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    Aug 20, 2008 3:01 PM GMT
    Ok, so I'm going on my first date today with a guy in over 2 years. I'm kind of nervous. So... what I'm trying to say is... WISH ME LUCK please, lol.
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    Aug 20, 2008 3:24 PM GMT
    You're cute, got a sexy body and from your pictures a great personality.

    Just be yourself and you'll be fine =)
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    Aug 20, 2008 4:05 PM GMT
    You are a great guy - you've been through some stuff - all of that has made you better - stronger. Just be yourself, smile, breathe, and don't forget to have fun.
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    Aug 20, 2008 4:40 PM GMT
    Thanks guys icon_smile.gif

    I'll let you know how it goes.
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    Aug 20, 2008 5:55 PM GMT
    I've read some of your posts in the past, and I'll say that you have a lot of things going for you. You probably don't need the good luck wishes, but I'll say it anyways: good luck!
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    Aug 20, 2008 9:46 PM GMT
    Ok, so the coffee was good. Place was pretty nice. The date? I wouldn't know... yea.. got stood up. Oh well, his loss, I guess.
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    Aug 20, 2008 9:48 PM GMT
    Awwww.... {reassuring hug}
    His loss indeed.

    Don't worry... there're plenty of fish in the sea.
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    Aug 20, 2008 10:06 PM GMT
    That sucks, men can be such bitches sometimes.

    Need a hug (without too much groping)?
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    Aug 20, 2008 10:07 PM GMT
    Good luck, I'm sure he'll be swept off his feet by your sexiness and charm.
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    Aug 20, 2008 10:09 PM GMT
    i'll take you out lilmaninsc. hell, we can watch a days of our lives marathon icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 20, 2008 10:11 PM GMT
    lilmaninsc saidOk, so the coffee was good. Place was pretty nice. The date? I wouldn't know... yea.. got stood up. Oh well, his loss, I guess.


    TOTALLY his loss - damn LOSER! you, of anyone around here, deserve good things to happen to you... and they will. this guy was obviously NOT one of them.

    hugs and kisses to you!
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    Aug 20, 2008 10:13 PM GMT
    wrkoutbud30 saidi'll take you out lilmaninsc. hell, we can watch a days of our lives marathon icon_biggrin.gif


    LOL, sounds good icon_razz.gif


    and I agree with the rest of you, his loss. I ain't gonna worry about. If he calls and wants to go out again.. I'll be the doing the standing up.
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    Aug 20, 2008 11:37 PM GMT
    Hey best of luck and don't try and get too nervous (easier said than done I know).
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    Aug 20, 2008 11:42 PM GMT
    lilmaninsc saidOk, so I'm going on my first date today with a guy in over 2 years. I'm kind of nervous. So... what I'm trying to say is... WISH ME LUCK please, lol.


    Was it someone you met and asked out or was it a set up?

    Either way his loss
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    Aug 20, 2008 11:49 PM GMT
    Bleh. His loss indeed. icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 20, 2008 11:53 PM GMT
    AMT87 said
    lilmaninsc saidOk, so I'm going on my first date today with a guy in over 2 years. I'm kind of nervous. So... what I'm trying to say is... WISH ME LUCK please, lol.


    Was it someone you met and asked out or was it a set up?

    Either way his loss


    We met about 6 months ago. Have been talking off and on. He asked me for date today, yesterday. I called him, left a voicemail. He never called back, so I left it at that. I'm not chasing after anyone! icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 20, 2008 11:55 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear, but keep using the irish spring sport. Don't blame the soap.
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    Aug 20, 2008 11:58 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidSorry to hear, but keep using the irish spring sport. Don't blame the soap.



    LOL. will do!
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    Aug 21, 2008 12:01 AM GMT
    good luck lilman!
  • Puppy80

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    Aug 21, 2008 12:13 AM GMT
    Totally his loss man. And also, welcome back to the site!
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    Aug 21, 2008 12:47 AM GMT
    Thanks guys.

    And muchmore, I knew him in real life. We've hung out before. His problem could be that he's not out to anyone. In which case, I should have left him alone in the first place. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 21, 2008 12:52 AM GMT
    Sorry you had to go through this. His loss - he'll never know what a cool guy you are.

    Once, it happend to me. I got stood up at a Chili's Restaurant. There I sat - waiting. The poor slob never called to cancel or explain. I found out later through a third party the slob who stood me up actually did show up - saw me getting out of my car, felt inadequate, and bolted. I'll bet that since you too are a hot looking guy, there's a chance your case is the same, ya think?

    We don't need these kind of guys who have no balls, no confidence in themselves - and act like little three year old girls - running away - not showing up. I can't believe anyone would be afraid to show up for a date! I've never felt intimidated by anyone - no matter who - I'd still go in, do the date, have a great time, wouldn't all of you?
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    Aug 21, 2008 1:07 AM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidSorry you had to go through this. His loss - he'll never know what a cool guy you are.

    Once, it happend to me. I got stood up at a Chili's Restaurant. There I sat - waiting. The poor slob never called to cancel or explain. I found out later through a third party the slob who stood me up actually did show up - saw me getting out of my car, felt inadequate, and bolted. I'll bet that since you too are a hot looking guy, there's a chance your case is the same, ya think?

    We don't need these kind of guys who have no balls, no confidence in themselves - and act like little three year old girls - running away - not showing up. I can't believe anyone would be afraid to show up for a date! I've never felt intimidated by anyone - no matter who - I'd still go in, do the date, have a great time, wouldn't all of you?



    Sure would.
    I don't think that's his case though, being as we've hung out before? Hell if I know, though. Oh wells.
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    Aug 21, 2008 1:13 AM GMT
    Stay away from guys who are not out. It's fun being the first one to escort the unicorn to pasture? If he doesn't know he's a unicorn then you can't make him see it, even if he plays with your horn or vice versa. Hope that helps.icon_cool.gif

    And yes his loss.
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    Aug 21, 2008 1:56 AM GMT
    Chuy2010 saidStay away from guys who are not out. It's fun being the first one to escort the unicorn to pasture? If he doesn't know he's a unicorn then you can't make him see it, even if he plays with your horn or vice versa. Hope that helps.icon_cool.gif

    And yes his loss.


    Being the starter gay is not a lot of fun in my experience.

    I think the op is better off with him having not shown.