I WILL start the conversation with hi or whats up.

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    Sep 06, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    GET OVER YOURSELVES IM NOT GONNA WRITE YOU A POEM WHEN I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF YOURE WORTH TALKING TO YET. YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL.

    really though this is for the narcissists who need to be wow'd from the very beginning to even aknowledge someone elses existance. Some people on here have a pretty fucked up outlook, comment if you want i guess. Not mad just sucks that the conversation has to be decided in advance for some reason. like get real, seriously.
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    Sep 06, 2012 1:08 AM GMT
    jimmyboy77 said Not mad


    yep umad
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    Sep 06, 2012 1:08 AM GMT
    hurp didnt see that comin
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    Sep 06, 2012 1:30 AM GMT
    Look at it this way..If you have to go through all of that just to strike up a conversation with a guy... That's probably a guy you shouldn't be talking to!
    Technically...These guys are doing you a favor!!..Let it go !

    300,000 on this site.. You have work to do !
    Happy hunting !.. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 06, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    i like this thread
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    Sep 06, 2012 2:05 AM GMT
    Another smart arsed young Canadian,

    What the hell is going on up there? hmm
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    Most guys have enough information or pics on their profile to strike up a conversation. To send a message with 'sup' or 'hi' and nothing else just shows a lack of genuine interest. Think about it.. YOU are the one that wants to chat with him. Give him a reason to reply and continue the conversation.

    You don't have to write a novel. Just a quick one-liner..

    - You have a cute dog. What kind is it?

    - I like that video of that band you have on your profile. Any other bands like them?

    - I totally agree with what you said in that forum post. Tell me more about..

    And so on. That doesn't guarantee they'll always reply. But who cares? If a guy doesn't respond to a thoughtful message, he's either too busy or he's not worth gettIng to know. Just move on. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 06, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    I write poetry and I still get no clue. icon_confused.gif

    I think though, what our young Canadian friend is trying to say is: It doesn't matter what I initially say because if you're not interested, you're probably not going to say "hello". In my case, that's been more true than it hasn't and I've sent witty remarks, silly remarks, ones pointed at the profile and still no goo. icon_evil.gif

    Uptight narcissistic bastards. icon_mad.gif *Angry fist shake*
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    jimmyboy77 saidhurp didnt see that comin


    why you so mad bro?
  • neosyllogy

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    Sep 06, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    Why do you expect someone to take the time to respond to you among the slew of other messages they get if all you've said is "what's up"?

    You just said that you don't know if you're worth eachothers' time. Unless you expect your interest to be sufficient to change that. [pats on the head]

    (In practice whether you need to write something more elaborate will tend to depend on how obviously the person is likely to consider you a potential interest, whatever they say on their profile.)
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    ParadiseLost saidI write poetry and I still get no clue. icon_confused.gif

    I think though, what our young Canadian friend is trying to say is: It doesn't matter what I initially say because if you're not interested, you're probably not going to say "hello". In my case, that's been more true than it hasn't and I've sent witty remarks, silly remarks, ones pointed at the profile and still no goo. icon_evil.gif

    Uptight narcissistic bastards. icon_mad.gif *Angry fist shake*


    As a matter of civility, I'll reply to the orphaned "hello" or "sup." Often, it's shyness that limits the initial communicaiton, and once you get beyond the first word fragments, you'll know soon enough if there is anything that will germinate into a conversation.
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    It wouldn't be so bad if the response to saying hi back wasn't "How are you doing?"

    ...every single time.
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidLook at it this way..If you have to go through all of that just to strike up a conversation with a guy... That's probably a guy you shouldn't be talking to!
    Technically...These guys are doing you a favor!!..Let it go !

    300,000 on this site.. You have work to do !
    Happy hunting !.. icon_biggrin.gif


    Happy hunting! icon_wink.gif
  • neosyllogy

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    Sep 06, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    ParadiseLost saidI write poetry and I still get no clue. icon_confused.gif

    I think though, what our young Canadian friend is trying to say is: It doesn't matter what I initially say because if you're not interested, you're probably not going to say "hello". In my case, that's been more true than it hasn't and I've sent witty remarks, silly remarks, ones pointed at the profile and still no goo. icon_evil.gif

    Uptight narcissistic bastards. icon_mad.gif *Angry fist shake*


    If I send you a witty remark it's most likely to amuse myself firstly and to share with you out of the kindness of my heart secondly. If you have the good taste to appreciate my good taste, well, then maybe that's a bonus.

    Givin' ain't all about gettin'.
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    Sep 06, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    Ok, but how well is that working for you if you're writing this post to complain about it? Just a thought....
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    open with

    "i want to fuck you like an animal"

    that'll get their attention.
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:13 AM GMT
    northoz saidAnother smart arsed young Canadian,

    What the hell is going on up there? hmm


    They've been putting too much cinnamon on our Beaver Tails ;)
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    xrichx saidMost guys have enough information or pics on their profile to strike up a conversation. To send a message with 'sup' or 'hi' and nothing else just shows a lack of genuine interest. Think about it.. YOU are the one that wants to chat with him. Give him a reason to reply and continue the conversation.

    You don't have to write a novel. Just a quick one-liner..

    - You have a cute dog. What kind is it?

    - I like that video of that band you have on your profile. Any other bands like them?

    - I totally agree with what you said in that forum post. Tell me more about..

    And so on. That doesn't guarantee they'll always reply. But who cares? If a guy doesn't respond to a thoughtful message, he's either too busy or he's not worth gettIng to know. Just move on. icon_wink.gif




    What he said. /
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    yeah please don't.

    if my profile doesn't give you enough information to be able to say something that shows you capable of at least using a few brain cells I wont bother responding.

    cause 99 times out of 10 the guys who start up a conversation with hi or sup or hey or what ever usually are just interested in getting in the sack with me and the conversation stops the second I tell them I'm not interested.

    So please... don't waste my time i have so little of it as it is.
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:27 AM GMT
    SkittleGangsta saidIt wouldn't be so bad if the response to saying hi back wasn't "How are you doing?"

    ...every single time.


    That actually made me LOL!

    I was right about life. It really is the same silly thing over and over again.
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:45 AM GMT
    If you really want to start a conversation with a guy. Just unlock your Private Pics and show him some sexy zoomed in sphincter shots.
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    Sep 06, 2012 8:29 AM GMT
    xrichx saidIf you really want to start a conversation with a guy. Just unlock your Private Pics and show him some sexy zoomed in sphincter shots.


    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    I tried that..!! The guy deleted his profile almost immediately! ..
    Poor bastard ! icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 06, 2012 8:41 AM GMT
    xrichx saidshow him some sexy zoomed in sphincter shots.


    shit's hot bro
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    Sep 06, 2012 8:41 AM GMT
    It's VERY COLD in Canada!
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    Sep 06, 2012 8:58 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    northoz saidAnother smart arsed young Canadian,

    What the hell is going on up there? hmm


    You finally noticed this too, eh?

    All these grumpy, defensive Canadians on this site. It's a curious thing.


    Yes its weird cause all the Canadians Ive ever met have been pretty fun and chilled people.

    I wonder (besides the cinnamon in the beaver tails) why?

    Is something wrong in Canadia?icon_rolleyes.gif