Dating guys vs. females

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    Aug 21, 2012 8:12 PM GMT
    I have yet to date a dude but I'm really hoping its a lot easier than dating a female.
    Please tell me I'll never have to
    -buy flowers or jewelry again
    -watch dumbass chick flicks
    -spend what seems like days in a shopping mall
    -listen to bitching about people they hate but will still hangout with, or when you tell them the truth but they don't like the answer
    -dealing with emotional drama when there is a logical explanation.

    What are some of the pros and cons with dating men vs women?
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    Aug 21, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    we're gay, we like dick. how would we know about dating women?
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    Aug 21, 2012 8:14 PM GMT
    icon_twisted.gifwhen dating men, you don't have to do anything! lol... it's really what your partner is into. I drug one of my boyfriends to a livestock auction as a date once :p He was bored, but I sure had a blast!

    Some masculine men dont like flowers and the whole cheesy public attention getter gifts.. Just average dates are fun. But, I know a few flambouyant guys who have the need to be showered with random gifts from their partners.
  • WhoDey

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    Aug 21, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    Apples and oranges. You won't have those problems (actually you could, especially emotional drama), but there will be an entire new set of problems.
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    Aug 21, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    Whitey89 saidI have yet to date a dude but I'm really hoping its a lot easier than dating a female.
    Please tell me I'll never have to
    -buy flowers or jewelry again
    -watch dumbass chick flicks
    -spend what seems like days in a shopping mall
    -listen to bitching about people they hate but will still hangout with, or when you tell them the truth but they don't like the answer
    -dealing with emotional drama when there is a logical explanation.

    What are some of the pros and cons with dating men vs women?


    Are you bisexual? If you are I suggest you date women instead of men. Saves you from the headaches.

    Not only you'll need to do ALL that when you're dating guys, you'll need to be prepared to:

    -ask them if they used condoms when they were having sex with other people
    -dealing with a lot more flakiness
    -dealing with a lot more injustice
    -having to workout ALL THE TIME at the gym
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 21, 2012 8:30 PM GMT
    LadyMars said
    Whitey89 saidI have yet to date a dude but I'm really hoping its a lot easier than dating a female.
    Please tell me I'll never have to
    -buy flowers or jewelry again
    -watch dumbass chick flicks
    -spend what seems like days in a shopping mall
    -listen to bitching about people they hate but will still hangout with, or when you tell them the truth but they don't like the answer
    -dealing with emotional drama when there is a logical explanation.

    What are some of the pros and cons with dating men vs women?


    Are you bisexual? If you are I suggest you date women instead of men. Saves you from the headaches.

    Not only you'll need to do ALL that when you're dating guys, you'll need to be prepared to:

    -ask them if they used condoms when they were having sex with other people
    -dealing with a lot more flakiness
    -dealing with a lot more injustice
    -having to workout ALL THE TIME at the gym


    Sad, but true.icon_lol.gificon_cry.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 21, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    Just make sure you pick a guy that likes being a guy and not one that's trying to be a girl .... big clue is in the mannerism (wearing make-up, doesn't dress masculine) ... but it's not that hard to figure out already
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    Aug 21, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    PieceOfMe saidwe're gay, we like dick. how would we know about dating women?


    hahaha
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    Aug 21, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    PieceOfMe saidwe're gay, we like dick. how would we know about dating women?
    ^ This!
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    Aug 21, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    Well I didn't always know I was gay until recently so there was a long period of time where I was dating females. I was just thinking there may be obvious differences between genders but we all humans so maybe there isn't much distinction between dating either one. I guess if you compatible with someone (male or female) shit should just work out. There's gonna be negatives and positives but as long as your both happy in the end then I guess it doesn't really matter.
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    Aug 21, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    PieceOfMe saidwe're gay, we like dick. how would we know about dating women?

    He's not asking about dating women. He's asking if he's gonna have to endure that list of things dating men.

    I would tell you, Whitey, that you may or may not have to endure any of those things. It depends on the man. Everybody's different. Everybody's complex. Maybe you will find someone who will fit all those criteria. But I would like to tell you, dont go out with some preconceived notion of what a guy must be. Or some imaginary void that you will force another to fit or he's out. Leave some fuzzy edges and blurry details for him to be him....and for you to just roll your eyes at when he is being him.

    I am not sure if I can get this point across to someone so young or whether we all have to live and learn.


    .... I know The Wizard of Oz, the ultimate chick flic....two women trying to kill each other over a pair of shoes. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 21, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    Whitey89 saidWell I didn't always know I was gay until recently so there was a long period of time where I was dating females. I was just thinking there may be obvious differences between genders but we all humans so maybe there isn't much distinction between dating either one. I guess if you compatible with someone (male or female) shit should just work out. There's gonna be negatives and positives but as long as your both happy in the end then I guess it doesn't really matter.
    Just do with them as you'd like them to do with you!icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 22, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
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    PieceOfMe saidwe're gay, we like dick. how would we know about dating women?

    He's not asking about dating women. He's asking if he's gonna have to endure that list of things dating men.

    I would tell you, Whitey, that you may or may not have to endure any of those things. It depends on the man. Everybody's different. Everybody's complex. Maybe you will find someone who will fit all those criteria. But I would like to tell you, dont go out with some preconceived notion of what a guy must be. Or some imaginary void that you will force another to fit or he's out. Leave some fuzzy edges and blurry details for him to be him....and for you to just roll your eyes at when he is being him.

    I am not sure if I can get this point across to someone so young or whether we all have to live and learn.


    I don't think that idea is too complex for me to understand. or maybe I don't fully understand you. But I think what your saying is that no one will fit a cookie cutter fantasy of a person. And if I don't accept peoples flaws you can't experience the good that comes with it. But I wasn't trying to say that I was just curious if someone has dated a female and a male before and what their experiences were. I would assume that this being a gay site that the majority would agree dating a man is better but not necessarily easier. I just it was a dumb thread now that I think about it. my bad
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    Aug 22, 2012 7:55 PM GMT
    Whitey89 saidI have yet to date a dude but I'm really hoping its a lot easier than dating a female.
    Please tell me I'll never have to
    -buy flowers or jewelry again
    -watch dumbass chick flicks
    -spend what seems like days in a shopping mall
    -listen to bitching about people they hate but will still hangout with, or when you tell them the truth but they don't like the answer
    -dealing with emotional drama when there is a logical explanation.

    What are some of the pros and cons with dating men vs women?

    God I hope not =/
    This list makes men seem infinitely better in my eyes lol
    But be ready for a whole new sets of cons....
    Can't say what they all are yet since I'm not an expert yet, you just gotta jump in and try it out.
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    Aug 22, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    Whitey89 saidI have yet to date a dude but I'm really hoping its a lot easier than dating a female.
    Please tell me I'll never have to
    -buy flowers or jewelry again
    -watch dumbass chick flicks
    -spend what seems like days in a shopping mall
    -listen to bitching about people they hate but will still hangout with, or when you tell them the truth but they don't like the answer
    -dealing with emotional drama when there is a logical explanation.


    What are some of the pros and cons with dating men vs women?
    You just alienated about 90% of the guys you could date. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 22, 2012 11:12 PM GMT
    you will have to do most if not all of those things.

    and at some point you WILL either poo on someone, or get pooed on....


    good luck

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