My first time at the gay club

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    Aug 27, 2012 1:59 AM GMT
    So this past Saturday my straight roommate took me out to my first gay club. He's trying to get me to loosen up and find a guy, but I (SECRETLY!) only have eyes for him. Even though I know nothing will ever come into fruition between it's still nice to daydream of what could be. Anyways the gay club was boring, I basically just stood by the wall the entire night. He tried to get me to dance with some guys but I was way too shy. Maybe the gay scene isn't the right fit for me. Too many flamers and sluts running around that joint. It was no fun. icon_surprised.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:01 AM GMT
    Where's your grotto
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    broooo, u serious?! hahah c'mon man.
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:04 AM GMT
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  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 27, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    Look at it this way..you went along with him and spent some good time chatting and getting to know your roommate in a way, perhaps, you hadn't before.... also probably isn't a bad idea for you to go and check these places out. Nothing wrong with not liking them.
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidMaybe the gay scene isn't the right fit for me. Too many flamers and sluts running around that joint. It was no fun. icon_surprised.gif

    What was the name of the place? I may know it, and if it wasn't for you, I might be able to suggest another place better suited to you.

    Last night (Sat) we were at Rosie's, which isn't really a club but definitely a gay hub. We went early for drinks, then boarded a shuttle they provided to the Broward Center. There we saw a drag group presenting "Electile Dysfunction" which parodies the 2012 Presidential election. We then shuttled back to Rosie's for an after-party with the cast.

    If you "...basically just stood by the wall the entire night" then you're doing it wrong. And may need a better place, and a gay escort, not a straight one.

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    Aug 27, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    bro hmu next time u go out!!!! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    klassik saidbro hmu next time u go out!!!! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif


    Where you from?icon_redface.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    Boland92 said
    klassik saidbro hmu next time u go out!!!! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif


    Where you from?icon_redface.gif


    like 20 mins from lauderdale, whatssss goood? icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidAnyways the gay club was boring, I basically just stood by the wall the entire night.

    Of course the club's going to be boring if you just stand around all night. It's only as fun as you want to make it. You didn't want to have fun at the club so you didn't.
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    klassik said
    Boland92 said
    klassik saidbro hmu next time u go out!!!! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif


    Where you from?icon_redface.gif


    like 20 mins from lauderdale, whatssss goood? icon_lol.gif


    Oh shit well we should definitely chillicon_cool.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    I got kicked out of Barns and Nobles cuz i put all the bibles in the fiction
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    Boland92 said
    klassik said
    Boland92 said
    klassik saidbro hmu next time u go out!!!! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif


    Where you from?icon_redface.gif


    like 20 mins from lauderdale, whatssss goood? icon_lol.gif


    Oh shit well we should definitely chillicon_cool.gif


    haha yeah man icon_cool.gificon_cool.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:39 AM GMT
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:48 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidToo many flamers and sluts running around that joint. It was no fun. icon_surprised.gif


    So if that was your attitude, no wonder you didn't have a good time. Dude, what a terrible judgmental attitude. You probably repelled any good energy.

    There are so many cool people at the club, and just b/c someone is flamboyant or enjoys sex doesn't make them less of a person than anyone else.
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    Aug 27, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    You know you have a great roommate. If he took you to a gay club, and he tried to hook you up with some dudes.
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    ChangeofName saidI got kicked out of Barns and Nobles cuz i put all the bibles in the fiction
    section.


    Well, that's where they should be!

    To the OP, your roommate is an awesome friend - how many straight guys would take their newly out gay roommate to a gay club?
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    Let me get this straight. You go to the club and stand by the wall because you're too shy, then decide the club's not really for you making excuses like its filled with fems and sluts to make it seem like you didnt miss much?

    Dude, don't make excuses to cover up your failures. You couldn't overcome your shyness to get up and dance on the floor which is why you had a boring time. But I think you really didn't give it a chance due to your feelings for your roommate. Next time get onto the dance floor and shake that booty!
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidSo this past Saturday my straight roommate took me out to my first gay club. He's trying to get me to loosen up and find a guy, but I (SECRETLY!) only have eyes for him. Even though I know nothing will ever come into fruition between it's still nice to daydream of what could be. Anyways the gay club was boring, I basically just stood by the wall the entire night. He tried to get me to dance with some guys but I was way too shy. Maybe the gay scene isn't the right fit for me. Too many flamers and sluts running around that joint. It was no fun. icon_surprised.gif


    What did you dream it would be a; church social???

    Dance, try to enjoy yourself just remember that you hold the power to say no when something seems to be going to far. Yeah, some guys get all touchy feely and what not but most will back off if you say stop. if not just throw down.

    Shake that ass and have fun!!!!! If you need a mental trick to get you going just don't think of everyone else but yourself.

    Plus, you could of gotten your roomie a little drunk to see how far he would have gone. He did take you to a gay bar not the other way around. Maybe he is just trying to get you comfortable in your own skin. Something you seem to be having issues with. Are 100% sure he is not gay.
  • metta

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    Aug 27, 2012 3:17 AM GMT
    I understand being shy as well as not being very comfortable in clubs...but there are a lot of other ways to meet people...even if it is to just meet more friends...

    Oh my gosh...you're from Fort Lauderdale....there are probably a ton of places to meet more gay people there...

    gay clubs, organizations, etc.


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    Aug 27, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:30 AM GMT
    boland won't accept my request on facebook.


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