Hot Guys in college class

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    Aug 23, 2012 2:01 AM GMT
    So as ive posted before i recently began college. I really want to turn a new leaf here. So here's the situation. There are some hot guys(well three) in my classes but idk should I make conversation with them. I usually like straight guys so idk if that is happening in this case...but i‘ll try Anyone else been in this situation
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    Aug 23, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    If you like "straight guys" (ie. masculine mannerisms), then act like one.

    Make conversation, invite them to do things, develop friendships, and let whatever else happen naturally.

    That's how "straight guys" do it. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 23, 2012 2:15 AM GMT
    Talk to them and tell them you would like to study together and compare notes.

    u never know der str8 or not unless you get 2 know them. g'luk
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 23, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    What kind of straight guys ... there are many different kinds, jocks, study-hards, stoners, boozers ... etc. Which group do you fit in?
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    Aug 23, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidWhat kind of straight guys ... there are many different kinds, jocks, study-hards, stoners, boozers ... etc. Which group do you fit in?
    His profile says he's from "Champaign" so it's obviously the boozers. icon_razz.gif
  • tautomer

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    Aug 23, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    use grindr and see who is in class with you. But only if you can handle the awkward part.

    (75% serious)
  • Montague

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    Aug 23, 2012 5:32 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    AMoonHawk saidWhat kind of straight guys ... there are many different kinds, jocks, study-hards, stoners, boozers ... etc. Which group do you fit in?
    His profile says he's from "Champaign" so it's obviously the boozers. icon_razz.gif


    I just assume all those Champaign/Urbana boys are gay, I drove threw once on my way to Carbondale in southern IL and took a look at grindr.. like 50 messages by the next time I checked
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    Aug 23, 2012 5:32 AM GMT
    tautomer4314 saiduse grindr and see who is in class with you. But only if you can handle the awkward part.

    (75% serious)
    The other 25% says focus on grades and GTFO of college with a good GPA.

    ...unless you want to end up being one of the most educated people working the McDonald's drive-thru window.
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    Aug 23, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    Are they just.. hot or are they hot Nice guys..??
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    Aug 23, 2012 7:35 AM GMT
    Talk to them and see if they enjoy the fact that you're talking to them. Make a special effort so it's obvious you went out of the way to talk to them (therefore outing yourself). Otherwise nothing will happen.
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    Aug 23, 2012 7:38 AM GMT
    Grow a pair and spark up a conversation with them otherwise what's the point? You'll just be a another wanting gay guy who lacks that certain "umph" and ride the sidelines if you don't take matters into your own hands. That whole "I'm shy" shit is not attractive unless you're attracted to weakness. Worst case scenario is that you get shot down. If that happens then you just move on, bro.

    It's not the end of the world.
  • O5vx

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    Aug 23, 2012 7:44 AM GMT
    Don't get too distracted. There are plenty of good guys out there, you just have to have that degree. It makes a huge difference between dating some compatible and ones that ant. By all mines, go out and make friends when your assignments are done.
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    Aug 23, 2012 7:44 AM GMT
    just don't randomly go up and ask hey.....are you gay? lol i've done that and.....i was threaten to get knocked out. twice.
  • O5vx

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    Aug 23, 2012 7:45 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidAre they just.. hot or are they hot Nice guys..??


    Lol, what's the difference.
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    Aug 24, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    I'm at the university in IL up north and the only out guys are really nasty. I teach and let me tell you go to one of the frat parties and get drunk with the hottest guy you can find. You will know if he is gay the next morning when you have his cum all over your face icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    Rain17 saidSo as ive posted before i recently began college. I really want to turn a new leaf here. So here's the situation. There are some hot guys(well three) in my classes but idk should I make conversation with them. I usually like straight guys so idk if that is happening in this case...but i‘ll try Anyone else been in this situation


    holy shit. are you kidding me, this situation is my life!
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:02 AM GMT
    ive been there.i talked about anime and stuff.but well,hes too straight,as in not into guys
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:13 AM GMT
    I don't understand why gay guys act like they have such a difficult time making friends with straight guys. Where is the fear.? Hell, I talk to straight guys in my classes all the time and majority of the time, they're cool as hell.! Seriously, straight guys are NOTHING to be afraid of. icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    Same situation, the guys in my college are smoking hot. If they are very masculine try and become friends with them, for me I stand out like a sore thumb because of my accent. When guys blush when I talk to them, its a good sign hahahah
  • Smakkyoface

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    Aug 24, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    I used to be nervous around straight guys in high school. Then i realized everyone is nervous on the first day and if youre the one to break the ice on the first day, people usually gravitate to you for the rest of the week. This is my fourth day of class and the duded i talked to on the first day saved me a seat today. That made me feel a bit special lol.
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    Befriend them. That's the best way to do it. Eventually when you guys get close enough, you can reveal your sexuality if it comes up and then you can see if they're cool with it/gay/whatever.
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    One of those that give me a purpose to come to class. I cant wait for school to start again lol
  • Kipstrdl

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    Aug 24, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    tautomer4314 saiduse grindr and see who is in class with you. But only if you can handle the awkward part.

    (75% serious)
    The other 25% says focus on grades and GTFO of college with a good GPA.

    ...unless you want to end up being one of the most educated people working the McDonald's drive-thru window.


    Pass them a note that reads "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO."
    Seriously, sit your ass in the front row where you won't be distracted by hot guys sitting in front of you and you can focus on learning the material. Plus, this will force everyone to check you out, and after class you can get a feeling for who is eyeballing you and take it from there. Be sociable and don't stare. Friendships that were meant to be will develop naturally, and you won't have to try too hard. Best of luck. College is awesome and goes by so fast. Cherish every moment
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    Aug 24, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    Guy101 saidGrow a pair and spark up a conversation with them otherwise what's the point? You'll just be a another wanting gay guy who lacks that certain "umph" and ride the sidelines if you don't take matters into your own hands. That whole "I'm shy" shit is not attractive unless you're attracted to weakness. Worst case scenario is that you get shot down. If that happens then you just move on, bro.

    It's not the end of the world.


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    Aug 24, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf you like "straight guys" (ie. masculine mannerisms), then act like one.

    Make conversation, invite them to do things, develop friendships, and let whatever else happen naturally.

    That's how "straight guys" do it. icon_wink.gif


    I know thats how I do it and I managed to turn tons of hotties into someawesome friends. (though I prefer them as friends and not lovers...wierd, but I need to stay closeted because certain matters are at stake).