What is it about fem guys that YOU don't like?

  • BloodFlame

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    Sep 02, 2012 7:19 PM GMT
    Hey there guys. Well I've thought about this topic for a very long time and I know these kinds of questions have been asked before but still, I think it wouldn't hurt to hear some current opinions.

    So with that in mind, I have noticed a lot that most gay men at least 75-80% of the time are not attracted or even hate fem guys for whatever reason they have. But it got me thinking, what do you guys personally think makes a guy fem? Not in general but YOUR opinion and if you are the type who doesn't like fem guys, why not post your opinion on why. Is it the way he talks? Is it what he wears? What he listens to? So on and so on...

    I will admit, I think I do have my fem quirks like for example, I like wearing corsets even though they are made for women (even though back in the 18th century, men used to wear them). But I don't really act all campy flamboyant and yet, people will group me into the fem archetype. I don't really care because I know who I am and I am just myself. I mean, why try to be something you aren't? My personal opinion on fem guys are I don't judge and I accept anyone. But as far as attraction go, if the guy has a very flamboyant voice like "Hey girrrrrrllll!" and stuff like that, it kind of kills my attraction icon_neutral.gif So I do accept the flamboyant sounding guys for being themselves but I'm not necessarily attracted to them.

    How about you guys What are your views and what do you think constitutes a fem guy?
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    Sep 02, 2012 7:54 PM GMT
    Here ya go. Enjoy reading.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2638304
  • BloodFlame

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    Sep 02, 2012 9:19 PM GMT
    Madame_Pele saidHere ya go. Enjoy reading.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2638304


    Ah okay, that one is more recent. Thanks for the post, I'll give it a read.
  • BloodFlame

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    Sep 02, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Madame_Pele saidHere ya go. Enjoy reading.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2638304

    Yeah, it's bad enough that this topic has been hashed out on RJ a billion times....let's at least have the discussion in only one active thread at a time.

    Please. icon_neutral.gif


    Okay, fair enough. I'll read through the link.