Sep 03, 2012 9:28 PM GMT
So, I have just joined this site and it seems great.....but........
.........when I keep checking out people's profiles an keep being met with 'no femmy guys'....'only fancy straight-acting guys'.....I think 'fair enough', but also, 'What the FUCK?'
Us 'inbetweeners'...who are as strong, tough, active, charming and well-endowed as the 'masculine' guys but who can drop to the splits and enjoy a showtune and jazzpant....end up evaluating their own masculinity.
You know......being muscular or having a deep voice or a swagger or a baseball cap and tattoos...doesn't make you masculine. Even a combination of them all doesn't. I could have all those things and act very 'masculine' but it would be an act...even if I did it really well.
My point is.......why is this such a big deal, and seems to be the main thing people want/are looking for? It would be great to see people wanting balanced, connected, active men as opposed to 'masculine'....it all feels a little........ummm......homophobic?
Probably talking bollocks, just sharing my early observations.
Ta.
.........when I keep checking out people's profiles an keep being met with 'no femmy guys'....'only fancy straight-acting guys'.....I think 'fair enough', but also, 'What the FUCK?'
Us 'inbetweeners'...who are as strong, tough, active, charming and well-endowed as the 'masculine' guys but who can drop to the splits and enjoy a showtune and jazzpant....end up evaluating their own masculinity.
You know......being muscular or having a deep voice or a swagger or a baseball cap and tattoos...doesn't make you masculine. Even a combination of them all doesn't. I could have all those things and act very 'masculine' but it would be an act...even if I did it really well.
My point is.......why is this such a big deal, and seems to be the main thing people want/are looking for? It would be great to see people wanting balanced, connected, active men as opposed to 'masculine'....it all feels a little........ummm......homophobic?
Probably talking bollocks, just sharing my early observations.
Ta.