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Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 6:46 PM GMT So I was in the midst of recovering from some injuries that had me about 30 lbs lighter and looking like a hospital patient as I was at the time at the VA in San Diego. It was the first time I had gone out in a while and got up the nerve to ask a guy on a date and he turned me down flat as he said he doesn't date "guys who don't work out." So that was a year ago, I have gained back most of my muscle weight and went to San Diego this weekend for some surfing and family visiting. I went out. Saw the same guy. He came up, said hi and bought me a drink - obviously not remembering me. Said he likes Marines and thanked me for my service and whatsuch. He then asked me to "hang out" sometime. I was SOOO tempted to say something like "I was the skinny Marine you told off a year ago," but I did not, and i told him that I live in Denver, hoping that would terminate the line of conversation. He said that he comes to Denver "all the time because his sister lives there." I am not going to even go out with this guy as he is an asshole. Wanted to know if anyone has ever had a similar "now that you are hot I will give you the time of day" experience. Thanks

Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 7:04 PM GMT Yes, both of us have had that. It's a time when you grit your teeth and carefully put down your drink so it won't be used for anything other than its intended purpose.
Greg0201 Posts: 90	Aug 17, 2008 7:13 PM GMT Not to be a dick, but coming from a guy who has No pecs = no sex. in his profile, it's all very ironic.
MikePhilPerez Posts: 3778	Aug 17, 2008 7:25 PM GMT Devildoginco, reading through I was saying to myself "Oh no he didn't" but you just added "I am not going to even go out with this guy as he is an asshole" just in time Good for you. To answer your question, I'm not hot and never was hot and don't think I ever will be hot. I don't get hit on. Oh well, I guess I can't answer your question after all
gymguy1 Posts: 1420	Aug 17, 2008 7:30 PM GMT I have put on quit a bit muscle since high school. I wasnt too pleasant to look at. So I like hearing people say that I look good now. Girls flirting with me nowing damn well they didnt look twice my way before. I wouldnt want them anyway, but its a good feeling now that the tables have turned.
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 7:38 PM GMT Congratulations on your improvements. This guy you refer to sounds boring. Forget him...go for someone who can laugh and have fun with you because of your personality......it will compliment your new sexy body very well. As someone we probably all know sang: "Don't go for second best baby put your love to the test".
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 7:47 PM GMT Greg0201 saidNot to be a dick, but coming from a guy who has No pecs = no sex. in his profile, it's all very ironic. LOL, I was going to initially comment by telling devildog to relish in giving this guy some shit for snubbing him. But you made it a good point. Saying something like "no pecs = no sex" is just as crude as telling someone you won't date them because they don't work out. Devidog..you walked right into this one.
MikePhilPerez Posts: 3778	Aug 17, 2008 8:02 PM GMT Greg0201 saidNot to be a dick, but coming from a guy who has No pecs = no sex. in his profile, it's all very ironic. Oh, I hadn't checked his profile. Maybe they should date after all
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 8:30 PM GMT muchmorethanmuscle said Greg0201 saidNot to be a dick, but coming from a guy who has No pecs = no sex. in his profile, it's all very ironic. LOL, I was going to initially comment by telling devildog to relish in giving this guy some shit for snubbing him. But you made it a good point. Saying something like "no pecs = no sex" is just as crude as telling someone you won't date them because they don't work out. Devidog..you walked right into this one. I didn't read his profile either....Sorry devil....I take back my advice. Maybe you guys would get along well.......
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 8:43 PM GMT Haha, also the "Upfront to the point of rudeness" bit. It seems like that's what the guy did to you a year ago. He was "Upfront to the point of rudeness" that "No Pecs = No Sex".
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 8:48 PM GMT There have been so many posts on here lately about not dating people (or even talking to people) that are too tall, too short, too skinny, too fat, too rich, too poor, too clean, too dirty, etc... What ever happened to just being nice to people? Get to know people before you dismiss them?
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 8:50 PM GMT Glasses=no sex
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 8:51 PM GMT Hall is right. We could use some good stories with happy endings.
gryff88 Posts: 54	Aug 17, 2008 8:56 PM GMT ya i started a happy thread a while back but it didnt take off! too many threads on the forum are depressing.....
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 8:57 PM GMT obscenewish saidGlasses=no sex Hey that's not nice. You might hurt Hall's feelings. I think glasses are great.
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 9:03 PM GMT Its all relative. I gained all my muscle back after going through a fat period after my break up with my bf. Sure I get more attention now than say 6 mos ago but who gives? I would of just told the guy to take a good look, then flex, then say you turned me down a yr ago, remember me? Maybe he'll laugh about it and you can still use him for sex. He seems interested so just realize he's not bf material but can be used for a good time.
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 9:08 PM GMT muchmorethanmuscle said Greg0201 saidNot to be a dick, but coming from a guy who has No pecs = no sex. in his profile, it's all very ironic. LOL, I was going to initially comment by telling devildog to relish in giving this guy some shit for snubbing him. But you made it a good point. Saying something like "no pecs = no sex" is just as crude as telling someone you won't date them because they don't work out. Devidog..you walked right into this one. I agree with both of you. This guy needs to take a good look at his own glass house before he starts slinging the stones at others. I like guys with muscle, but I would never rule out someone even if they lack muscle or size. When I met my boyfriend, he didn't have much of either. Besides, that "skinny" guy in the bar could be packin' 10 inches or more down south or, he could be incredible in the sack. Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with so-called "average" guys. They generally are much lower maintainence.
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 9:14 PM GMT I think BIGSETX just admitted to being a power bottom for skinny lanky hung HUGE tops. Isn't that sexy? All that muscle and power giving it up for a huge horse cock.
MikePhilPerez Posts: 3778	Aug 17, 2008 9:15 PM GMT muchmorethanmuscle saidHall is right. We could use some good stories with happy endings. I'm having some negative experiences on RJ over the last while. I just had another in IM. I need a happy ending
Hidden member	Aug 17, 2008 9:24 PM GMT MuchMoreThanHey that's not nice. You might hurt Hall's feelings. I think glasses are great. Geez, I certainly hope Hall, who is cute, knows I'm kidding. Generally, I think DevilDog's experience and apparent double standard are commonplace. My body has been all over the damn map and I've had his experience of being hit on by a former rejecter more than once. However, I've also shamefully rejected men because of their appearance, although I've never said anything as brazen as, "I don't date guys who don't work out." This is hardly unique. I've frequently seen especially hot men given a pass on RJ for forum comments that would get someone less hot eviscerated. I also noticed that a certain member who provoked a lot of negative commentary recently left the site for a few weeks and came back with some much hotter pictures than before. Now he's everyone's favorite, even though the tenor of his commentary hasn't changed. It's also amazing how often "hot" and "nice" or "sweet" end up conflated. Read through the Real Jock "man of the week" posts if you wanna lesson in the way "looksism" affects language, even when there's an obvious effort to avoid that. What is depressing is how little we seem to learn from our own experience in this regard. It can make "aging gracefully" difficult.
MikePhilPerez Posts: 3778	Aug 17, 2008 9:39 PM GMT obscenewish said MuchMoreThanThis is hardly unique. I've frequently seen especially hot men given a pass on RJ for forum comments that would get someone less hot eviscerated. Thank you OW. I have made that point many times here on RJ. It's nice to know I'm not the only one to see it.
turtlesarecoo... Posts: 560	Aug 17, 2008 9:40 PM GMT You guys are SO slow. Clearly when he says "No pecs = no sex" he's referring to Pecs, Hungary's 5th-largest city. Duh. Read more: [url] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/P%C3%A9cs[/url] See? He's not so bad after all.
MikePhilPerez Posts: 3778	Aug 17, 2008 9:41 PM GMT obscenewish said MuchMoreThanI also noticed that a certain member who provoked a lot of negative commentary recently left the site for a few weeks and came back with some much hotter pictures than before. Now he's everyone's favorite, even though the tenor of his commentary hasn't changed. Tell me, who
MikePhilPerez Posts: 3778	Aug 17, 2008 9:43 PM GMT things_n_stuff_n_cents saidYou guys are SO slow. Clearly when he says "No pecs = no sex" he's referring to Pecs, Hungary's 5th-largest city. Duh. Read more here: See? He's not so bad after all.

turtlesarecoo... Posts: 560	Aug 17, 2008 9:57 PM GMT Oh come on: At least say you laugh a litte! MikePhil said things_n_stuff_n_cents saidYou guys are SO slow. Clearly when he says "No pecs = no sex" he's referring to Pecs, Hungary's 5th-largest city. Duh. Read more here: See? He's not so bad after all.

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