New man in town.

  • Southieguy

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    Aug 29, 2012 8:32 PM GMT
    Hey guys. Ok I'll give you the short version and see if I can get some advise. I was in a 4 year relationship and was really hoping this was the one. I was in love and happy for the most part. He was a bit controlling but it was ok. Was nice to let someone else run the show for a while. He was one of the movers and shakers so to speak. I had a job that I liked but wasn't making as much money as he did. We lived together and he wanted me to make more money. I wanted to get married. I got a job that paid real money and was pretty miserable. He informed me he was never going to want to get married. So I had a decision to make. I left him. I got a new job that I love. Problem is I moved to Texas and don't know a soul here. Having a real hard time getting started here. I joined a new gym but people are just doing there thing. Hard to break the ice. I rarely ever go to a bar. I've looked at the dating sites but feel a little ill at the idea of blind dates. I am a nice guy,confident, masculine and in good shape. Thats the kind of guy i'm looking for. What do you think?
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    Aug 29, 2012 8:35 PM GMT
    Live your new life in your new town. Do things that make you happy and get involved in activities that you enjoy. Work on making yourself the happiest and most successful you that you can be. Be receptive to the men around while doing this and the relationship will naturally happen at time it's supposed to.
  • Import

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    Aug 29, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    Exactly what Ariodante said.

    Do yo thang. Make the best of a brand new fresh start. Some people would kill to be in ur position. Fresh new town, new job, new state. Werq it, gurrl.

    Enjoy some hobbies of urs. Exercise, volunteer somewhere to get to know a few people. Maybe go on a date at some point.
    Ugh, If i was u, I'd be all over the place making new friends, dicovering new parts of the city.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 29, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    New Meat! New Meat! New Meat!

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    Opps ... I mean

    New Man! New Man! New Man!

    You should have moved to Colorado damit! icon_evil.gif

    icon_biggrin.gif Give it time ... it'll be okay ... It just takes a little time to get acclimated to a new life
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    Aug 29, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidNew Meat! New Meat! New Meat!

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    Opps ... I mean

    New Man! New Man! New Man!


    you're so bad Photobucket
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    Aug 29, 2012 10:10 PM GMT
    It seems the unhappiest people are those actively looking for a relationship. Just live your life and make friends and someday when you least expect it, someone special will come along. And it will be based on other things than his looks in an online photo or from across the bar.

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    Aug 29, 2012 10:17 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidand the relationship will naturally happen at time it's supposed to.


    Old wive's tale.