Forgiveness - who would you like to forgive?

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    Aug 20, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    Would you like to forgive someone? I'm a firm believer that only after you forgive someone or something they've done, that you can move forward, and we would all like to move towards a more peaceful and harmonious life icon_biggrin.gif

    Post who you would like to forgive here, and most importantly please try to FEEL it icon_smile.gif

    Release that hatred, then move forward with your life. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:30 AM GMT
    Nope. Not until he admits he was fucking WRONG.
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    You forgive someone not for them, but for you, right? You forgive a person so you're not holding onto negative energy and all that. U do it for u
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:32 AM GMT
    Import saidYou forgive someone not for them, but for you, right? You forgive a person so you're not holding onto negative energy and all that. U do it for u


    He was still wrong.
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:33 AM GMT
    Pretty much what Import said. Although many situations I am wrong, many more situations I [feel] like I'm not in the wrong and apologize anyway - simply because it releases negative energy. And for some reason when I'm really upset/frustrated my chest becomes really tight icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    I forgive everyone for everything.

    It used to be a type of naivety, but it transformed into a way of keeping peace with myself.

    If it weren't for my forgiving nature, I'd step in and continue the job of the "tubby wubby with bad aim" who shot up the FRC, and I wouldn't stop there.
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    He'll rue the day he ever crossed me!!! icon_mad.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidHe'll rue the day he ever crossed me!!! icon_mad.gif
    Does this mean you'll tie me up and do unspeakably painful yet awesome sexy things to me?
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidHe'll rue the day he ever crossed me!!! icon_mad.gif


    I know right? I tried to burn his car down but I found out you can't burn up an entire Buick. Still, fire is pretty cool and takes care of a LOT of problems.
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    To answer your question, there's no one I'd like to forgive nor will I ever really buy into the concept...

    I'm not sure I could completely forgive anyone -- doing so takes responsibility out of the picture, and that's not something I agree with.

    That doesn't mean I'm a ruthless prick or lack some bit of humanity, either, it just means that I expect you to absolve yourself because I can't and won't do it for you.
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    Aug 20, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
    Daas said
    unfounded7 saidHe'll rue the day he ever crossed me!!! icon_mad.gif


    I know right? I tried to burn his car down but I found out you can't burn up an entire Buick. Still, fire is pretty cool and takes care of a LOT of problems.
    Oh don't be such a flaming faggot. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Daas said
    unfounded7 saidHe'll rue the day he ever crossed me!!! icon_mad.gif


    I know right? I tried to burn his car down but I found out you can't burn up an entire Buick. Still, fire is pretty cool and takes care of a LOT of problems.
    Oh don't be such a flaming faggot. icon_razz.gif


    Boy, I am the PHD of faggotry. Plus I know a convenient cliff over the Pacific Ocean with easy access for.. um.. disposing of large objects. Like burned out Buicks or something.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    There's No one to forgive.
    They're All dead.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    Daas said
    paulflexes said
    Daas said
    unfounded7 saidHe'll rue the day he ever crossed me!!! icon_mad.gif


    I know right? I tried to burn his car down but I found out you can't burn up an entire Buick. Still, fire is pretty cool and takes care of a LOT of problems.
    Oh don't be such a flaming faggot. icon_razz.gif


    Boy, I am the PHD of faggotry. Plus I know a convenient cliff over the Pacific Ocean with easy access for.. um.. disposing of large objects. Like burned out Buicks or something.
    I flew the coastline from Santa Monica Pier to St. Clemente a couple weeks ago.

    There are MANY places to throw a Buick off a cliff. And I have pics to prove it. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    Paul i forgive you for last night!
    It happens to a lot of guys..! dont worry..!
    Cheer up 'little' buddy.. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:11 AM GMT
    and I have pics of a very rusty barnacle encrusted buick. You lose Royce.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidPaul i forgive you for last night!
    It happens to a lot of guys..! dont worry..!
    Cheer up 'little' buddy.. icon_razz.gif
    If you truly forgtive me, you'll PM me your ph# so I can talk, cause I'm bored as fuck in this small town. icon_lol.gif

    But even if you don't, I'll still see you in a couple week when I move back down there. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:13 AM GMT
    Daas saidand I have pics of a very rusty barnacle encrusted buick. You lose Royce.
    I never lose. I only wait it out till the win is awesome enough to be worth winning. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:13 AM GMT
    This may come across as obnoxious or self-centered, and for that I am sorry, but I have been thinking about this, and really the one person I need to forgive is myself - because I am harder on myself than anyone else ever can be - and I need to forgive myself for choosing to believe all the negative things that have been said about me - throughout my entire life.

    That is all.

    I will try not to mention this again. - Moving forward.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    I forgive anyone who thinks they're doing wrong or are a damper in my life... cause that is impossible...

    I also forgive those who are trying to do me wrong, and trying to be a damper to my life... cause that is impossible.

    Life is imperfect, another scratch on purpose or accident doesn't ruin much on twistafuckadablement of broken glass, nails, paper and glue... just remain distant to get a Monet-esque perspectiveicon_wink.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:16 AM GMT
    ConQuest saidThis may come across as obnoxious or self-centered, and for that I am sorry, but I have been thinking about this, and really the one person I need to forgive is myself - because I am harder on myself than anyone else ever can be - and I need to forgive myself for choosing to believe all the negative things that have been said about me - throughout my entire life.

    That is all.
    I can agree with that.

    Once you learn to forgive yourself for your own shit, forgiving other people is easier.

    This was learned from experience. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:19 AM GMT
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    ConQuest saidThis may come across as obnoxious or self-centered, and for that I am sorry, but I have been thinking about this, and really the one person I need to forgive is myself - because I am harder on myself than anyone else ever can be - and I need to forgive myself for choosing to believe all the negative things that have been said about me - throughout my entire life.

    That is all.
    I can agree with that.

    Once you learn to forgive yourself for your own shit, forgiving other people is easier.

    This was learned from experience. icon_biggrin.gif

    Life is shitty when you start to sound think to yourself all the negative shit mean people have been telling you throughout your life... Never tell yourself the same negativity that others do... concoct your own... if you have to... but when someone beats you down for this that or the other... lift yourself up, cause they're the ugly ones.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
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    paulflexes said
    ConQuest saidThis may come across as obnoxious or self-centered, and for that I am sorry, but I have been thinking about this, and really the one person I need to forgive is myself - because I am harder on myself than anyone else ever can be - and I need to forgive myself for choosing to believe all the negative things that have been said about me - throughout my entire life.

    That is all.
    I can agree with that.

    Once you learn to forgive yourself for your own shit, forgiving other people is easier.

    This was learned from experience. icon_biggrin.gif

    Life is shitty when you start to sound think to yourself all the negative shit mean people have been telling you throughout your life... Never tell yourself the same negativity that others do... concoct your own... if you have to... but when someone beats you down for this that or the other... lift yourself up, cause they're the ugly ones.
    The phrase "go fuck yourself" is the single most effective phrase in the English language.

    I've told it (IRL) to more people than I care to admit.

    It's awesome to see haters' faces when you say it to them. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    El_Crankodor saidI forgive JR_RJ for not being naked in my bed at this moment.
    I don't forgive him for that. I'm holding a grudge till I can hold his biceps.
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    Aug 20, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    When people wrong me I really like to make them feel like I don't have any ill feelings towards them. I want them to feel like I actually really want to put all this unpleasantness behind us, start over and maybe in time develop a connection and a friendship that will solidify over time with our mutually shared experiences, joy, and happiness, looking back at all the happy memories we've built.




    ...then FUCK up that bitch when they least expect it. Motherfucker. Teach you to fucking cross me, fucker.

    ^_^