He knows that I consider him as a friend only but still loves me and brings me gifts !!!

  • kemoze

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    Aug 27, 2012 2:17 PM GMT
    There is that guy who I met, he is 28 and he's crush on me, I told him that I can't see him more than a friend and he says ok but the way he acts shows something else., likes chatting and calling every day and even buying me gifts, now he is traveling on a business trip to Thailand and wants to see me tomorrow, he said he has something to give me and I swore that I won't take it., a very smart one but just not my type but I like him as a friend, I don't have friends here where I work in Kuwait which is not my home country,,
    Shall I just stop talking to him? I think it's better for him though?
  • CTHS

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    Aug 27, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    I would just slowly stop talking to him. He'll get bored of the chase eventually.
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    Aug 27, 2012 7:53 PM GMT
    You know Kez.. He has a crush on you and he is trying to impress you!..
    Try setting boundaries..
    ..Try being direct..
    "You are a really nice guy..but calling constantly and buying me gifts Makes Me Very Uncomfortable"..

    ..Kezmore if he doesn't respect this after telling him..then avoid him at all costs!..
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    Aug 27, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    You: think of him as a friend
    Him: thinks of you more than a friend

    You: told him that he is just a friend not more
    Him: agrees to that but act the opposite

    You: have to stop seeing him
    Him: finally will understand what you meant earlier

    Sometimes you have to creat a shock for your message to be comprehended !!
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    Aug 27, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    Tell him if it's anything under a carat to get the fuck out.
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    Aug 27, 2012 11:03 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidTell him if it's anything under a carat to get the fuck out.

    ROTFL..
    Ari?..lol.. What are you going through!???
  • kemoze

    Posts: 390

    Aug 29, 2012 8:12 AM GMT
    Yesterday we met two hours and half before the movie started and he suggested to go to his place to check the flat cuz he was staying with his parents for the last two days, I agreed cuz I trust myself very well, then we went there started talking a bit, him opened the tv, then shows me pics of HOT guys, showed me some of his favorite porn videos which I DIDN'T like and I was talking very friendly to him, him approaches me, touched my hand, kissed my hand then my neck, I was very nervous and asked him to stop cuz I wasn't feeling comfortable at all, him again wants to seduce me but I felt very angry and showed him that whet he is doing is bugging me, I really felt that I was being sexually harassed then he stopped as I was very tough and angry but I continued talking till we went to the cinema, watched the movie and decided that I will never see him ever again., he cheated on me by trying to being a friend but he was hidding his evil intend to have sex with me.,

    Anyway thanks guys .., I love you all.,, especial thanks to Anocxu you always impress me with your reply.,

    I granted him the last chance to be friends but he fucked it up.,
  • NorthChinaLi

    Posts: 241

    Aug 29, 2012 1:10 PM GMT
    marry him


    u don't meet a sweet 28 year old everyday.