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    Aug 15, 2008 7:18 PM GMT
    Hi, ok, this is extremely confusing to me as I am a real ladies man, but for as long as I can remember I have wanted to touch a man to see. How can I meet someone who is able to help with no strings, I just want to test the water so to speak. Any advice would be really helpful
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    Aug 15, 2008 7:22 PM GMT
    close your eyes... stick you hand down your pants...
    and pretend. icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 15, 2008 8:00 PM GMT
    Bicurious. Hm.... icon_wink.gif

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    Aug 15, 2008 8:16 PM GMT
    doodle saidHi, ok, this is extremely confusing to me as I am a real ladies man, but for as long as I can remember I have wanted to touch a man to see. How can I meet someone who is able to help with no strings, I just want to test the water so to speak. Any advice would be really helpful


    What is the extent of your wanting to "touch a man?"

    If it's sexual intimacy you're after, then I believe there are a lot of men who are open to a no-strings arrangement. Upload a picture to complete your advertising. icon_smile.gif

    If being with a man doesn't work out for you, then that's fine. But there's that iffy part about reaching a conclusion based on one (or two) experiences. Are you just looking for one experience and intend to base your judgment on that? Such may not be wise.

    Another question is: are you entertaining this thought because of a hunch that you might be gay or at least bisexual, or are you simply "curious?" The dangerous part is if you suddenly discover that you're developing feelings towards another man. Are you ready to deal with that? Can you deny it if it does happen? Will you?

    So many questions.
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    Aug 15, 2008 8:17 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidI think doodle is in need of some...

    BROMANCE....


    LOL..oh that word cracks me up.


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    Aug 15, 2008 8:22 PM GMT
    doodle saidHi, ok, this is extremely confusing to me as I am a real ladies man, but for as long as I can remember I have wanted to touch a man to see. How can I meet someone who is able to help with no strings, I just want to test the water so to speak. Any advice would be really helpful


    There are no lack of men who are bi-curious or gay who would be happy to "go swimming" with you so to speak. You will need to show them a picture of you. Most men are visually stimulated and will not take a chance on a hook-up unless they think the guy is sexy.

    I must admit the phrase "I have wanted to touch a man to see" I found worthy of Henry James in terms of its' obtuseness. To see if you get hard? To see if you enjoy it? So many questions. BTW have you ever had strong emotions or crushes for other guys, or is it just curiousity.
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    Aug 15, 2008 8:27 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidIf we weren't pressured to believe that homosexuality was a sin or bad I think nearly 80% of all men on this planet would experiment. Just like so many woman do.



    Could not agree more!
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    Aug 15, 2008 8:31 PM GMT
    Seriously, though. Being bicurious is fine, man. Even 99% gay men like me get curious about women sometimes.

    Sexuality is fluid, so don't sweat it. (I just made a pun! icon_biggrin.gif) Anyway, LOL, it doesn't make you any less of a man because you are attracted to other men.

    Why the need to hide? There are many bisexuals out there and even here. Want a quick hook-up to see? Some guys would do that, I suggest gay hook-up sites. icon_razz.gif There are even guys here, I think. You'll need a picture though and be verified as SurrealLife said, heh.

    Just BE CAREFUL.

    HIV is a reality, and it infects everybody, gay or straight.

    That said, if you are married and cheating... icon_evil.gif!!!
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    Aug 15, 2008 8:39 PM GMT
    sadly I don't think any of our responses is helping this... "Real Ladies Man" icon_biggrin.gif

    and since my focus - here at 4:40pm on a Friday is on Happy Hour - all I am prepared to suggest is go to a gay bar, set your sites on some guy and hope for the best! icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2008 1:03 AM GMT
    http://london.craigslist.co.uk/m4m/ Be safeicon_cool.gif
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    Aug 16, 2008 1:07 AM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidIf we weren't pressured to believe that homosexuality was a sin or bad I think nearly 80% of all men on this planet would experiment. Just like so many woman do.



    Ain't that the truth!
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    Aug 16, 2008 1:07 AM GMT


    Step one: put some pics of you on your profile.

    Step two: fill in your profile fields.

    Step three: create a hotlist.

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    Aug 16, 2008 1:12 AM GMT

    Go to a Gay bar and tell anyone exactly what you wrote there.
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    Aug 16, 2008 5:23 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidIf we weren't pressured to believe that homosexuality was a sin or bad I think nearly 80% of all men on this planet would experiment. Just like so many woman do.



    Based on my experiences and revelations of "straight" friends, I'd say at least 80% of men already experiment. It's the other 20% that would need to catch up.

    On a side note, Doodle, try a cruising site (manhunt, squirt, etc...). Just feel 'em out right. I don't promote cruising or anonymous sex, but if you want to experiment, I'd suggest that - SAFELY!
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    Aug 16, 2008 7:42 PM GMT
    Listen to Nike... and "Just Do It"
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    Aug 16, 2008 8:03 PM GMT
    If you're thinking about it...
    you're already going there in your mind

    Hmm...no strings sex with a guy?
    I think you can have them lining up at the door
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    Two things can happen
    First it can be just ok and just something to add to your sexual reportoire

    the other is that he knocks your socks off
    and we'll see you at the next gay pride parade