Ever Wish You Didnt Like Someone

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    Aug 24, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    There is this guy that I am so into, and he is so sweet to me and nice but he is a friend and the only guy friend I have. All my male friends left when they found out I was gay, so being around him I feel like one of the guys.

    He is so much fun, but its because he is so sweet and nice , it is making me attracted.

    I am reakky annoyed and frustrated, because I want him to be my boyfriend so badly but he cant, and I cant be good friends because I am falling for him.

    I feel like either way I am screwed.
    I hate this.

    Have you ever been in a situation like this, or had a guy you just wish you didnt like. Was he married, straight, or just not into you.

    Please share.
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    Aug 24, 2012 2:10 AM GMT

    Yes. I think it best to just sigh happily because you have such a friend and file your feelings away in the drawer of 'happy things that could be but aren't realistic' and just accept the friendship for what it is.

    It's not an easy thing to do, but becomes easier over time.

    My opinion is that many many many people have gone through this, and it's part of a maturing process.

    warmly,

    -Doug

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    Aug 24, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    "You can't always get what you want.."
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    Aug 24, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    You should go on more dates with other guys. You'll get less attached to your friend. Get some other friends who have similar interests.
  • Kriss

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    Aug 24, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    Feelings for a friend maybe I wont ever say love because half the time its infatuation b/c we are friends and b/c we get along so well. I think that a majority of the time that is the case, we like and gravitate too people that make us feel comfortable, share our interests and can listen to us etc.

    Yeah I have been infatuated with some male friends but its a matter of stepping back and sipping on some coffee (doing that is so much harder than it sounds.) They are your friend for a reason, don't push something or try to justify something that you both know can't happen.
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    been through it acouple times hehe. like they said above: always want what you cant have. keep the friend unless youre sure he might feel the same way you do.
  • O5vx

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    Aug 24, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    No, but I have a classmate that I am really into on Facebook. Everytime he comes on I feel like saying hi, but the thing is I am not that close with him.
  • O5vx

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    Aug 24, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    No, but I have a classmate that I am really into on Facebook. Everytime he comes on I feel like saying hi, but the thing is I am not that close with him.