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My question is about Internet dating sites and bar / clubs / gym overlap. Do you feel that when you log onto grindr scruff manhunt adam4adam, or when you go out to bars and clubs, or when you're working out, it's always the same people, just different venues. It's like by now I can look at a guy on the street I know if I have seen his profile before.

Does this happen to you? If yes, then what do you do about it? Our dating pool is not as big as the heterosexuals because there are simply less gays than straights in this world.

Thx in advance for replying.

You realize that you don't need the internet to meet people to date and instead fill your with activities you enjoy...

Chainers saidYou realize that you don't need the internet to meet people to date and instead fill your with activities you enjoy...

I work like 40 hours a week and I go to school full time...so....
There are activities I enjoy but gay guys don't exactly enjoy reading about art and history. haha

Maybe you exhausted every possible venue. Take vacations and you'll be the new meat on the block

Doraemon said gay guys don't exactly enjoy reading about art and history. haha

Yes because during my art major all I read were synopses for Sex and the City.

LadyMars saidMaybe you exhausted every possible venue. Take vacations and you'll be the new meat on the block

It sounds like you are too busy to be dating. The vacation idea (if you can take time for that) is a great way to meet/hookup with new men. Go to a gay vacation destination, relax, do your reading, meet guys and f_ck. Maybe your perception of it all being the same guys everywhere is partly due to a small gay population in D.C.?? I don't think you would have the same perception in San Francisco, Los Angeles, or New York, where gay men probably number over 100,000 in each of them (except that you may often see the same guys in the same bars). I have to qualify this opinion by revealing that I have never been on grinder, A4A, scruff etc site, so don't have personal experience with them.

no, I don't feel that way.

Ariodante said

Doraemon said gay guys don't exactly enjoy reading about art and history. haha

Yes because during my art major all I read were synopses for Sex and the City.

But where do we meet the guys like you??

Doraemon said

Chainers saidYou realize that you don't need the internet to meet people to date and instead fill your with activities you enjoy...

I work like 40 hours a week and I go to school full time...so....
There are activities I enjoy but gay guys don't exactly enjoy reading about art and history. haha

I am really into history . . . ancient tmes (Egypt, Greece, Rome), fall of the Roman Empire, Tudor England, the Salem WitchTrials, the American Revolution, the fall of the Romanoffs

Eclectic, but I love those eras in history

mileshelvetica said

Doraemon said

Chainers saidYou realize that you don't need the internet to meet people to date and instead fill your with activities you enjoy...

I work like 40 hours a week and I go to school full time...so....
There are activities I enjoy but gay guys don't exactly enjoy reading about art and history. haha

I am really into history . . . ancient tmes (Egypt, Greece, Rome), fall of the Roman Empire, Tudor England, the Salem WitchTrials, the American Revolution, the fall of the Romanoffs

Eclectic, but I love those eras in history

Your RJ photo looks like one of them Classical statue fragments of a choice body part.