Coming out stories.

  • BriBri8998

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    Aug 20, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
    Tell me yours, please?
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    Aug 20, 2012 7:23 AM GMT
    Came out to friends at age 21 when I moved in with my first live-in bf (had secret ones before that).

    Got caught by my parents at age 23 necking and touching my bf when we stayed at my parent's house one night, and they came home early from church the next day and we didn't hear them come in.
  • BriBri8998

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    Aug 20, 2012 7:37 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidCame out to friends at age 21 when I moved in with my first live-in bf (had secret ones before that).

    Got caught by my parents at age 23 necking and touching my bf when we stayed at my parent's house one night, and they came home early from church the next day and we didn't hear them come in.


    Wow, that sucks. Did they care? I would have been like "This is how I WANTED you to find out". icon_razz.gif
  • TheBizMan

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    Aug 20, 2012 8:38 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidCame out to friends at age 21 when I moved in with my first live-in bf (had secret ones before that).

    Got caught by my parents at age 23 necking and touching my bf when we stayed at my parent's house one night, and they came home early from church the next day and we didn't hear them come in.


    They musta been like "Oh no we adopted a gay!"
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:14 PM GMT
    "Mom, I'm gay."

    "Did you take the garbage out?"

    The end.
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:18 PM GMT
    i have a really funny story about how i came out to my friends
    well i think its funny
    but im too tired to tell it right now
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:19 PM GMT
    I told my mom when I was about 13. "Mom, I think I'm gay" she prayed icon_neutral.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    op and the guy above me are both bri
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    Parents usually figure it out before the kid does, so it's rarely a surprise to them. It's usually only shocking if they're willingly blind for some reason.
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:40 PM GMT
    "Mama i like dick"

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    Lol I'm just playin. I have told this story for a long time now. One day my older straight brother was tampering with my journal one day while i was in college at class and found about my attraction to both women and men. When i came home that day there was a huge blowout between me, my brother and mother it didn't really end that well but my sister whos a lesbian supported me and told my brother what he did was a hate crime and could have been in trouble for it.

    This occured in October 2008. About 4 yrs later he finally came to terms with my decision and was accepting of the idea and we finally came back together as brothers with me giving him a huge hug. My father is the only one who doesn't know but is beginning to speculate. I don't think i will ever tell him after what i saw him do to my sister. icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    Edward24 said"Mama i like dick"

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    gurl you cray cray im glad you just plain us
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    Neight said
    Edward24 said"Mama i like dick"

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    gurl you cray cray im glad you just plain us


    lol icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    Brother : What's the name of your girlfriend?
    Me : Adrien
    Brother : HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    He couldn't stop laughing for like 30 min. The best reaction ever icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 20, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
    WhyWhySee saidWhich story? I have dozens

    About 50% went like this:
    Me- "I'm gay"
    Them-"What?! I had no idea, that's cool, so are you seeing anyone?"

    About 50% went like this:
    Me- "I'm gay"
    Them-"I thought so. Glad you're finally out. Are you seeing anyone?"



    ^ This is pretty much how all of my conversations have gone with friends.

    Conversations with my family were much more different, in that it seemed to come as a complete surprise to each and every one of them. But even though the discussions were held separately (first with Mom & Dad, then brother, then sister), once the initial shock wore off, the first thing they said (almost from a script) was that it changed nothing, they still loved me, would support me in any way I wanted or needed, and wanted me to be happy above and beyond everything else.

    I wish that everyone's coming out process was as easy and uneventful as mine.

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    Aug 20, 2012 3:09 PM GMT
    Isugemi saidBrother : What's the name of your girlfriend?
    Me : Adrien
    Brother : HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    He couldn't stop laughing for like 30 min. The best reaction ever icon_smile.gif


    Haha did he suspect then?