Animal attraction

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    Sep 07, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    I've been playing around with this guy for a few weeks now, super hot, he's a big muscle, hairy chested bottom, and he finds me just as hot. We cant keep our bits off of each other. we never really talked ( too busy kissing) until last night and it turns out we are very different people.Thing is we obviously like each other, he even referred to us as the Lady and the tramp ( god despite his love of heavy metal, the fact he's never travelled and his dressing like a complete Bogan he's just adorable).

    So I wondered in your experience have you had that animal attraction with a guy yet nothing at all in common? Knowing it began as a physical sex thing and never thinking it could be more, but then despite everything both of you wanting more? And how long did it last? We are going to the beach this weekend and we are both making an effort to get to know each other and accept each other but we are from 2 different worlds. I've never met a guy like him he's really gotten to me.

    I really want to make this work, HELP?
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    Sep 07, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    I believe in every relationship to work you need two people who have the just right amount of differences to keep the relationship going. You wouldn't want a carbon copy of yourself to be dating would you?

    The guys I tend to end up with are usually moody, hard headed, rude, kinda rough around the edges kinda guys. Myself, I usually don't give a fuck about much, I'm patient, perky, and pretty easy going for the most part. I like to think that its what keeps the spark alive. You need someone that can complete the other half of you to make the relationship and love whole.

    Like peanut butter and jelly or milk and cookies. They just mesh!!!icon_biggrin.gif

    I say if you already find this guy sexy, and you are both looking for a relationship, then go for it! You may even grow to love his little quirks.....
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    Sep 07, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI believe in every relationship to work you need two people who have the just right amount of differences to keep the relationship going. You wouldn't want a carbon copy of you to be dating would you?

    The guys I tend to end up with are usually moody, hard headed, rude, kinda rough around the edges kinda guy. Myself, I usually don't give a fuck about much, patient, perky, and pretty easy going for the most part. I like to think that its what keeps the spark alive. You need someone that can complete the other half of you to make the relationship and love whole.

    Like peanut butter and jelly or milk and cookies. They just mesh!!!icon_biggrin.gif

    I say if you already find this guy sexy, and you are both looking for a relationship, then go for it! You may even grow to love his little quirks.....


    Thanks I do already like his little quirks despite myself, I agree about the differences meshing, but wonder if we are just too different, neither of us was looking for a relationship it was more of a fuck buddy thing. But after last night it became apparent to both of us we were in serious "like" besides the lust.
    Im normally much more controlled than this, and usually work out these issues on my own, but Im all googly eyed today, and cant help smiling and keep catching his scent on me, ( yes I have showered lol). I've become one of these RJ queens with no idea and prattling on about a potential relationship, lord help me. icon_rolleyes.gif

    The birds are blue and the sky is singing..... ta la la la la la
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    Sep 07, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    Ahhh...my friend, I know exactly how you feel. I haven't felt that way in years but I giggle like a Chinese school girl when I talk about my current crush.

    And at least you got the sex part down. Just keep fucking like bunnies. You have one thing in common. He likes your Aussie man stick, thats a start...

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    Sep 08, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    Oz..this is just a hurdle when the foundation of a relationship is physical..
    You have to work backwards..
    ..I know plenty of guys that make it work ..but for the most part the begining is always a chalenge!..
    I believe two people that want the same thing bad enough can compromise and make it work!..
    ..keeping my fingers crossed for you !
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    Sep 08, 2012 3:08 PM GMT
    This is SO not what I expected when clicking on this thread...
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    Sep 09, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    Rita saidThis is SO not what I expected when clicking on this thread...


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    Sep 09, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    Embrace the difference!!

    He's into heavy metal.. have you ever actually listened to heavy metal and I don't mean heard it actually listened?

    It's not for me but it certainly takes talent and a little something to make it work

    He dresses like a bogan... eh we all got some bogan in us...

    He's a fierce little lay awesome!

    When he pipes up with his opinion that might be different from yours listen to it, don't just hear how wrong he is but listen to what he says and ask questions about it to understand where he comes from and why.

    He's probably gotten to you because he is so different and different is good!

    And seriously who wants to look in the mirror all the freakin time! how boring!!

    But the challenge wont really start until a relationship starts to settle in and you start being there with each other through the harder parts (and I don't mean the erection) like when you both stop trying to rip each other apart and start spending less time having sex and more time just living with each other as a couple
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    Who's the top and bottom in that relationship???
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    Sep 09, 2012 9:58 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidWho's the top and bottom in that relationship???


    What mine or the movie?icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 09, 2012 10:01 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidEmbrace the difference!!

    He's into heavy metal.. have you ever actually listened to heavy metal and I don't mean heard it actually listened?

    It's not for me but it certainly takes talent and a little something to make it work

    He dresses like a bogan... eh we all got some bogan in us...

    He's a fierce little lay awesome!

    When he pipes up with his opinion that might be different from yours listen to it, don't just hear how wrong he is but listen to what he says and ask questions about it to understand where he comes from and why.

    He's probably gotten to you because he is so different and different is good!

    And seriously who wants to look in the mirror all the freakin time! how boring!!

    But the challenge wont really start until a relationship starts to settle in and you start being there with each other through the harder parts (and I don't mean the erection) like when you both stop trying to rip each other apart and start spending less time having sex and more time just living with each other as a couple


    Like I said earlier you're too wise Mr.
    Spent the day with him today and only talked, We get along really well I havent laughed so much in ages. The heavy metal,hmm well a friend told me yesterday to watch some movies,so Ill study up. we both work off each other well, as in conversation its so easy being with him.