For me it has been not coming out sooner. I think if I came out right after High School when it was safe to do so things would have been easier in all areas of my life. Denial of who I was for so long was affecting every area of my life negatively. I live in Illinois and my immediate family is pretty liberal so I don't know what I was afraid of. In High School it was not an option as I went to a Christian High school filled with gay hating bible thumpers and it was not safe to do so at the time but after H.S I should have.

If I had a time machine I would go back and change it. I wonder often how my life would be today had I done it then.

What about you? What was your biggest regret and if you could go back in time and change it would you?