Frat Sex story.. do they really happen?

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    Sep 05, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    Always hear about the stories through someone else, but curious if yours actually happened. (sure... post as a "friend")

    -initiations

    -random straight guy feast / hookup.
  • FuriousGeorge

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    Sep 05, 2012 5:27 AM GMT
    Haha, sorry, no kinky, ritualistic sexual abuse. No hazing of any kind. We were just a group of similarly-minded guys with a nice house. However, we gay members have swapped stories of run-ins with other members ... yeah, there's been some discreet action with curious straight guys on the side, usually alcohol-induced.
  • calibro

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    Sep 05, 2012 10:29 AM GMT
    no
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    Sep 05, 2012 11:08 AM GMT
    This is a weird stereotype to me, only because I don't remember many alcohol-inundated events we had (after pledging) that didn't involve sorority girls... It's not like the football team that all showers together naked after. There's girls at everything... parties, sports games, fundraising events. If a guy was gay, he was probably seeking it out outside of the frat.

    Although, one funny story I remember. I came out to my frat shortly after initiation because there was a rumor going around of a gay pledge, and the effeminate guy (who was straight) in my class was getting fingers pointing at him, so in my best Jersey Shore accent at the time (I'm from Brooklyn originally), I was all "Yoo fellaz, quit with the rumors haah? I'm the queerbait'.... That night, a brother came up to me and said "I applaud you man, and don't worry you're not the only one... TRUUUSST me" in a cryptic way... he had a gf, so I'm assuming he knew something I didn't know about some of the older guys. Who knows.

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    Sep 05, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    God I wish...

    Well, maybe it does. Stranger things have happened.
    If not You can always watch FraternityX. Com. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    It's more interesting to ask: why is this such a pervasive fantasy?
  • SomeSiciliano...

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    Sep 05, 2012 4:01 PM GMT
    TigerTim saidIt's more interesting to ask: why is this such a pervasive fantasy?


    Forbidden fruit syndrome...and the homoerotic notion that straight men, given the right circumstances, will jump the fence and 'take care of their own'. Its the same wishful thinking that men in the military are getting it on all the time.

    I was a Greek, Izzy and Furious are dead on; the only sexualization going on involved females. Yea, some drunken 'lets whip it out' happened....but at the end of the day, STRAIGHT MEN DO NOT LIKE PEENUS anymore than gay men like vagina, no matter how intoxicated.
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    Sep 05, 2012 4:39 PM GMT
    OP ..You shoul just troll it up and post your fantasies here !.. Come On !!

    What EXACTLY would you LIKE to happen???

    We'll give the story a really cheezy Gay Comercial name like..

    "The Men In Me"
    "Taking Turns"
    "When They Cum"
    "No Means Yes"
    "Down On My Knees"
    "Down On My Face"
    "My Personal Growth"
    "Walloo Saids OooH"

    OP Tell us ..What's really on your mind? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 5:00 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidOP ..You shoul just troll it up and post your fantasies here !.. Come On !!

    What EXACTLY would you LIKE to happen???

    We'll give the story a really cheezy Gay Comercial name like..

    "The Men In Me"
    "Taking Turns"
    "When They Cum"
    "No Means Yes"
    "Down On My Knees"
    "Down On My Face"
    "My Personal Growth"
    "Walloo Saids OooH"

    OP Tell us ..What's really on your mind? icon_biggrin.gif

    +1
  • neosyllogy

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    Sep 05, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
    IzzyMuscle saidThis is a weird stereotype to me, only because I don't remember many alcohol-inundated events we had (after pledging) that didn't involve sorority girls... It's not like the football team that all showers together naked after. There's girls at everything... parties, sports games, fundraising events. If a guy was gay, he was probably seeking it out outside of the frat.

    Although, one funny story I remember. I came out to my frat shortly after initiation because there was a rumor going around of a gay pledge, and the effeminate guy (who was straight) in my class was getting fingers pointing at him, so in my best Jersey Shore accent at the time (I'm from Brooklyn originally), I was all "Yoo fellaz, quit with the rumors haah? I'm the queerbait'.... That night, a brother came up to me and said "I applaud you man, and don't worry you're not the only one... TRUUUSST me" in a cryptic way... he had a gf, so I'm assuming he knew something I didn't know about some of the older guys. Who knows.


    That was hilarious.
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    Not WITHIN one's own house, no... now ACROSS houses on campus that's a different show. icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    I saw some things going on back in the day. I've had a couple of times when guys I would never have thought were into cock crossed the line wanting to take a walk on the wild side. In each case -- a whole lot of booze was the cause.

    Hell week was different in my case. The worst thing that happened to me was to be placed into a barrel while very, very drunk. Then - the barrel (with me in it) was rolled off the high dive one night after the diving pools were closed. I had no clue where we were - just rolling and then dropping for a few seconds, before hitting the water and sinking. Water was getting into the barrel and I had to keep kicking until the damn thing opened, so I could swim to the surface. If I hadn't been able to get out of the damn barrel, I might have drowned. Those clowns were too drunk to jump in and swim to the bottom of the pool to get me out.

    The crazy stuff we did in those days ........ but not sexual, for the most part.
  • TheBizMan

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    Sep 05, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    Nope, there was no sexual abuse during initiation or at any point of pledging. There was plenty of hazing and mental trials, but nothing hanky panky.

    However, sexual encounters with other frat boys... now that's a different story.
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidOP ..You shoul just troll it up and post your fantasies here !.. Come On !!

    What EXACTLY would you LIKE to happen???

    We'll give the story a really cheezy Gay Comercial name like..

    "The Men In Me"
    "Taking Turns"
    "When They Cum"
    "No Means Yes"
    "Down On My Knees"
    "Down On My Face"
    "My Personal Growth"
    "Walloo Saids OooH"

    OP Tell us ..What's really on your mind? icon_biggrin.gif


    "It ALL Started With the Paddle." icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:24 PM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    Those dam paddles...!! icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    "Thank You, Sir... May I Have Another?!?" icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    TigerTim saidIt's more interesting to ask: why is this such a pervasive fantasy?


    Indeed, almost as pervasive as the 'barrack room' sex fantasy. I think it must be something to do with the idea of an all-male or male-dominated environment.
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    My fraternity had so many violations and warnings by the time I pledged that initiation looked like a meeting of the chess club.
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    Sep 05, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    LIES! Spill your sacred oath beans and share with the board! icon_twisted.gificon_idea.gif
  • prime02

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    Sep 05, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    You stay closeted in your frat, that's what I did. I only came out when I was outta college.

    Nothing gay ever happens for initiation or pledging. No guy wants to see his pledge bro's dick lol.

    I did hook up with my big bro though. I knew he was closeted cause I would see him look at me across the room etc etc. I was piss ass drunk one night and came on to him in his room... pretended like it never happened and we never spoke of it till this day.

    We're actually friends now and go out in weho together sometimes haha icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    Well, this was a disappointing thread. I expected to hear some good stories and all I got was 'nope, never happened'. Makes me wish the trolls were here to spice things up a little! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 05, 2012 9:24 PM GMT
    no gay shit happens in frats.

    it's fantasy for most gay guys -- thats pretty much it.
  • NerdLifter

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    Sep 05, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    Fantasy. Noun.

    1. Imagination, especially when extravagant and unrestrained.
    2. The forming of mental images, especially wondrous or strange fancies; imaginative conceptualizing.
    3. A mental image, especially when unreal or fantastic
    ...
    Etc. From Dictionary.com.

    My own knowledge of frats at my university: almost all that are gay are in the closet. And if they have sex, it's in secret and are rather confused/scared of their sexuality. Met many guys who think being gay means something more than men who like to have sex with other men. For many of them, it has been ingrained since grade school that gay = a lifestyle. When really, it is a sexual orientation, nothing more. Many are still in the closet; it is a sad true story. Too many prime candidates still in that dark room.

    The one's not in the closet are the gay frats, and they are just guys, who happen to be gay in a frat.
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    Sep 05, 2012 10:48 PM GMT
    IzzyMuscle saidThis is a weird stereotype to me, only because I don't remember many alcohol-inundated events we had (after pledging) that didn't involve sorority girls... It's not like the football team that all showers together naked after. There's girls at everything... parties, sports games, fundraising events. If a guy was gay, he was probably seeking it out outside of the frat.

    Although, one funny story I remember. I came out to my frat shortly after initiation because there was a rumor going around of a gay pledge, and the effeminate guy (who was straight) in my class was getting fingers pointing at him, so in my best Jersey Shore accent at the time (I'm from Brooklyn originally), I was all "Yoo fellaz, quit with the rumors haah? I'm the queerbait'.... That night, a brother came up to me and said "I applaud you man, and don't worry you're not the only one... TRUUUSST me" in a cryptic way... he had a gf, so I'm assuming he knew something I didn't know about some of the older guys. Who knows.



    So true. If your fraternity has a party and it's a sausage-fest, someone isn't doing his job. As a rule of thumb, the number of girls should outnumber that of the guys. If there aren't enough girls to go around, you start kicking dudes out.
    Sex with another brother regardless of his orientation can happen, but the chance just varies from school to school and person to person. And honestly that secret sex thing can drive a wedge between you and that brother, which definitely won't be good in the long run. You gotta live with these guys after all. Sure you can get a happy ending, but its very uncommon.

    The fantasy initiation stuff like getting gangbanged by the upperclassmen is also highly unlikely (read: never) unless you have some sadistic closet gays running it(still never). You're way more likely to do edward 40 hands four times and an elephant walk than be a bukakke star. Oh and you're also likely to have to eat some rank stuff.
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    Sep 05, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    Yes, they happened to me, and it's safe to assume that they're happening at this very moment on campuses throughout this great nation.

    I won't waste my time or yours telling any stories b/c it's likely you won't believe me. What I will tell you is that I'll never forget any of the special times I had with a few of my brothers (the sober ones, anyway).