Hmn.. I am not sure of all the 'customs' or what have you for RJ (e.g. when to buddy list, if/when a person should say anything to another, when one should hot list another and what that should mean, etc.). Maybe I'm too caught up in these small things but I have no idea how to talk to another without feeling like a complete idiot. I want to engage and be engaged but not so sure how to. I guess what I dislike the most is sending something to someone and him not replying back. Discourages me from even trying at all, as sad as that sounds. Perhaps I penalize myself too much for not getting any bites back when I show genuine interest in another.
*Sigh* Interweb homo-sapiens are confusing.