Kissing guys in straight bars/clubs

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    Aug 24, 2012 7:29 AM GMT
    Have you ever kissed or would you ever kiss a guy in a straight club ? If you have, was there any negative reaction( stares, insults, violence ...) ?

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    Aug 24, 2012 9:15 AM GMT
    I wouldn't do it. I don't want to see the straights kissing in a gay bar either.
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    Aug 24, 2012 10:12 AM GMT
    Been there; done that; dared anyone to say anything.

    Got a free drink for having the balls to do it. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 10:47 AM GMT
    Did it and the world didn't end - if there were any stares, we didnt notice. Although now I think I'm a bit more prudish about PDA in general, no matter what the environment. It makes me uncomfortable enough seeing a straight or gay couple make-out in public.
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    Aug 24, 2012 11:00 AM GMT
    We've done that a handful of times. Usually when we're out together, but one of us has to leave - we'll kiss each other goodbye. And a few times at midnight on NYE we've found ourselves in that situation. We just went for it.

    Nobody has ever said a word.
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    Aug 24, 2012 11:23 AM GMT
    Only if my partner want to
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    Aug 24, 2012 11:46 AM GMT
    I don't usually care where I am. I dare someone to step up to me if they don't like it.
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    Aug 24, 2012 11:48 AM GMT
    did it at a popular cocktail bar, nobody even cared.
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:15 PM GMT
    I have done it a few times. Actually met a gay guy at a straight bar one time and ended up making out and he got my number.

    Made out with a "straight" friend of a friend at a straight bar too once. That was a new one

    Then this guy and I like to make our gay presence known so we have made out at a few straight establishments recently.

    Never had a negative reaction but hey, it was all in Atlanta. I don't get scared of that stuff. A guy and I fed each other and were flirty in a restaurant in some hick town. We got stares but he is bigger than I am so I don't think anyone wants to mess with us icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 1:51 PM GMT
    Saad22 saidHave you ever kissed or would you ever kiss a guy in a straight club ? If you have, was there any negative reaction( stares, insults, violence ...) ?

    Broken teeth in yo socks...
  • Delivis

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    Aug 24, 2012 1:53 PM GMT
    Ofcourse. Anywhere, anytime.
  • rnch

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    Aug 24, 2012 2:15 PM GMT
    In a public setting:

    a hug and a quick, closed mouthed kiss is no biggie, gay or str8.

    an open mouthed, tongue-revolving, prolonged kiss, gay or str8, is just what we here in the deep south call "tacky and common".




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  • starboard5

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    Aug 24, 2012 3:06 PM GMT
    Metro Orlando is hit or miss; you have to know your area. Generally, no one cares, or if they do, they sense they're not part of a concensus and keep their opinions to themselves. I've been out with a group of men and everyone hugged and kissed when the group broke up and no one around us looked twice. But there are areas where it might invite harrassment. Sad to say, it's still true that there's safety in numbers. If it were just me and another guy in certain parts of metro O, I'd keep it to a handshake. I doubt the knuckle draggers would mess with a group of us.
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    Aug 24, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    Whenever we got out for a big night it's generally at the local student drinking hole (Hatfield Square), which is as straight as it comes. I've hugged, kissed, danced and made out with two of my boyfriends there without any problems. Though I have heard of some big fights breaking out there over homophobia. I'm just not too bothered, if somebody wants to give me shit over it then that's their problem.
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:03 PM GMT
    I kiss my guy wherever, whenever, however I want. If the heteros can do it then so can we.

    GODDAMNIT ITS THE FUCKIN' 21st CENETURY FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! IT'S TIME FOR THE REST OF THE WORLD TO GROWUP!

    I AM HOMO HEAR ME ROAR!

    And no there have been no physical altercations. Some name calling but no one has ever died of being called faggot.
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:08 PM GMT
    rnch saidIn a public setting:

    a hug and a quick, closed mouthed kiss is no biggie, gay or str8.

    an open mouthed, tongue-revolving, prolonged kiss, gay or str8, is just what we here in the deep south call "tacky and common".




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    Agreed. And I haven't heard the word common used to describe someone's behavior as tack or gauche since my grandmother died. Thanks for spurring a fond memory.
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:15 PM GMT
    I would totally do it!..Just for the story!..hell yeah!
    I would make sure my straight friend is wearing a kilt and my hands would go to town!...
    HELL YEAH...!!
    I can defend myself..just incase! icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:17 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidI would totally do it!..Just for the story!..hell yeah!
    I would make sure my straight friend is wearing a kilt and my hands would go to town!...
    HELL YEAH...!!
    I can defend myself..just incase! icon_eek.gif


    Funny, just yesterday I was thinking of buying a kilt. Any particular clan's tartan you are fond of?
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:21 PM GMT
    I have.

    No issues at all.

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  • mybud

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    Aug 24, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    Cash saidI have.

    No issues at all.

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    I'd risk broken teeth to kiss yo sexy ass...ANYTIME
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:35 PM GMT
    Yes i did
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    Aug 24, 2012 4:38 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    Anocxu saidI would totally do it!..Just for the story!..hell yeah!
    I would make sure my straight friend is wearing a kilt and my hands would go to town!...
    HELL YEAH...!!
    I can defend myself..just incase! icon_eek.gif


    Funny, just yesterday I was thinking of buying a kilt. Any particular clan's tartan you are fond of?


    A hot guy wearing anything crotchless is all it takes!