Aug 31, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
Recently I had a heartbreaking conversation with a dear RJer that I truly care about a lot. He seems very upset and that he seems to have a hard time making gay friends. Let me re-phrase that...he has difficulty making genuine gay friends. I find this to be somewhat of my problem as well. I know I seem to be a real easygoing gal and all sassy with a lot of social grace, and I while I have a lot of straight friends in the RL, I struggle to make gay friends in RL. All of the gay "friends" I have made in my past ended up either stabbing me in the back, used me for sex, or stole my boyfriend. It seems that this confused gay sex tension always gets in the middle.