Distance

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    Aug 23, 2012 12:17 AM GMT
    Me and my boyfriend get along great with each other but when we hang out too much we start to argue about petty stuff. Things are particularly tense when we lived together but once we moved away from each other things were great seeing each other occasionally. Is this a sign that the relationship is doomed or making the heart grow fonder??
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    Aug 23, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    Don't know if it's you or him, but one of you is probably happier living alone.

    I'm one of those people...always enjoyed the "me" time for hobbies and stuff.
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    Aug 23, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    Nobody likes sharing their oreos. I don't think your situation is an indication of failure.
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    Aug 23, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    SSJTrunks saidNobody likes sharing their oreos. I don't think your situation is an indicator of failure.


    I wouldn't mind sharing my Oreo's with you icon_biggrin.gif
  • Jonno11

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    Aug 23, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    Everyone needs "me" time, just to be by themselves and do their own thing from time to time, you guys just figured that out. Its not to say that u living together would = failure, u just have to be able to have your time to yourselves.
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    Aug 23, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    Dennis1992 said
    SSJTrunks saidNobody likes sharing their oreos. I don't think your situation is an indicator of failure.


    I wouldn't mind sharing my Oreo's with you icon_biggrin.gif

    This thread isn't about you sharing Oreo with some other people
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    Aug 23, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    LadyMars said
    Dennis1992 said
    SSJTrunks saidNobody likes sharing their oreos. I don't think your situation is an indicator of failure.


    I wouldn't mind sharing my Oreo's with you icon_biggrin.gif

    This thread isn't about you sharing Oreo with some other people


    ... its not "Other people" Its my BF so yeah... good day to you sir icon_smile.gif *Hugs*
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    Aug 23, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    Dennis1992 said
    LadyMars said
    Dennis1992 said
    SSJTrunks saidNobody likes sharing their oreos. I don't think your situation is an indicator of failure.


    I wouldn't mind sharing my Oreo's with you icon_biggrin.gif

    This thread isn't about you sharing Oreo with some other people


    ... its not "Other people" Its my BF so yeah... good day to you sir icon_smile.gif *Hugs*
    PWN'ed! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 23, 2012 12:54 PM GMT
    Dennis1992 said
    LadyMars said
    Dennis1992 said
    SSJTrunks saidNobody likes sharing their oreos. I don't think your situation is an indicator of failure.


    I wouldn't mind sharing my Oreo's with you icon_biggrin.gif

    This thread isn't about you sharing Oreo with some other people


    ... its not "Other people" Its my BF so yeah... good day to you sir icon_smile.gif *Hugs*


    icon_biggrin.gif <3
  • drypin

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    Aug 23, 2012 1:24 PM GMT
    I find that managing space is an important task in a relationship. Our own need for space changes depending on our state of mind, what life brings our way, etc. And the ambivalence that sometimes occurs between the "puppy love" stage and the enduring one that follows also has an impact on our need for space or closeness. From what you said, I wouldn't throw in the towel if you still have feelings for each other, but communication - as always - is the key.
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    Aug 23, 2012 1:36 PM GMT
    Distance is great, and sometimes absolutely necessary.