Meeting People Out of the US

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    Aug 18, 2012 5:33 PM GMT
    Im just wondering if anyone has used this site to actually develop relationships friends, lovers, etc with anyone from another country, and did it actually work.
  • ohioguy12

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    Aug 18, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    Not on here, but there is this guy I met on a4a. He was from Spain, and I already made arrangements to go to Spain. After 3 or 4 months of talking to him, I hung out with him several times while I was in Spain, and stayed at his place for one of the weekends I was there. He was one of the nicest guys I've ever met, he cooked for me, did my laundry without me asking him to. I think that the feeling is mutual that if he lived in the US, or if I lived in Madrid, we would probably date, but as of right now, we've just established a really good friendship.

    There are some other guys too because I'm mostly into foreign guys, but this one sticks out, and is the most important.
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    Aug 18, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    That was one of the reasons I joined RJ for ! .. would love to see it's working icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 18, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    ha yea my ex was from italy .... but sometimes we viewed things extremely different ... he was a little crazy lol but i loved him
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    Aug 18, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    Met a guy on here from Australia a while back and became very close (he is no longer on the site)... Im moving to Australia for a year in October and we have plans to meet up while I'm over there. Although he has a boyfriend now so it will probably just be a friendly hangout.
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    Aug 18, 2012 10:03 PM GMT
    I met up with a really nice guy from RJ the other night; he's from OS but living in Australia at the moment.
  • trl_

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    Aug 18, 2012 10:08 PM GMT
    premedstudent saidIm just wondering if anyone has used this site to actually develop relationships friends, lovers, etc with anyone from another country, and did it actually work.


    most of the people i'm friends with on here are not american
  • jayatl56

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    Aug 18, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    If I wanted to be dating a foreigner I'd be on a foreign date site. I didn't think RJ was for meeting guys living abroad.

    While I lived in Prague, I met a Romanian guy on line and had a great rapport. He visited Prague and it was crazy intense. Then in bed that first night we got right to the back door and he stopped, rolled over and told me that he had met someone in Bucharest and couldn't go any further. I was crushed.

    They have since broke up and we reconnected. I'm seriously thinking of buying him a ticket to Atlanta (or somewhere in the US) but it won't work. He won't move from Bucharest, period. He owns his own business (a convenience store) and won't leave it. And for me, Romania has nothing for me to sustain myself although maybe I wouldn't really need a lot to live there.