How to get over love

  • JosephC

    Posts: 92

    Aug 21, 2012 6:37 PM GMT
    I need some help as to how to go about getting over someone you loved. I am not one to wallow however I seriously can't stop thinking about what we once were. Anybody have some good advice on moving on or just some changes in life you could make to start that process???
  • FreshstartDE

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    Aug 21, 2012 7:48 PM GMT
    I'm in the same boat as you buddy. I moved to another state to try and move on from it, but I still think about him all the time. I think time is the best cure. I try to keep myself as busy as possible and focus on myself and what I need... Spend a lot of time at the gym and work, but all it takes is a movie on TV or a song on the radio , and I think about him and what I've lost again.
    I'm sure this hasn't helped you, but I know in time You and I will both be fine. Time heals all and it wont be long before you find someone or something else to take your mind off of it and on to a new and exciting future. Hang tough man.
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    Aug 21, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
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    My friend..You have to tough it out...
    For starters remember..out of sight ..out of mind..
    Pics..texts..mailz..of or from this guy should be gone!

    Depending on your personality ..you might have to cut all ties with this guy..right now it's about you and your emotional health!

    In the mean time get out and around and remember your'e young, good lookin', and free...

    Perfect time to:

    start projects..
    Go to the gym more..
    Connect with family and friends..
    Get a pet..
    Re do your room..
    Put some more hours in on school work..or work

    Keep moving..keep busy..and keep in touch!
    Anocxu
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    Aug 21, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    The best way to forget an old love is with a new love.
  • JosephC

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    Aug 26, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    FreshstartDE saidI'm in the same boat as you buddy. I moved to another state to try and move on from it, but I still think about him all the time. I think time is the best cure. I try to keep myself as busy as possible and focus on myself and what I need... Spend a lot of time at the gym and work, but all it takes is a movie on TV or a song on the radio , and I think about him and what I've lost again.
    I'm sure this hasn't helped you, but I know in time You and I will both be fine. Time heals all and it wont be long before you find someone or something else to take your mind off of it and on to a new and exciting future. Hang tough man.
    Thanks man!! That is so true; "Our song" always comes on and I've gradually had to move past it, I think I'll be okay though, unexpected but I met this really cool guy here on rj. Haha oh why do I always fall for the ones that live so far away!!! lol . Thanks again, I hope the same for you and if I can get over him then I know you can too.icon_wink.gif
  • JosephC

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    Aug 26, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    Haha thanks to all of you. Yeah I completely erased him from my life. I've been having this insaciable urge to go out though so I'm good... I think!icon_neutral.gif
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    Aug 26, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^
    Taking life by the horns and moving on.. icon_biggrin.gif
  • helios01

    Posts: 349

    Aug 26, 2012 12:50 AM GMT
    1. Try to get rid of things that remind you of him
    2. Go out for walks or bike rides
    3. hang out with your friends
    5. eat waffles
    6. have someone to talk to
    4. make a project for yourself (lego death star?)
    7.