If you wonder why a guy you like doesnt like you back this is probably why

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    Aug 30, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    icon_razz.gifNow stop being all upset and take her advice!icon_razz.gif

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    Aug 30, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    JustStarted92 saidicon_razz.gifNow stop being all upset and take her advice!icon_razz.gif



    *Kicks table over.* Goddamit. I knew I should have been a shit head towards my exes. They may have stayed around with me longer. >:/
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    Aug 30, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    The word "nice" doesn't even mean anything. Everyone on the planet is nice to certain people and kind of a douche to other people (who have it coming in their mind). So people who say "I'm a nice guy" to describe themselves need to think of an actual quality about them that differentiates them from every other person on the planet.
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    Aug 30, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    um

    ... just wanted to point out that the dynamics between male-female courtship are different than male-male.

    Heres why.

    Women instinctively want a N-ASSHOLE.

    a semi asshole with qualities of a nice guy they can tame.

    The girl in the video is explaining why nice guys finish last, that has nothing to do with gay men, since gay men (and men in general) are very visual and get turned on by sight, women are different.

    instinctively women want a provider. it's embedded into their dna to look for the ALPHA male. Typically passive suitors are less desirable because in the cavemen days life was based on hunting and gathering, women looked for males that were obviously more aggressive at obtaining resources than others.

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    Aug 30, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
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    ... just wanted to point out that the dynamics between male-female courtship are different than male-male.

    Heres why.

    Women instinctively want a N-ASSHOLE.

    a semi asshole with qualities of a nice guy they can tame.

    The girl in the video is explaining why nice guys finish last, that has nothing to do with gay men, since gay men (and men in general) are very visual and get turned on by sight, women are diferent.

    instinctively women want a provider. it's embedded into their dna to look for the ALPHA male. Typically passive suitors are less desirable because in the cavemen days life was based on hunting and gathering, women looked for males that were obviously more aggressive at obtaining resources than others.



    Hmn.. Well, with the rise of "fem-bashing", I wonder if gays will just end up being cave men who lust after each other and admire each other's musculature?

    Probably not, so long as people like me exist. icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 30, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    IAmTheOneWhoKnocks saidThe word "nice" doesn't even mean anything. Everyone on the planet is nice to certain people and kind of a douche to other people (who have it coming in their mind). So people who say "I'm a nice guy" to describe themselves need to think of an actual quality about them that differentiates them from every other person on the planet.


    So true.
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    I like it when you throw the table slowly but strongly. ;o
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    Aug 30, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^
    I stole it from Claystation Shhh!
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    Aug 30, 2012 4:31 AM GMT
    I'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.
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    Aug 30, 2012 4:58 AM GMT
    I couldn't take her bitching. I stopped the video half way through. The last thing I'm interested in is a self absorbed woman telling me what to think.
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    Aug 30, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
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    principal0 saidI'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.

    You shouldn't be. You're a dish.


    I wish I had your confidence, JP, ha. I automatically assume I'm reading into things that aren't there, mostly because I think there are many things to not love.
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    Aug 30, 2012 7:06 AM GMT
    I thought she was just as enjoyable as having sex with a woman haha
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    Aug 30, 2012 7:12 AM GMT
    principal0 saidI'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.

    I volunteer to test that theory. icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 30, 2012 7:58 AM GMT
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    principal0 saidI'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.

    I volunteer to test that theory. icon_smile.gif


    Well aren't you kind, haha.
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    Aug 30, 2012 8:53 AM GMT
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    Wolverine4 said
    principal0 saidI'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.

    I volunteer to test that theory. icon_smile.gif

    Well aren't you kind, haha.

    Perhaps... but I didn't say if I'd be in the control group (to be ignored) or the more active group.... icon_redface.gificon_wink.gif
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    Aug 30, 2012 2:14 PM GMT
    principal0 saidI'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.


    What about a nice guy that puts his hand on your junk in a club?
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    Aug 30, 2012 2:18 PM GMT

    Well that was interesting. She certainly showed unintentionally why the straight divorce rate is 50%.

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    Aug 30, 2012 8:09 PM GMT
    Love her hair....reminded me of the sweeping end of my broom in the mud room......
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    Aug 30, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    ~Two People~


    a) I want to be with you.
    b) For whatever reason, at whatever time, I don't.

    IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK OUT


    ~The End~


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    Aug 30, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    ChangeofName said
    a semi asshole with qualities of a nice guy they can tame.

    True. Most women want a two legged project. Most gay men want Mr.Tripod.
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    Aug 30, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
    LOVE THIS. She speaks truth. It's reality. Deal.


    Nice guy doesn't mean nice guy really.. what we want to say is pushover.. a nice guy can be anybody really.. so lets just say Pushover.

    Some gay men want pushovers who masquerade as nice guys.. No one wants a pushover unless they want to be pushing over someone..and that dynamic works for a lot actually... sub and dom. women are weird when it comes to this. There is a segment that want a guy who will pay the bills.. let them have babies and will bow to them.. yet they want to assert their independence when in reality what they signed up for instantly lends itself to dependence. The women in my family treat their men like shit.. they want to wear the pants but collect the check and tell their men to "man up". It's bizarre.
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    Aug 30, 2012 9:08 PM GMT
    She is saying what I've said a bazagillion times here and irl: Personality wise - LIKES ATTRACT LIKES.
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    Aug 30, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    Alpha13 said
    principal0 saidI'm pretty sure that at least some of my unrequited loves have to do with my uncanny ability to completely ignore every come-on short of sticking a tongue down my throat. I. am. oblivious.


    What about a nice guy that puts his hand on your junk in a club?


    Well, now you mention it, in my younger, more foolish days I went on a date with a guy who literally put his hands down my pants after some light discussion at a bar. Suffice to say, I told him that didn't work for me as 'hello', but I'd be happy to grab dinner sometime.

    I went on the date because on paper/physically he looked like the right kind of guy - went to a good school, was an S&T guy for JP Morgan, and was obscenely attractive (I have no idea what he was doing ogling me - I credit the liquor).

    Then of course on the date I proceeded to be totally tone-deaf, as I said above, to any kind of cues that he was interested. He was actually quite decent, and in my ignorance, I was the one who actually screwed the date up. I ended up giving him a hug at the end when he went in for a kiss, and still regret how clueless I was.

    The moral of the story is that sometimes people act rudely and deserve a second chance. To err is human, but to really foul things up you need my total lack of situational awareness.