Don't know how to say when I send e-mail to people in RJ

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    Aug 19, 2008 2:46 PM GMT
    Well I'm a Senior in 'High School' right now, and i came out 4 of my friends. I don't really have gay friend in real life. So realjock is great web site to meet and to make nice and 'HOT' -lol- gay friends.
    But the problem is it's really frustrated when I send e-mail to ppl who i want to be friends and just ignored by them. Well in real life I usually make friends really really easily and I'm usually nice to them.
    But I'm sure I did something wrong to them and that's why they are ignoring my message, but I don't know why. I'm not that rude, also I'm not really hottie either.
    But one thing that I can promise is I'm not real a jerk or a hooker. I'm a nice person (I guess) well I can be but rarely and almost never.- well I don't lie, I'm a human, too! lol

    So, people! How do you send e-mail or messege to people in RJ and is there any good way to make friends on here?

    P.S. If you are also interested in making new friends on this web site, I'm happy to be your friend. ;) And I'm sorry to people who got my e-mail, if I made your feeling bad or something. But I wasn't going to icon_smile.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 19, 2008 3:01 PM GMT
    Well let me say that many of the men on here would certainly take the time to be friendly and be a friend to you.

    I think you need to come across the right way however.
    Say hello (not "sup", I hate "sup"), talk about who you are and you'd like to learn and appreciate what some RJ members have to share and ask questions. ALWAYS ask questions about the member, their profile, their pictures. You'll get a response.

    Good luck.. this a a great site, I hope you enjoy it!
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    Aug 19, 2008 3:05 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidWell let me say that many of the men on here would certainly take the time to be friendly and be a friend to you.

    I think you need to come across the right way however.
    Say hello (not "sup", I hate "sup"), talk about who you are and you'd like to learn and appreciate what some RJ members have to share and ask questions. ALWAYS ask questions about the member, their profile, their pictures. You'll get a response.

    Good luck.. this a a great site, I hope you enjoy it!


    Thanks icon_smile.gif well ya I should ask questions to them but some people ignore questions, too. that time I feel really bad.. :S But I'm sure most people won't like that ;)
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    Aug 19, 2008 3:32 PM GMT


    That is great, and as usual, kind advice from HndsmKansan(hello from us!),

    ...and we will say that when you email for the first time, it is like a message in a bottle, you never know what will happen.

    Sometimes nothing. Other times a new friend!
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    Aug 19, 2008 3:55 PM GMT
    Anytime a message pops up in my inbox, I make sure to do my best and respond to everyone. Making "friends" here is rather easy. Strike up conversation with something interesting that you've found in their profile. Ask how their day is going so far? First and foremost just be yourself and have fun with the site.
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    Aug 19, 2008 4:52 PM GMT
    HighVoltageGuy saidAnytime a message pops up in my inbox, I make sure to do my best and respond to everyone. Making "friends" here is rather easy. Strike up conversation with something interesting that you've found in their profile. Ask how their day is going so far? First and foremost just be yourself and have fun with the site.



    ya, well actually I answer all my e-mail if it's not about hook up or something like that.
    I'm really friendly (i guess lol) to people.

    oh and i ask people about their hobby or something on their profile too, but some people don't answer and some people do. well idk lol maybe i'm not enough to be their friend for them.. lol
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    Aug 19, 2008 5:11 PM GMT
    Don't take it personally. It could be due to the fact that you are 18 and people are wary about talking to someone your age. Also, people may be concerned that you are younger than 18 and lying about your age. It may help if you post a lot in forums and people will contact you if they liked something you said or agree with something you said. I've been contacted by some great people on here because of something I said in a forum.
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    Aug 19, 2008 5:34 PM GMT
    Yes, yes, no taking it personally. Some people, me for instance, simply have a difficlt time keeping up electronic bonds of friendship. I genuinely think some of the people I've heard from are interesting, I'm just more of a "talk in person" kind of guy. I'm sure there are others.
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    Aug 19, 2008 8:58 PM GMT
    Maybe this has something to do with it?

    From your profile:

    "I'll cut your thing then.. I don't know your Fucking Shitty Face."
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    Aug 19, 2008 9:00 PM GMT
    jprichva saidMaybe this has something to do with it?

    From your profile:

    "I'll cut your thing then.. I don't know your Fucking Shitty Face."

    Okay I missed that part, but I do admire his standards.
  • MuslDrew

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    Aug 19, 2008 10:27 PM GMT
    It might also have to do with you being a Senior in high school.
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    Aug 19, 2008 10:37 PM GMT
    Don't try to hang with the big dogs if you don't know how to hunt.
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    Aug 19, 2008 10:41 PM GMT
    Luckydog76 saidDon't try to hang with the big dogs if you don't know how to hunt.


    Luckydog76... Did you call my name?icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 20, 2008 5:03 AM GMT
    Luckydog76 saidDon't try to hang with the big dogs if you don't know how to hunt.



    well I don't think making friends is not a hunting.
    you hunt your friends? :S
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    Aug 20, 2008 5:21 AM GMT
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    jprichva saidMaybe this has something to do with it?

    From your profile:

    "I'll cut your thing then.. I don't know your Fucking Shitty Face."


    OK I change that sentence just for you. I thought it's good for explain my feeling about hook up. I really really hate hook up that much. But thanks for your advice.
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    Aug 20, 2008 5:33 AM GMT
    jprichva saidMaybe this has something to do with it?

    From your profile:

    "I'll cut your thing then.. I don't know your Fucking Shitty Face."


    Yes you are right any idiot that writes stupid crap like that is so immature and should find baby friends?

    Maybe go into the baby food business?

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    Aug 20, 2008 6:29 AM GMT
    god I love asian boys with broken english.






    like Jet Li in unleashed!
    unleashed-1.jpg

    Wouldn't mind having him as a pet. :0
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    Aug 20, 2008 6:35 AM GMT
    Don't give up so quickly on others. With enough time, people can surprise you, but only if you are patient enough to wait for them.

    Keep putting yourself out there and keep trying to connect. I'd also recommend thinking about why you want friends here on RJ. Then again, I always push introspection...

    “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
    -Rumi
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    Aug 20, 2008 6:36 AM GMT
    i think u need to realize some people are very shallow and look only on here for sex, if they dont like ur looks then they wont talk to u. I dont like people like that... As u can seeu are on my buddylist and hotlist. LOL
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    Aug 20, 2008 7:29 AM GMT
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    nbsac84 saidi think u need to realize some people are very shallow and look only on here for sex, if they dont like ur looks then they wont talk to u. I dont like people like that... As u can seeu are on my buddylist and hotlist. LOL


    thanks nb. i don't know what to say. :S icon_idea.gif
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    Aug 20, 2008 7:35 AM GMT
    Funkapottomous saidgod I love asian boys with broken english.






    like Jet Li in unleashed!
    unleashed-1.jpg

    Wouldn't mind having him as a pet. :0



    wow. thanks . well my english is not perpect cuz I speak other languages too. (I'm pretty good with them)
    but ya lol
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    Aug 20, 2008 7:36 AM GMT
    nb's right. you're on my buddy list too and we talk quite often. and if i had a hotlist, you'd be on it ;)
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    Aug 04, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    I'll be a friend and tell you this thread stopped five years ago.