Getting over an ex?

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    Aug 18, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    Any tips?
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 18, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
    Get drunk and find a rebound guy.icon_biggrin.gif
  • Kriss

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    Aug 18, 2012 5:33 PM GMT
    Keep yourself busy, just do things you like keep your head up and take it day by day. Sorry about the breakup :/
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    Aug 18, 2012 5:35 PM GMT
    Keep doin you and don't worry about these lames out there that only believe in playing others. Stay focused on yourself and live life icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 18, 2012 8:42 PM GMT
    Focus on keeping your mind occupied and let time handle the rest.
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    Aug 18, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    The best way to get Over a guy....
    Get Underneath another one...
    Just kidd'n..

    (Everytime i hear about a breakup my smile goes away..huh!)

    My friend..You have to tough it out...
    For starters remember..out of sight ..out of mind..
    Pics..texts..mailz..of or from this guy should be gone!

    Depending on your personality ..you might have to cut all ties with this guy..right now it's about you and your emotional health!

    In the mean time get out and around and remember your'e young, good lookin', and free...

    Perfect time to:

    start projects..
    Go to the gym more..
    Connect with family and friends..
    Get a pet..
    Re do your room..
    Put some more hours in on school work..or work

    Keep moving..keep busy..and keep in touch!
    Anocxu
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    Aug 18, 2012 9:06 PM GMT
    -Time.
    -Keeping busy.
    -Meeting other guy/making other friends.
    -Hanging out with friends
    -Stop yourself when your drifts into thinking about him.
    -More time.
  • jayatl56

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    Aug 18, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    Most of what you're being told here is spot on. One other thing I recommend is total disconnect. I know this depends on you and how the break up occurred (the reasons etc) but honestly, the best way to move on is to break off all communications. Delete email addresses, phone numbers, FB connection... any way that might allow him contact.
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    Aug 18, 2012 10:03 PM GMT
    Myol said-Time.
    -Keeping busy.
    -Meeting other guy/making other friends.
    -Hanging out with friends
    -Stop yourself when your drifts into thinking about him.
    -More time.

    And lots more time. And while this time is passing, like others have said, don't have contact with him. Save future contact for the time when you are truly over him, however long that might take.
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    Aug 18, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidMost of what you're being told here is spot on. One other thing I recommend is total disconnect. I know this depends on you and how the break up occurred (the reasons etc) but honestly, the best way to move on is to break off all communications. Delete email addresses, phone numbers, FB connection... any way that might allow him contact.

    This really is true. The sooner you cut ties and start fresh, the sooner you can make real advances toward the next stage of your life. Transitions are the toughest parts of life, so the sooner you get yourself through the transition, the better off you'll be.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 18, 2012 10:27 PM GMT
    SourceFour said
    jayatl56 saidMost of what you're being told here is spot on. One other thing I recommend is total disconnect. I know this depends on you and how the break up occurred (the reasons etc) but honestly, the best way to move on is to break off all communications. Delete email addresses, phone numbers, FB connection... any way that might allow him contact.

    This really is true. The sooner you cut ties and start fresh, the sooner you can make real advances toward the next stage of your life. Transitions are the toughest parts of life, so the sooner you get yourself through the transition, the better off you'll be.



    You have been getting good advice, also try and approach it logically,
    what is most prudent for you in the long term, try and set aside the negative stuff, retain the positive and turn the corner. Once you really accept that you are better off, you are on your way. Also think about what you've learned from the relationship and I don't mean a list of negatives.. think about how it made you a better person or smarter and consider carefully when the next guy comes around!

    Good luck!
  • Sportsfan1

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    Aug 18, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidThe best way to get Over a guy....
    Get Underneath another one...
    Just kidd'n..

    (Everytime i hear about a breakup my smile goes away..huh!)

    My friend..You have to tough it out...
    For starters remember..out of sight ..out of mind..
    Pics..texts..mailz..of or from this guy should be gone!

    Depending on your personality ..you might have to cut all ties with this guy..right now it's about you and your emotional health!

    In the mean time get out and around and remember your'e young, good lookin', and free...

    Perfect time to:

    start projects..
    Go to the gym more..
    Connect with family and friends..
    Get a pet..
    Re do your room..
    Put some more hours in on school work..or work

    Keep moving..keep busy..and keep in touch!
    Anocxu
    This is the best advice!
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    Aug 18, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    work alot and keep yourself busy!!
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    Aug 18, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    Similar situation twice.....both times, saw an MD (got meds also).

    They insist that you remove yourself from the person that is the cause......whatever that takes.....nothing short of that will do.
  • AlexanderTohm...

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    Aug 18, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    just remember time is the greatest healer, yes it will be a complete heart breaker at first, but if you stand back and re asses the relationship and look at the good thing's, you will see that you have most probably learnt a lot about yourself and how good things can be again.

    obviously every break up is different, depending on the nature of it, you have too decide what may be the best course to take, i.e a messy one - cut off all connections, try to get some clarity without a constant reminder. or if it was one in which things were just never meant to be, and there was just a loss of love, then the chances are you can still have him in your life, but as a friend

    all break ups hurt, and its always sad to hear about it, but it is just a fact of life, you just have to keep your chin up and your options open

    hope this helped bee!

    sorry too here about it..x
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    Aug 19, 2012 5:41 AM GMT
    copious amounts of alcohol and random hate sex.