Aug 18, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
so i met a real nice guy and i clicked with him in a way i don't normally click with people we have great conversations and have A LOT (and i mean a lot!) of common interests and come from similar backgrounds (meaning we even both come from dysfunctional families) and are attracted to primarily to each others race (i like asians and he is asian, i am puerto rican he likes latinos). but (just my luck fml!) after we started talking of course something happened. he got a call from his ex whos moving back to tampa. so in the morning i woke up and he had wrote me a long email which by the way meant a lot to me that he thought of my feelings because i have had guys i liked just cut off all contact with me to talk to someone else without a word. but really he did explain the situation and his feelings in the email. so initially when i read the email i was so touch by the thought he cared enough about my feelings to put thought and detail into explaining things to me i wasn't even upset after reading just happy he cared so much in a way that the other guys didn't. though i was a bit disappointed but i understood. anyway in the email he said that night (the night he sent the email after we talked) by some chance ended up getting back into contact with his ex from texas (his friends there gave him his new number) and his ex is moving back and he still has feelings for him and says he wants to try and work things out because he could be "the one" and the way he feels about his ex is unexplainable. but he also said in the email he likes me and feels a connection with me and finds me attractive and would still like to be friends and talk and text and hang out which i would love and means a lot. but i like him too but i don't think i will be able to compete with his ex because he has stronger feelings for him and i don't want to get in the way or wish them bad at all. but i just like him a lot. what should i do?