The continuing adventures of the clingiest man evar.

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    Aug 19, 2012 3:32 PM GMT
    To recap, been talking to this guy since mid June. After about two weeks, he started not returning my missives. That went on for about three to four weeks. But now...

    He has called me on Skype eight nights of the past nine. One each night, he has gotten upset that I had to go to bed as we talked. Two nights ago, I even made him cry when I told him that I think I may love him. Tears of joy, I think.

    He did admit he was testing me though. I don't like that, but it was "testing to see if I was willing to work to get him." That was his final reason for why he started ignoring me. So... if I am to believe him, then me being stupid and sending way too many messages as often as I did was actually the right answer.

    He's gonna be in my area in less than three weeks, and he keeps telling me he can hardly wait.

    So yeah. Just in case some of you who's memory on these boards goes back forever were wondering, I think he might actually be into me.

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    Aug 19, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    If you put up with all that, you're the clingy one. He'll probably flake.
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    Aug 19, 2012 9:00 PM GMT
    I dunno what to tell you!
    The reality is it's been two months..and you still should continue to date!

    "He did admit he was testing me though. I don't like that, but it was "testing to see if I was willing to work to get him." That was his final reason for why he started ignoring me."

    OP..that's a childish way to find out if someone likes you..talk to him about this..Games like this will get old and anoying the more serious you guys get!

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    With that said...Good luck..make it work!
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    Sounds like a complete match to me; work them fingers. Time fly's when you multitask.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:05 AM GMT
    A waste of wise words...

    I made a similar mistake years ago... umm, not*