Gay bars and getting laid!

  • Madmuscle

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    Aug 31, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    How does a shy guy, not out, only been to a gay bar a few times; finding a decent guy and gets some potential action!

    The answer is easy but other suggestions?
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    Aug 31, 2012 4:29 PM GMT
    I always had better luck in bars then than the internet. People liked what they saw and went for it, there was no subterfuge. Of course, that was 25 years ago.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 31, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    You're just looking for a hookup??? ... bathhouse's still exist and you are still guaranteed to get laid within minutes of walking into the door.
  • Madmuscle

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    Aug 31, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
    Safe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep
  • metta

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    Aug 31, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep


    What is that.....no touchy touchy....cam to cam .? ;)
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    Aug 31, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep

    the guys you meet in the bars are the same ones you'll meet online are the same ones you'll meet in the bathhouses are the same ones you'll meet in the grocery store etc.. There isn't one set of guys that you will exclusively meet in one place and never in another.
  • vuchung

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    Aug 31, 2012 6:54 PM GMT
    TellMeMoar said
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep

    the guys you meet in the bars are the same ones you'll meet online are the same ones you'll meet in the bathhouses are the same ones you'll meet in the grocery store etc.. There isn't one set of guys that you will exclusively meet in one place and never in another.


    Exactly icon_smile.gif +infinity haha
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    Aug 31, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    Doesn't work for everyone, but will work 100% of the time for you:

    Take off your shirt.


    That is all.
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    Aug 31, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI always had better luck in bars then than the internet. People liked what they saw and went for it, there was no subterfuge. Of course, that was 25 years ago.


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    Aug 31, 2012 7:17 PM GMT
    TellMeMoar said
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep

    the guys you meet in the bars are the same ones you'll meet online are the same ones you'll meet in the bathhouses are the same ones you'll meet in the grocery store etc.. There isn't one set of guys that you will exclusively meet in one place and never in another.


    No. The contexts are different. Some gets people moar into the mood. Just like you can have sex in all places but you're less likely to have sex in a church compared to a bathhouse.
  • calibro

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    Aug 31, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
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    Aug 31, 2012 7:34 PM GMT
    Madame_Pele said
    TellMeMoar said
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep

    the guys you meet in the bars are the same ones you'll meet online are the same ones you'll meet in the bathhouses are the same ones you'll meet in the grocery store etc.. There isn't one set of guys that you will exclusively meet in one place and never in another.


    No. The contexts are different. Some gets people moar into the mood. Just like you can have sex in all places but you're less likely to have sex in a church compared to a bathhouse.

    I wasn't talking about the likelihood of having sex. I was saying that the same guys are everywhere. There is no guarantee that if you meet someone in a church he is safe as opposed to a bar, for example.
  • Madmuscle

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    Aug 31, 2012 9:16 PM GMT
    yea I guess...maybe its me lol

    I dont give off confidence lol

    I am just horny lol
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    Aug 31, 2012 9:40 PM GMT
    TellMeMoar said
    Madame_Pele said
    TellMeMoar said
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep

    the guys you meet in the bars are the same ones you'll meet online are the same ones you'll meet in the bathhouses are the same ones you'll meet in the grocery store etc.. There isn't one set of guys that you will exclusively meet in one place and never in another.


    No. The contexts are different. Some gets people moar into the mood. Just like you can have sex in all places but you're less likely to have sex in a church compared to a bathhouse.

    I wasn't talking about the likelihood of having sex. I was saying that the same guys are everywhere. There is no guarantee that if you meet someone in a church he is safe as opposed to a bar, for example.


    No. I don't agree.

    If you meet a guy at a bathhouse, you're sure that he goes to bathhouses for whatever reasons. You're not sure he goes to church. He may, he may not.

    If you meet a guy at a church, you're sure that he goes to a church, you're sure that he goes to churches for whatever reasons. You're not sure he goes to bathhouses. He may, he may not.
  • FireDoor211

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    Aug 31, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI always had better luck in bars then than the internet. People liked what they saw and went for it, there was no subterfuge. Of course, that was 25 years ago.


    Oh please, 25 years later, I'm sure u still get plenty of action.
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    Aug 31, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    In your case, the following strategy is sure to work every time:

    Go to a bar where I am. Walk up to me and say hello.
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    Aug 31, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    Madmuscle saidHow does a shy guy, not out, only been to a gay bar a few times; finding a decent guy and gets some potential action!

    The answer is easy but other suggestions?


    i'm beginning to think you are a troll.
  • demasi

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    Aug 31, 2012 11:38 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI always had better luck in bars then than the internet. People liked what they saw and went for it, there was no subterfuge. Of course, that was 25 years ago.



    uhh weren't webpages started only in 1991 .. 21 years .. thus making your comparison completely irrelevant.
  • muscleONmuscl...

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    Aug 31, 2012 11:44 PM GMT
    I agree. Just take your shirt off, dude. They'll be 15 guys offering to buy you a drink.
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    Sep 01, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    Madame_Pele said
    TellMeMoar said
    Madame_Pele said
    TellMeMoar said
    Madmuscle saidSafe hook ups lol

    Never really tired bathhouse, they have a bad rep

    the guys you meet in the bars are the same ones you'll meet online are the same ones you'll meet in the bathhouses are the same ones you'll meet in the grocery store etc.. There isn't one set of guys that you will exclusively meet in one place and never in another.


    No. The contexts are different. Some gets people moar into the mood. Just like you can have sex in all places but you're less likely to have sex in a church compared to a bathhouse.

    I wasn't talking about the likelihood of having sex. I was saying that the same guys are everywhere. There is no guarantee that if you meet someone in a church he is safe as opposed to a bar, for example.


    No. I don't agree.

    If you meet a guy at a bathhouse, you're sure that he goes to bathhouses for whatever reasons. You're not sure he goes to church. He may, he may not.

    If you meet a guy at a church, you're sure that he goes to a church, you're sure that he goes to churches for whatever reasons. You're not sure he goes to bathhouses. He may, he may not.

    I understand what you are saying but what I'm saying is that it still doesn't mean that someone you meet outside a bathhouse is guaranteed to be safer because, as you mentioned, 'he may, he may not'.
  • Madmuscle

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    Sep 01, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    jimzdc saidIn your case, the following strategy is sure to work every time:

    Go to a bar where I am. Walk up to me and say hello.


    That's the problem, too shy to go up to a guy...

    also, taking of my shirt lol
  • Devix

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    Sep 03, 2012 5:52 PM GMT
    For me guys you meet in a bath house can't lie to you, if you are looking for just sex.
    U're seeing all of it. for me, it's the safest, and with less disappointment.
  • USMC8804

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    Sep 03, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    Grindr...
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    Sep 03, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    Speak ur mind be true say it like you mean it
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    Sep 03, 2012 6:32 PM GMT
    There's a drug that was developed to combat shyness.

    Beer.