Today was a disaster!

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    Sep 06, 2012 1:06 AM GMT
    I was supposed to have my first sexual experience today, but it actually turned out to be my worst nightmare. I've been chatting with this beautiful Arab guy for a while and he invited me to come over to his place. I was excited about, i was willing to let him pop my cherry. I cleaned up and met him. But when we got down to business......... his cock didn't fit into my ass. We tried and tried but it didn't happen. icon_sad.gif

    So i really need advice for next time. What am i supposed to do in these situations? He still wants to go for a second round, possibly tomorrow. icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 06, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    was he not hard?

    Don't sweat it, dude.
    There will be PLENTY of others.


    How did he act? Was he all put-off by it? If so, whatta dick
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    Its probably just nerves... Next time watch a porno or something and let him finger u with LOTS of lube. lol...And this thread really belongs in adult section...icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    .......Or do you mean he was too big for you? If that's the case, you just have to go very slowly - with lots of lube, lots of relaxation, a back rub, a sensuous ass rub, one finger - relax, time, play, then slowly - two fingers - more relaxation - he should kiss the back of your neck - get you all hot and wanting it...........more time, another finger - more lube - you know the drill. When it's time to try to put it in - just have him go slowly - very slowly - going in just an inch - and wait - slowly going in and out ....... until you're really ready for more. Reapply lube often.
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    Jockbod48 said.......Or do you mean he was too big for you? If that's the case, you just have to go very slowly - with lots of lube, lots of relaxation, a back rub, a sensuous ass rub, one finger - relax, time, play, then slowly - two fingers - more relaxation - he should kiss the back of your neck - get you all hot and wanting it...........more time, another finger - more lube - you know the drill. When it's time to try to put it in - just have him go slowly - very slowly - going in just an inch - and wait - slowly going in and out ....... until you're really ready for more. Reapply lube often.

    He's Arab .. I can't say for sure, but from past experience of the one's I've met, all that lovey dovey stuff ain't going to happen ... he'll just was a wham bam and good-bye .... Make your first someone who'll be more than on one night stand.
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    Jockbod48 said.......Or do you mean he was too big for you? If that's the case, you just have to go very slowly - with lots of lube, lots of relaxation, a back rub, a sensuous ass rub, one finger - relax, time, play, then slowly - two fingers - more relaxation - he should kiss the back of your neck - get you all hot and wanting it...........more time, another finger - more lube - you know the drill. When it's time to try to put it in - just have him go slowly - very slowly - going in just an inch - and wait - slowly going in and out ....... until you're really ready for more. Reapply lube often.


    Oh for pete sake just come to Toronto and do that to me already! Give me a boner will ya icon_razz.gif lol
  • slo_jock86

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    Sep 06, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    Tomorrow will be worse.
  • FitGwynedd

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    Sep 06, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    Jockbod48 said.......Or do you mean he was too big for you? If that's the case, you just have to go very slowly - with lots of lube, lots of relaxation, a back rub, a sensuous ass rub, one finger - relax, time, play, then slowly - two fingers - more relaxation - he should kiss the back of your neck - get you all hot and wanting it...........more time, another finger - more lube - you know the drill. When it's time to try to put it in - just have him go slowly - very slowly - going in just an inch - and wait - slowly going in and out ....... until you're really ready for more. Reapply lube often.

    He's Arab .. I can't say for sure, but from past experience of the one's I've met, all that lovey dovey stuff ain't going to happen ... he'll just was a wham bam and good-bye .... Make your first someone who'll be more than on one night stand.


    Well put. Might be best to wait for a boyfriend or someone you can trust and be comfortable with. Your body might be rejecting him because you know deep inside that your not ready.
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    Sep 06, 2012 5:54 AM GMT
    Sometimes you just have to go slow and recognize that it won't happen on the first try.
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    Sep 06, 2012 7:00 AM GMT
    Buy a dildo and practice.
  • mrfantastic2

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    Sep 06, 2012 7:40 AM GMT
    I couldn't see my Forums with my first account. i had to make another one. weird.

    Import saidwas he not hard?

    Don't sweat it, dude.
    There will be PLENTY of others.


    How did he act? Was he all put-off by it? If so, whatta dick


    He was hard. I think he was just too big for me. He didn't act like a dick at all, he kept on saying "It's okay, it happens". We still did other things, but not anal.

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    Sep 06, 2012 7:43 AM GMT
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREWell put. Might be best to wait for a boyfriend or someone you can trust and be comfortable with. Your body might be rejecting him because you know deep inside that your not ready.


    You're right. Maybe I'm not ready.
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    Sep 06, 2012 8:28 AM GMT
    Try wearing a butt plug until you get over to his house... he should fit in really easily after that...just a thought. icon_lol.gif

    Honestly, I wouldn't sweat it...just take it slow. Better luck tomorrow.
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    Sep 06, 2012 8:34 AM GMT
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    Sep 06, 2012 9:47 AM GMT
    Mrfantastic saidI was supposed to have my first sexual experience today, but it actually turned out to be my worst nightmare. I've been chatting with this beautiful Arab guy for a while and he invited me to come over to his place. I was excited about, i was willing to let him pop my cherry. I cleaned up and met him. But when we got down to business......... his cock didn't fit into my ass. We tried and tried but it didn't happen. icon_sad.gif

    So i really need advice for next time. What am i supposed to do in these situations? He still wants to go for a second round, possibly tomorrow. icon_redface.gif


    Reminds me of my first time ... good times
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    Sep 07, 2012 2:37 PM GMT
    everyone's first time is not exactly a scene from a porn movie.

    I mean, it's awkward, it's uncomfortable, it's strange, uhhh
    but after some experience, you'll be iight.

    It was cute he wasn't a dick about it like "k, im gonna go now"...at least he told u it was ok. Don't sweat it.
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    Sep 07, 2012 2:41 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidBuy a dildo and practice.


    ^^^
    This! And get some lube. icon_smile.gif