Anyone ever done a straight guy?

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    Aug 16, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    Just wondering. I haven't, and if a straight guy wanted me, then guess what? He's not straight!
    Anyway, anyone been with a straight guy?
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    Aug 16, 2012 9:14 PM GMT
    As a general rule, you have to get straight men drunk first - so it's not as much fun as one might think - and they are usually pretty passive. At a local ski area, where it's not too crowded, a late night local bar has on occasion provided relief from general horniness. There are no available women left to go home with, he's getting drunker, and he get's offered a ride back to his cabin. It's been a few years since I was in that situation.

    From all I read today (I don't know any teenagers), it would seem that quite a few young straight guys/youths are now open to experimenting with gay sex. That's what the surveys show, anyway. I guess you missed out on the action. If you consider that most probably it would be a one time (and probably a first time) experience for both guys involved, it might not be all that exciting. Having sex for the first time doesn't seem to be a mind-blowing experience for most - more of an awkward one.

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    Aug 16, 2012 9:16 PM GMT
    A straight buddy of mine fell in love with me in college. I'm still friends with him, his wife and his four kids (and no, the wife and kids don't know).
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    Aug 17, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidYup. Slept with a straight friend once.

    Great way to ruin a friendship. icon_neutral.gif They're all "let's do this" at the time (drunk usually) but they usually can't "process" it the next day and get all weirded out.

    Never again for me.

    Yikes!
  • Timbales

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    Aug 17, 2012 2:29 AM GMT
    I've kissed a straight guy, who was drinking a little and wondered if men kissed different than women. His girlfriend was there, too.
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:27 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said...Great way to ruin a friendship. icon_neutral.gif They're all "let's do this" at the time (drunk usually) but they usually can't "process" it the next day and get all weirded out.

    Never again for me.


    QFT!
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:31 AM GMT
    No. They are bisexual.
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    Aug 17, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    Sweety. I"m gay. All the way over on the scale to the left. That's me. But sexuality isn't black or white, it's a continuum with hundreds of different shades of bisexuality all up in there.
  • allatonce

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    Aug 21, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
    SleepyFisherman said
    yourname2000 said...Great way to ruin a friendship. icon_neutral.gif They're all "let's do this" at the time (drunk usually) but they usually can't "process" it the next day and get all weirded out.

    Never again for me.


    QFT!


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  • Svnw688

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    Aug 23, 2012 7:00 AM GMT
    Yes. (backstory first, sex part starts at the asterics)

    I live in NYC and a college friend visited me from California (i think it was Cali). She brought along a good friend of hers who is straight. We wound up bar hopping on a Friday after I got out of work. Because of transportation issues me and the straight went to my apt so i could change out of clothes before The Griffin which requires you to dress up, but doesn't allow douchey work clothes like lawyers have to wear. While there I got a text that she was hooking up with her former boyfriend who lives in NYC now and she hasn't seen in a year.

    I was going to the straight bar just to humour them, so now I start pushing an agenda of "let's go to the gay bar." He says he's never been to one but would go, and I keep saying i'll be his chaperone and protector. Long story short, we party and drink at the gay bar. He was a whiskey shots and beer kinda guy, which is fine by me since I like that too. So i kept saying "you can't let a gay man beat you drinking" to intentionally get him drunk. I didn't touch him or hit on him at the bar, that'd be weird. Plenty of other guys were noticing us, so that served as our distraction (us explaining that he's straight and if no one was near us talking about and ripping on all the awkward or dorky guys we saw dancing).

    Around 3am we got a cab, picked up some Halal food at 53rd? and 6th avenue (it's famous, and delicious), and went back to my APT. No sign of her, so after eating food, he pulled out his weed, which was a complete surprise to me. I'm thinking, "thank you for doing my job for me." So we're smoking weed and cigarettes to get rid of the smell and without asking put straight porn. I purchased it from my DVR since I didn't own any, but I knew the porn channels were in the 600s.

    ****sex part starts here*****
    We're both pretty messed up drunk/high now, but I drink alot so I'm very coherent and not sloppy at all, even when I medically should be. My head is in the game. I start saying how "guys are better cause they know what other guys want," and then I lied and said it's no big deal I'd done it with lots of other straight guys, which i hadn't at that time. Before that I'd mainly been with bi-on-the-way-to-gay guys who were just in the closet or confused. But this guy was legit straight. He kept saying "nah man, no way" and talking about this girl he was seeing in L.A. I was nervous as hell and psyching myself up just to do something, and in a moment of liquid courage (cause I'd never do this sober) I reached over the couch and started unbuckling his pants and unzipped him, pulled him out, he was rock hard, and started sucking. I think he said something in protest and tried to playfully push me off, but I could tell he was just covering. I don't really like giving oral so after 5 minutes or so of him face fucking me and pushing my head down I said "come on" and started to the bedroom. He followed and it was better cause it was dark in there, and in the living room the TV was casting a bright light. So now we had the porno sound, but the secrecy of darkness on my bed. He took his clothes off as did I.

    This is where it got weird even for me, and I loved it. He started being assertive and basically treating me how you would treat a girl. Sucking my nips, licking my neck and ears, grinding on me and grunting. After a bit he rolled me over. I always have lube and condoms on my window sill (which in hindsight is stupid cuase the heat could break the latex down) and I grabbed a condom for him to put on and started lubing my rear. He didn't say anything, but I could tell he didn't put it on. Here is another mistake I make (the first being actively batining a straight guy to have sex with me under the guise of being a nice host haha), I let him go in without a condom. I know, stupid. I was drunk and high. Not an excuse, but I'm just saying what happened. He was average, not small, and not large, which to me is perfect for anal. He started slow and then started pounding long fast strokes. i was on my stomach and just laid there and took it, it felt really good and I was very happy I'd accomplished my mission. Throughout the night I didn't think it would really work, at best I thought we might stroke off together, but here I was getting slammed. I think it was about 20 minutes nonstop cause the porno started repeating the same intro DVD screen thing, and that's when he came. I'm always close when I'm getting it so I just wacked a few times and came. Surprisingly, it wasn't that awkward afterwards. We both just kinda got up and didn't say anything and rinsed off in my bathroom sink. I think we both made some comment about it being "fun" and then he crashed on the couch and I went into my bedroom after giving him a pillow and blanket. In the morning we didn't say anything about it and it really wasn't awkward. I was aftraid it would be, but it wasn't. We wound up doing a late brunch with our mutual friend around 3, right before they stop the unlimited mimosas thing, and had fun, wound up going to straight bars that night. I did notice though that he actively hit on girls all night, and sealed a deal and went home with a girl around 11. I'm kinda guessing so he wouldn't have to spend his second/last night in my apt. My girl wound up getting with her ex boyfriend again, so I slept alone after the bars that night, but that's ok by me cause the night before was ridiculous.

    It's all true, and I think I said most relevant things. Any questions just ask. And pleaes stop the "he's not straight" thing. Perhaps he isn't. He did fuck me after all. I'm just using the average definition of straight, which is when a man self-identifies and holds himself out as straight, has a girlfriend, and doesn't do stereotypically gay" things like watch project runway, go to gay bars, and order vodka crans.
  • Koaa2

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    Aug 23, 2012 4:22 PM GMT
    Svnw688 saidYes. (backstory first, sex part starts at the asterics)

    I live in NYC and a college friend visited me from California (i think it was Cali). She brought along a good friend of hers who is straight. We wound up bar hopping on a Friday after I got out of work. Because of transportation issues me and the straight went to my apt so i could change out of clothes before The Griffin which requires you to dress up, but doesn't allow douchey work clothes like lawyers have to wear. While there I got a text that she was hooking up with her former boyfriend who lives in NYC now and she hasn't seen in a year.

    I was going to the straight bar just to humour them, so now I start pushing an agenda of "let's go to the gay bar." He says he's never been to one but would go, and I keep saying i'll be his chaperone and protector. Long story short, we party and drink at the gay bar. He was a whiskey shots and beer kinda guy, which is fine by me since I like that too. So i kept saying "you can't let a gay man beat you drinking" to intentionally get him drunk. I didn't touch him or hit on him at the bar, that'd be weird. Plenty of other guys were noticing us, so that served as our distraction (us explaining that he's straight and if no one was near us talking about and ripping on all the awkward or dorky guys we saw dancing).

    Around 3am we got a cab, picked up some Halal food at 53rd? and 6th avenue (it's famous, and delicious), and went back to my APT. No sign of her, so after eating food, he pulled out his weed, which was a complete surprise to me. I'm thinking, "thank you for doing my job for me." So we're smoking weed and cigarettes to get rid of the smell and without asking put straight porn. I purchased it from my DVR since I didn't own any, but I knew the porn channels were in the 600s.

    ****sex part starts here*****
    We're both pretty messed up drunk/high now, but I drink alot so I'm very coherent and not sloppy at all, even when I medically should be. My head is in the game. I start saying how "guys are better cause they know what other guys want," and then I lied and said it's no big deal I'd done it with lots of other straight guys, which i hadn't at that time. Before that I'd mainly been with bi-on-the-way-to-gay guys who were just in the closet or confused. But this guy was legit straight. He kept saying "nah man, no way" and talking about this girl he was seeing in L.A. I was nervous as hell and psyching myself up just to do something, and in a moment of liquid courage (cause I'd never do this sober) I reached over the couch and started unbuckling his pants and unzipped him, pulled him out, he was rock hard, and started sucking. I think he said something in protest and tried to playfully push me off, but I could tell he was just covering. I don't really like giving oral so after 5 minutes or so of him face fucking me and pushing my head down I said "come on" and started to the bedroom. He followed and it was better cause it was dark in there, and in the living room the TV was casting a bright light. So now we had the porno sound, but the secrecy of darkness on my bed. He took his clothes off as did I.

    This is where it got weird even for me, and I loved it. He started being assertive and basically treating me how you would treat a girl. Sucking my nips, licking my neck and ears, grinding on me and grunting. After a bit he rolled me over. I always have lube and condoms on my window sill (which in hindsight is stupid cuase the heat could break the latex down) and I grabbed a condom for him to put on and started lubing my rear. He didn't say anything, but I could tell he didn't put it on. Here is another mistake I make (the first being actively batining a straight guy to have sex with me under the guise of being a nice host haha), I let him go in without a condom. I know, stupid. I was drunk and high. Not an excuse, but I'm just saying what happened. He was average, not small, and not large, which to me is perfect for anal. He started slow and then started pounding long fast strokes. i was on my stomach and just laid there and took it, it felt really good and I was very happy I'd accomplished my mission. Throughout the night I didn't think it would really work, at best I thought we might stroke off together, but here I was getting slammed. I think it was about 20 minutes nonstop cause the porno started repeating the same intro DVD screen thing, and that's when he came. I'm always close when I'm getting it so I just wacked a few times and came. Surprisingly, it wasn't that awkward afterwards. We both just kinda got up and didn't say anything and rinsed off in my bathroom sink. I think we both made some comment about it being "fun" and then he crashed on the couch and I went into my bedroom after giving him a pillow and blanket. In the morning we didn't say anything about it and it really wasn't awkward. I was aftraid it would be, but it wasn't. We wound up doing a late brunch with our mutual friend around 3, right before they stop the unlimited mimosas thing, and had fun, wound up going to straight bars that night. I did notice though that he actively hit on girls all night, and sealed a deal and went home with a girl around 11. I'm kinda guessing so he wouldn't have to spend his second/last night in my apt. My girl wound up getting with her ex boyfriend again, so I slept alone after the bars that night, but that's ok by me cause the night before was ridiculous.

    It's all true, and I think I said most relevant things. Any questions just ask. And pleaes stop the "he's not straight" thing. Perhaps he isn't. He did fuck me after all. I'm just using the average definition of straight, which is when a man self-identifies and holds himself out as straight, has a girlfriend, and doesn't do stereotypically gay" things like watch project runway, go to gay bars, and order vodka crans.


    Hope you got tested for HIV 6 months after this event. If he did it with you he is doing it with others, amazing how people think they are always the first and only. Not judging you at all. If you had used a condom, sounds like a fun time for all..
  • sbwlguy

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    Aug 23, 2012 9:56 PM GMT
    A straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 01, 2012 8:04 PM GMT
    sbwlguy saidA straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.


    I would have to agree with this, however, I did have an experience when I was younger that makes me believe that some straight guys will try something with a guy just out of curiousity.

    I have a straight friend I met in college (and we're still friends, haven't seen him in a while, but we talk on the phone every now and then) who I can only describe as open minded.
    We got to know each other, and he's the one who asked me if I was gay. I told him yes, and he was cool with it, didn't change anything with our friendship.
    We were talking one night and he said he'd be open to letting a guy suck him and sucking cock - just to see what it's like. I called his bluff and said let's do it, and we did. It was weird, since we were friends, but that's kind of the way our friendship was - just open and cool with each other.
    So, after he said it was ok, he could see why I liked it, but he wasn't gay and he just wanted the experience. I know it seemed strange to me at the time and still does. He did get married, has kids, etc. We've never talked about it since, and it never changed anything as far as our friendship goes. I don't know if he ever did anything with any other guy, I think, at the time, he just wanted to give it a go to see what it was like.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 01, 2012 8:11 PM GMT
    Yeah, in grade school, I used to mess around with my friends on sleepovers.icon_redface.gificon_razz.gif

    P.S. They wanted it!!!
  • Fable

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    Oct 01, 2012 8:38 PM GMT
    sbwlguy saidA straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.



    I came out. Then had sex with a girl because I was curious. Does this mean I'm straight?
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    Oct 01, 2012 11:08 PM GMT
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    sbwlguy saidA straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.



    I came out. Then had sex with a girl because I was curious. Does this mean I'm straight?


    Yeah. What he said.
  • atomicare

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    Oct 02, 2012 8:54 PM GMT
    I really thing I have.

    So last night, a woman that i hook up with sometimes tell me that she wants a 3 way, so I said find someone, come over. Turns out she wanted a mmf 3 way. She told a guy where I lvie, told him to meet there. I have never talked to this guy, juts know he is coming. After about 25 mins, she calls says shes out, cant make it. Well, he shows up, cute little bugger, and i inform him of the news. Hes obviously disappointed, but says he can hang out anyway.

    I have to think, where is this going? we chat about her, I have fucked her before, tell him how hot she is, blah blah, and I can see he is getting hard, all he had on was some nylon type basketball shorts, no way to hide it. I out of the blue say do you want sucked, hes got his cock out like 2 seconds later. Nice shaved dick, and big round balls. I was overwhelmed how open he was to this. As I am sucking him, I ask if he has done this before, said once on a dare he let a guy suck him for like 10 seconds. Well, after about 10 mins of me sucking his cock, licking his balls, he says stand up, I want to try something. I thouught he was going to reposition or something, but no, he grabs my junk, sticks my cock in his mouth.

    He wasnt very good, lol. grabbed too tight, and sucked too hard, but I guess for his first dick in his mouth, I cant complain. He never got off, but said baby steps, and would meet me again.

    Just wonder what it would have been if she would had showed up, lol
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    Oct 02, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    Every guy I've ever been with identified as straight.

    Well, before he came out of the closet.
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    Oct 02, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidEvery guy I've ever been with identified as straight.

    .



    Sure they have. Straight from one guy to the next! LOLicon_wink.gif

    Oh and Yes! For how things turned out, just read my post "Best Man?" in the same forum.
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    Oct 02, 2012 9:12 PM GMT
    I've cuddled with a straight guy before but I don't think that counts....he held me at night when we went to sleep it felt really nice.

    And he didn't get weirded out the next morning. ha
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    Oct 02, 2012 9:14 PM GMT
    fable said
    sbwlguy saidA straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.



    I came out. Then had sex with a girl because I was curious. Does this mean I'm straight?


    No.

    Means you are bi.
  • Fable

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    Oct 04, 2012 10:54 AM GMT
    JOOU said
    fable said
    sbwlguy saidA straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.



    I came out. Then had sex with a girl because I was curious. Does this mean I'm straight?


    No.

    Means you are bi.


    No. It just means I was straight curious. Specially cos I popped a viagra. Stop prescribing labels, not everyone fits into them
  • RudeBoy25

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    Oct 16, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    4 times.
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    Oct 16, 2012 8:30 AM GMT
    sbwlguy saidA straight guy who has sex with another man isn't straight.

    Get over yourself and your fantasy and have a wank.


    yeah, but if a guy has never been with another guy and identifies himself as straight, for all basic purposes, he is a straight guy. Obviously if a guy hooks up with dudes, then he isn't straight. But it's all how the other guy perceives himself.
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    Oct 26, 2012 10:10 AM GMT
    Gave straight guys BJs during high school. Many of times at sleep overs, also in locker rooms after going for a swim