Dont know what to think

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    Aug 27, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    So there's this super cute dark haired 19yr old that I met at work. Everytime he comes in he makes a point of saying hi to me and what not AND asking me if i have a girlfriend yet (obviously im not out) AND also letting me know that he doesnt either. I gave him my business card, didnt even think about the fact that it doesnt have my personal cell# on it and he said he would bring me one of his. How do i know if he's gay/bi and/or into me? HELP
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    berkshire saidHow do i know if he's gay/bi and/or into me

    You can:
    (a) Ask him directly.
    (b) Dig through his Facebook's "Interested In" section.
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    I dont think he has a facebook. He comes from a family of like mormons or something. And I am way to chicken to ask him directly. Although I did tell him he should give me horse riding lessons ( he trains horses) and i told him him we should get together for drinks sometime.
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    I know plenty of Mormons who have Facebook, haha.
    The next time you see him tell him you forgot that your personal cell number isn't on your business card and give him your number. Then you can ask him to call you if he wants to get together! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    Smooth^^^^
  • FuriousGeorge

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    Aug 27, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    If you're not out yet yourself, what are you looking for, a secretive hookup? That's all you're ever gonna get from inside the closet.

    If you actually want to find out about this guy, and the usual digging around isn't doing it, just mention to him that you're gay. That's easy enough, given that he keeps asking you if you have a girlfriend. Then the ball will be firmly in his court. Seriously, this business is a lot easier when you're out and proud, because then you're sending up the flare and everyone else decides if they approach you. I've had a few closeted guys approach me after I came out ... icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 27, 2012 7:44 AM GMT
    Thanks guys! I've taken all this into consideration and I'll keep you posted as to what I decide and its ripple effect hahah.