Tats and piercings

  • jayatl56

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    Sep 05, 2012 4:36 PM GMT
    Not sure how many of you guys have either or maybe both but I have a 4g PA and have been getting rejections as a result. I'm up front with everyone when asked my stats. That kills it sometimes.

    Just curious if I'm the only one hitting a wall when trying to meet someone who is expressing interest.

    thanks
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    Sep 05, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidNot sure how many of you guys have either or maybe both but I have a 4g PA and have been getting rejections as a result. I'm up front with everyone when asked my stats. That kills it sometimes.

    Just curious if I'm the only one hitting a wall when trying to meet someone who is expressing interest.

    thanks


    I don't like the look of PA's. Strange to me. The piercing below the lower lip is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT though.
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 05, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    Ok two against.

    If you met someone and found out after a few dates would that kill the deal? If you liked the guy would you consider asking him about whether or not he'd remove it for the sake of the relationship?
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    personally I dislike PA's, and have on several occasions turned guys down because of it.
    Its pretty gross and as one mate put it who wants that metal banging on your teeth? Just the thought of metal on teeth makes me squirm.

    Tatt's may look hot now but I've said it before and I will say it again, full sleeves are gonna look shocking when these guys get older. Plus they are quite dating, as time and fashion moves on. And so will your taste and style.


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    Sep 06, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    I'm not in favour of any form of body modification, tattoos included. They may seem like a good idea at the time, but like all fads, they will eventually fade. I don't see how having a PA improves the aesthetics of one's cock. I'll rejoice once foreskin restoration becomes the new fad.
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    eh, i cant imagine having sex with a dick that has metal in it, cant knock it till i try it though i guess, but i did date a guy who had one, asked him if hed remove it if we ever became intimate, and he straight up said no and was offended i asked lol. to each their own.
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    Question: Would a PA set off metal detectors like those at airports?

    I imagine they would being metallic? You would remove it prior to travelling, wouldn't you?
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 06, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    I'm surprised that there are so many against the PA. It was something I have been wanting for years and finally did it. The thing about it is that it can be removed if/when I get tired of it or if a potential partner asks that it be removed. I'm not against that for a partner. I don't have a tat because it is so permanent.

    No it doesn't set off metal detectors.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Sep 06, 2012 2:37 PM GMT
    jayatl56 said
    If you met someone and found out after a few dates would that kill the deal?


    YES...major boner kill for me. To each his own I guess, but for the life of me I can't grasp why anyone would want to pierce their penis. OUCH and ewwwww! You did ask...icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 06, 2012 2:40 PM GMT
    a PA is like a door knocker for your dick.
  • Medjai

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    Sep 06, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    Yeah, PAs are a deal breaker for me, as are any genital piercings.

    I don't mind subtle piercings though. Eyebrows, ear, tragus, etc. mouth and nose piercings have a 'rebel' allure to them, but in practice I'm not a fan.

    As for tattoos, I'm all for body art. I have two myself on my arm, and have plans for a full side tattoo. I enjoy other peoples art as well.
  • DanOmatic

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    Sep 06, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    I have a PA (1 ga) and love it. It makes orgasms EXTREMELY intense.

    I've never been turned down because I have a pierced dick, but always offer to take it out before sex because I know it's not everybody's thing. No need for anyone to be militant about it one way or the other.

    Oh, and about going through airport security: I have been through scanners in airports throughout the world with mine and have never set it off. And since I'm myth-busting here: yes, I can stand up to pee with it in.
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    PAs are so 90's! total deal breaker. anyways, they are over-rated.

    4 ga. is large metal. you can take it out without harm to yourself, but it could definitely cause some (a) dental damage, (b) anal wreckage, and (c) hygiene problems.

    why not offer to take it out if the partner isn't so receptive? or try a curved barbell to start, so there's less wobbling around.
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:17 PM GMT
    Wont knock it because I haven't tried it.. always wanted to though.

    One thing that does kinda worry me about it is how it works with a condom - are they more likely to break?

    I'm all for PA's on the right kinda cock though - think they look good - and unlike tattoos (which I have) can be removed and will heal up back to pretty much original condition..

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  • DanOmatic

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    Sep 06, 2012 3:30 PM GMT
    I'm not going to get into a debate here about the merits/demerits of a PA. I have one because I like it, and so far, no one has complained (and typically, the response is enthusiastic). It's just a matter of one's personal preference.

    Yes, one should be courteous and offer to take it out before sex. It takes 10 seconds. All sexual activities should be fun for both parties, after all.

    Yes, one can safely wear a condom with a PA without it causing it to break.

    Hygiene is easy: you wash it when you shower, and if you want, you can let it soak in some rubbing alcohol. But having one isn't unhygienic.
  • herna1pd

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    Sep 06, 2012 3:32 PM GMT
    Tats are a deal breaker for me.

    If he has them, he has them, but I'd prefer none.
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:43 PM GMT
    kingmo saidPAs are so 90's! total deal breaker. anyways, they are over-rated.


    You beat me to the punch!
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:48 PM GMT
    I don't mind certain piercings(if the man can pull it off) but a PA is a big turn off no matter what case.
  • FireDoor211

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    Sep 06, 2012 3:50 PM GMT
    I fInd alot of gay guys are repulsed by piercings. Just no sense of adventure I guess
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:04 PM GMT
    FireDoor211 saidI fInd alot of gay guys are repulsed by piercings. Just no sense of adventure I guess


    Its surprising how vanilla the general attitude to sex can be - America surprises me in that way..
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 06, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    FireDoor211 saidI fInd alot of gay guys are repulsed by piercings. Just no sense of adventure I guess


    Seems more guys in Europe have PAs - and straight guys. Here it's obvious that it's not accepted.
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:34 PM GMT
    Tats are okay but I'm not a big fan of piercings..
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 07, 2012 1:04 PM GMT
    I think tats are more of a fashion thing and therefore more widely accepted while piercings are seen more as a "fetish". If it was visa versa, we'd see more piercings. As it is, ear rings are accepted and maybe so are nipple piercings but any other body jewelry is strangely considered a body modification. Where do cock rings fit in? Guys wear those under their clothes - I've even seen one in the gym. I think a cock ring in that setting is more of an issue than a PA, but I'm guessing many of you will see it as one in the same.
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    Sep 07, 2012 1:37 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidOk two against.

    If you met someone and found out after a few dates would that kill the deal? If you liked the guy would you consider asking him about whether or not he'd remove it for the sake of the relationship?


    i dated a guy with a PA. i just could not touch his cock, much less contemplate doing anything with it. it looked disgusting. totally spoiled what would otherwise have been a really pretty dick.

    i asked him to remove it - he said he couldn't - i removed myself.
  • FireDoor211

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    Sep 08, 2012 10:52 AM GMT
    sc69 said
    FireDoor211 saidI fInd alot of gay guys are repulsed by piercings. Just no sense of adventure I guess


    Its surprising how vanilla the general attitude to sex can be - America surprises me in that way..


    I'm generally shocked when guys voice a distaste for piercings. With as willing as most guys are to jump from one cock to the next u'd think they would be more willing to try something new or a little different. I guess if people made sense therapists wouldn't be able to charge so much.