Exs that keep coming back.

  • socalisurfer

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    Sep 09, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    Long story short it's been close to two years since my ex and I broke up. He cheated on me with a girl, still in a relationship with her and from what I've heard it's off and on.

    Well since our breakup I've made it clear more than once that I really don't want to be in contact with him nor want to be his friend. He texts and calls a few times a month, I just ignore the messages. The other day he hunted me down (we share a few of the same friends) so it wasn't too hard to find me. We're in the same field so we come across each other every few months.

    Anyone have an ex like this and if so...what gives. They're like herpes (no I dont have herpes) but it's like you think they're gone for good and then wham they show up again.

    I've have told him is that it's disrespectful to his gf and me to contact me for a booty call. Anyone ever been in a situation like this before and what the hell do you do? What's going on through his mind too?
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    Sep 09, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    I'm shocked

    I'm not sure by which.

    that you'd need advice on this

    or that you'd think he'd have enough respect for this girl he cheated on you with.

    But I'll give you advice.

    Tell him in absolute words to get the hell out of your life and stay there. Don't be nice, don't be friendly, don't be kind tell him to fuck off.
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    Sep 09, 2012 1:43 PM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    No other way around it OP.. listen to LilTanker..
    .. This guy is toxic.. get him out of your system completely!