Who do you have a crush on?

  • drakutis

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    Sep 09, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    I have a crush on this guy I met on FB. It feels weird for me at 44 because I'm really trying to take it easy and not come on too strong. And I never thought I would meet someone who would cause me to think about him more than my recent ex, which I need to get past. I ran across his pic in a group we're both in and I was captivated. Sent a freind request, he accepted and we've been in contact ever since.

    He's so nice and when I look at his pics, I get such a good feeling. I don't know if he feels the same, but I did post that Grey Goose was my friend on my wall. He responded with "who is this Mr. Goose? Don't make me pimp slap him! There's only room enough for me! icon_smile.gif" My heart jumped.

    He knows I'm severely attracted to him, so my cards are on the table.

    I know others have had this experience, so I want to hear your stories.
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    Sep 09, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    I'm fairly up-front about my feelings for people. Sometimes they bite, sometimes they don't. I don't get too worried about the guys that aren't interested. Having such things affect your self-esteem is putting too much pressure on yourself.
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    Sep 09, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    Pretty much everyone on my hot list...
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    Sep 09, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidPretty much everyone on my hot list...
    Same. icon_cool.gif
  • Import

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    Sep 09, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    McQueen has surprisingly earned a spot on my crush list icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:06 AM GMT
    Import saidMcQueen has surprisingly earned a spot on my crush list icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
    icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_heart.gif same to you boo
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:13 AM GMT
    HorrorHound.

    Wow
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    I refuse to allow myself to crush on anyone anymore. Unrequited feelings suck. I've bottled that shit up.

    If you had asked who I think is hot, that would have been a totally different answer.
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    ^ it's the same thing
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    Painted said^ it's the same thing


    Not in my book.
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    Sep 09, 2012 2:06 PM GMT
    drakutis saidI have a crush on this guy I met on FB. It feels weird for me at 44 because I'm really trying to take it easy and not come on too strong. And I never thought I would meet someone who would cause me to think about him more than my recent ex, which I need to get past. I ran across his pic in a group we're both in and I was captivated. Sent a freind request, he accepted and we've been in contact ever since.

    He's so nice and when I look at his pics, I get such a good feeling. I don't know if he feels the same, but I did post that Grey Goose was my friend on my wall. He responded with "who is this Mr. Goose? Don't make me pimp slap him! There's only room enough for me! icon_smile.gif" My heart jumped.

    He knows I'm severely attracted to him, so my cards are on the table.

    I know others have had this experience, so I want to hear your stories.


    what stories? some you win some you lose.

    i was vacationing in phuket one year. i saw this guy walking across the beach twice. on the second time i went up to him and told him i think he is hot. he fell out laughing. we were together 6 years.

    recently i met a guy thru an online site. on our first meet, he kissed me 3 times. well we kissed each other 3 times. i thought we had a connection. i told him i would like to get to know him and to let me know if he felt the same. he responded that he was very busy, but will make some time to meet the following week. this was 2 months ago.

    some you win, some you lose...


    guys who i have crushes on? hmmmm lemme see now... fit guys in their 40s-60s
  • UncleBing

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    Sep 09, 2012 2:23 PM GMT
    To say some1 on here is hot just means I think they are hot. Though 1 or 2 I would like a chance to get to know. Now the guy @ my gym? That is a crush! LOL I see him and all of a sudden I feel 16.
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    Sep 09, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    Michael Stipe.
  • drakutis

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    Sep 09, 2012 2:42 PM GMT
    McQueen saidI'm fairly up-front about my feelings for people. Sometimes they bite, sometimes they don't. I don't get too worried about the guys that aren't interested. Having such things affect your self-esteem is putting too much pressure on yourself.


    Yeah, it's nice to have a feeling of possibilities, but I can't afford to let myself go all in on a situation like this. I honestly have no expectations about him and I admit that I may look into things too much regarding his actions and words.

    The laws of attraction suck because it's always the ones that you DON'T want that want you, at least that's been my experience. You can be friends with them, but they always want more. I haven't had a mutual attraction experience yet. Either I pop out to someone else or vice versa and then it gets awkward. And I'm sorry, but it's all based on the visual attraction then the getting to know part. I have to be attracted to them and go from there. ( I hope I don't come across as shallow, I'm really not.)
  • suedeheadscot

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    Sep 09, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    A work colleague from another agency my work is doing partnership work with. He is gay and in an open relationship. Can't be done though - would be unprofessional of me and jeopardise the project! Grrr....
  • dimaperm

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    Sep 09, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    I can totally relate. Crossed paths with a guy in a chat room about a month ago. Became FB friends and continue to chat pretty regularly. He's got a great personality and sense of humor and I also find him incredibly attractive physically. I too get that "feeling" (not like that!) when I see his pic pop up or when we chat. There is a pretty big age difference but neither of us seem to mind that. Biggest challenge is the rather considerable distance between our current locations. So who knows...maybe something could come of this or maybe not. But despite my trying to not to have any unrealistic expectations I can't seem to stop that "feeling"!
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    Sep 09, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    My trainer. I know, how cliché, right?
  • kongroars

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    Sep 09, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    I have the biggest crush on a actor I worked with a few months ago...

    He's a mix of German and native american... just.... gorgeous... boyish... college athlete. Always goofing around making jokes... and that smile!

    And I know he kinda likes me.

    Where's the catch ?

    He is in the happiest, healthiest gay relationship I've ever seen. I would NEVER ever ever EVER try to destroy that. So I stay away, like a hypochondriac to a leper!
  • O5vx

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    Sep 09, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    kongroars saidI have the biggest crush on a actor I worked with a few months ago...

    He's a mix of German and native american... just.... gorgeous... boyish... college athlete. Always goofing around making jokes... and that smile!

    And I know he kinda likes me.

    Where's the catch ?

    He is in the happiest, healthiest gay relationship I've ever seen. I would NEVER ever ever EVER try to destroy that. So I stay away, like a hypochondriac to a leper!


    You would make a great friend.
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    Sep 09, 2012 3:24 PM GMT
    This guy I've met named Evan. We have become fast friends after he tended to me after going to the ER with his job as a male nurse. He's super sweet and friendly
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    Sep 09, 2012 4:17 PM GMT
    I have 1 RJ romantic crush.. and 1 RJ BFF crush..!
    Two different types of crushes..but they are both Awesome!!.. icon_biggrin.gif
  • synestheticxs...

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    Sep 09, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    I only really have one celeb crush, and it's Cillian Murphy.. xD
  • reptile18

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    Sep 10, 2012 2:38 AM GMT
    I crushed on a conservative, homophobic, evangelical Christian, supernerd, genius thing in college. Still trying to get over him icon_neutral.gif
  • smthfun2009

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    Sep 11, 2012 8:27 AM GMT
    Couple months ago I had a crush on this guy, who I thought was the coolest and cutest thing on earth. He ended up cheating on his gf with my best friend, who also cheated on her bf with him. It was just weird for me to witness it all
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    Sep 11, 2012 8:34 AM GMT
    drakutis saidI have a crush on this guy I met on FB. It feels weird for me at 44 because I'm really trying to take it easy and not come on too strong. And I never thought I would meet someone who would cause me to think about him more than my recent ex, which I need to get past. I ran across his pic in a group we're both in and I was captivated. Sent a freind request, he accepted and we've been in contact ever since.

    He's so nice and when I look at his pics, I get such a good feeling. I don't know if he feels the same, but I did post that Grey Goose was my friend on my wall. He responded with "who is this Mr. Goose? Don't make me pimp slap him! There's only room enough for me! icon_smile.gif" My heart jumped.

    He knows I'm severely attracted to him, so my cards are on the table.

    I know others have had this experience, so I want to hear your stories.


    That's hot! Wish I had that kind of luck.