What do you prefer?

  • Hothouse

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    Aug 24, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    So, a guy checks out your profile here on RJ and thinks you're attractive or interesting and wants to reach out - would you rather he leave a photo comment, send you a mail message or leave you the hell alone?

    And, for guys that have private photos: a guy wants to see them, how should they ask you?
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:34 PM GMT
    Mail.
    Mail.
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    Email me. I kind of have issues with the chat thingy. If you want to look at my cock and ass, just ask, I'm generous.
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:37 PM GMT
    Mail
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    Daas saidEmail me. I kind of have issues with the chat thingy. If you want to look at my cock and ass, just ask, I'm generous.


    Really? Picture me asking...

    Email
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    Mail.
  • Kriss

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    Aug 24, 2012 5:56 PM GMT
    maaaaillllll
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    Aug 24, 2012 5:57 PM GMT
    Email. Photo comments are nice, too.

    I'm semi-shy about the private pics. I probably won't offer them up, but feel free to ask - so long as (1) you have some too, (2) you open yours first, and (3) there's something at least semi-interesting to see there.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:00 PM GMT
    Definitely email...it's always nice to see that notification that you have mail when you open up RealJock.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    Mail or photo comments are fine with me.

    I have private photos and will open them if asked - unless it is a profile with no pics or information.

    I am guilty of trying to break the ice with a photo comment before sending messages.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:05 PM GMT
    I would like an e-mail.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    mail is probably better but its hard to know what to say, other then "hey....sooo....um " lol.

    nah i think a comment can be a nice way to open up a convo but again, replies a hard to think up other than "thanks mate". which isnt exactly conversational lube! icon_rolleyes.gif

    ah well back my cave icon_rolleyes.gif

    EDIT: damn OP is seeeeexy....why the cartoon pic when youre so hot???
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    Email me.

    As for private photos - if I want to see yours and you want to see mine, we discuss.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:20 PM GMT
    Anyting you want..And i will be respectful either way..
    (you guys are picky)
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    I'm easy: photo comment or message is fine. Wanna see my private photos, ask me, and/or open yours.

    Hey, Hothouse! Nice drawing! icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
    Photo comment or message or hot list, all are good
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    I find Hotness is in direct proportion to "leave me the hell alone," unless it's an exceptional low self esteem day then bring on the hot 19 year old's.
  • Hothouse

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    Aug 24, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    lucky_sevn saidmail is probably better but its hard to know what to say, other then "hey....sooo....um " lol.

    nah i think a comment can be a nice way to open up a convo but again, replies a hard to think up other than "thanks mate". which isnt exactly conversational lube! icon_rolleyes.gif

    ah well back my cave icon_rolleyes.gif

    EDIT: damn OP is seeeeexy....why the cartoon pic when youre so hot???


    I do agree - I want to send a message, but what do I say?
    Seems guys are responding that they like to get the e-mail message, so I'll give that a try and see what happens.
    I do like to leave photo comments, but I also run out of clever things to say about them - "you're hot" or "you're sexy" seems lame after while.

    And, Wow! thanks for the compliment (I'm really not sexy, but thanks for the ego boost, and you're sexy yourself there!) The drawing was done by ChoklitDaddy and I'm using for my profile pic because it's awesome!
  • Hothouse

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    Aug 24, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    ChoklitDaddy saidI'm easy: photo comment or message is fine. Wanna see my private photos, ask me, and/or open yours.

    Hey, Hothouse! Nice drawing! icon_smile.gif


    Drawing done by a sexyass stud, my friend!
  • DanOmatic

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    Aug 24, 2012 6:31 PM GMT
    I was just thinking today: why is it that I get peppered with hot/buddylistings or photo comments, but rarely an email just to say hello? I mean, it's flattering to be hot listed and all, but what's wrong with just writing "hey, I saw your profile and I wanted to say hello"? Unless it's a faceless pic and an empty profile, I always write back.

  • jim_sf

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    Aug 24, 2012 6:36 PM GMT
    I prefer an e-mail or photo comment to an IM. As for private pics, ask or unlock first, and I'll usually unlock back.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:37 PM GMT
    Mail.
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    Aug 24, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    Email me, that is the best way to know if he is interested.
  • JosephC

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    Aug 24, 2012 7:19 PM GMT
    thermo648 saidDefinitely email...it's always nice to see that notification that you have mail when you open up RealJock.
    amen to that!
  • wild_sky360

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    Aug 24, 2012 7:28 PM GMT
    I prefer an email; either pro or con to something I've written, or about something we have in common. I don't consider a photo comment an ice breaker...just a spontaneous compliment.