidhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iW5EzxFR4SM

    If in doubt, refer to Beyonce icon_smile.gif


    thats wat im sayn, bro!
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    Aug 17, 2012 9:01 AM GMT
    Confidence for me isn't such a big thing. As long as they are nice, genuine decent in personality then that suffices for me.
    Maybe I'm too easy.
    Not that I'm saying they cower in the corner from daylight but yeah I am not particularly turned on by displays of bravado or confidence.

    Then again, it's not like I'm confident in anything really so I hope confidence isn't such a deciding factor otherwise it'll suck to be me lol.
  • onefortified

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    Aug 17, 2012 2:57 PM GMT
    I think there are different degrees of confidence. You can be confident and cocky or confident and humble. The latter is much more appealing to others as it doesn't give off this "I am better than you" attitude that shys people away from getting to know you. It's great to know it all but how you go about portraying it really defines who you are.
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    Aug 18, 2012 12:07 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI excrete awesomeness.

    Oops I meant exude. icon_razz.gif
    Sup baby! icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 18, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
    Daas saidI'll bet anoxcu has a huge cock.


    Are we talking about my boy... "Pepper"..???
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    Aug 18, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    cofidence is good- cockiness is a boner kill.

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    Aug 18, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidI think guys that are the opposite..just a little timid..can be just as attractive..!!
    Op my self confidence comes from the fact that no matter what happens to me in life..i'm proud to say at age 36.. 98% of the time i treat the people i meet with respect and i will make the right decisions and do the right thing !
    ..I have yet to factor my looks or body or iq into this equation!
    And yes i know i'm no Greek God and i'm quite happy with that!


    Amen.
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    Aug 18, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    Daas said

    I just do what feels right and what I want to do. You love me. You hate me. OK. I don't care. I just want to drink and dance and laugh. Join me or go be bitter over there. Mwah.


    Cocky bastard.

    I HATE you.





    get naked.
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    Aug 18, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    I agree. I completely value confidence but I do abhor arrogance.
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    Aug 18, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Ariodante said
    Daas said

    I just do what feels right and what I want to do. You love me. You hate me. OK. I don't care. I just want to drink and dance and laugh. Join me or go be bitter over there. Mwah.


    Cocky bastard.

    I HATE you.





    get naked.

    Bouncy, bouncy, bouncy!

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  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 18, 2012 1:13 AM GMT
    In men, it is an attractive quality.icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 18, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    Confidence is good. But some guys mistake arrogant behavior for confidence. It's not the same thing. Nothing's more of a turn off than someone who appears overly high on themselves.

    And ironically, people who act this way are actually quite insecure -- the very antithesis of confidence.

    I prefer guys who are maybe a touch less confident, a bit less sure of themselves, a little less self-centered. And I'll take an abundance of kindness, thoughtfulness and humility any day over what some consider "confidence."
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    Aug 23, 2012 8:01 PM GMT
    OK
    but believe it or not
    there are guys out there who have an abundance of kindness, thoughtfulness and humility who are very sure of themselves and also extremely CONFIDENT and VERY sexy. The most confident person knows that he (nobody) can be never be 100% confident all the time- and that's the secret to confidence.
    These are the kinds of guys are not shy about dishing out some arrogance to other gay men who can't tell the difference between solid healthy pride and snotty nonsense. A confident guy can smell fake confidence and hot air from far away.
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    Aug 23, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    the line between confidence and arrogance is a fine one. Most guys don't know how to be confident and not arrogant.
    Modesty is better.