If you're married don't even.

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    Sep 10, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    I hate getting messages from married guys. What's even more disturbing is how people actually BRAG about being married.

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC" icon_rolleyes.gif

    It's sad when I have more respect for your marriage than you do.

    If you are married, get a fucking divorce. How can people just play around with other peoples' lives like that?................

    I feel like there are a lot of them out there, advertising their married status like its a good thing. Is there a market for this? Do people get off of fucking married people?

    It doesn't make me think your straight. I just makes me think you're a liar.
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    Sep 10, 2012 2:37 AM GMT


    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC"

    The British Broadcasting Corporation would do WHAT to his hole? I thought they'd just film it.
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidI hate getting messages from married guys. What's even more disturbing is how people actually BRAG about being married.

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC" icon_rolleyes.gif

    It's sad when I have more respect for your marriage than you do.

    If you are married, get a fucking divorce. How can people just play around with other peoples' lives like that?................

    I feel like there are a lot of them out there, advertising their married status like its a good thing. Is there a market for this? Do people get off of fucking married people?

    It doesn't make me think your straight. I just makes me think you're a liar.


    Ok. I know you're being racially objectified. I know that's wrong.





    But this still turned me on.
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC"

    The British Broadcasting Corporation would do WHAT to his hole? I thought they'd just film it.


    tear it up. thrash it. rut in it like there's no tomorrow... at least that's the fantasy.

    it get's really bizarre when they get upset that you want to have nothing to do with them.
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    You have a BBC?
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    I can have sympathies for other people's situations but ultimately everyone must be responsible for their own decisions.

    Fooling around with a married man or someone who's already in a relationship is a no-go for me.

    Aside from the morals issue, if they're dishonest with someone they supposedly love, who knows what kinda bull they'd be telling me.
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    mdstudio saidI can have sympathies for other people's situations but ultimately everyone must be responsible for their own decisions.

    Fooling around with a married man or someone who's already in a relationship is a no-go for me.

    Aside from the morals issue, if they're dishonest with someone they supposedly love, who knows what kinda bull they'd be telling me.


    I am annoyed by the lack of integrity these people have who are married. I get that you're unhappy and shit and perhaps your marriage isn't working out for you but seriously? Don't dump that crap on me. It's bad karma, in my belief and if nothing else, it's simply duplicitous.

    I'm the 'greedy' and 'selfish' one when it comes to relationships-- I prefer to be only with one person when I'm serious and going steady. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    I'm not going to try and justify what some married guys do but I will say that not all married guys are out there trying to get you (or the BBC) into their holes! Also, you don't know what the relationship is with their spouse so until you walk in their shoes, don't judge.

    Also, plenty of gay guys in 'monogamous' relationships that are out doing the same thing. The fact that many can't get married doesn't seem a reason enough to be excluded from your judgmental group.

    If you don't like dealing with married guys, just tell them. And do us a favor, come back in 30 years and let's take a look at your moral standing! That way we can all judge you.



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    Sep 10, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC"

    The British Broadcasting Corporation would do WHAT to his hole? I thought they'd just film it.

    That's what I thought, too. I haven't been online cruising in so long I don't know the shorthand anymore. BBC = Big Bad Cock? Seems possible given the context. Or Big Black Cock? Is the OP Black?

    To answer the OP, maybe some guys think admitting they're being married appeals to some gays, because it means it's gonna remain simply a trick, no chance of unwanted entanglement.

    Unless of course the wife has hired a private detective, and who wants to be in the middle of that entanglement? Not me, thank you.
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    Think it this way if they cant stay faithful to their wife even if they are gay what makes you think they would stay faithful to you if the chance of being together ever came up?
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    I've had a great time with several married 'couples' but not a married individual, that's just disrespectful.
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    It's totally fine if she knows. And wants to watch. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidI'm not going to try and justify what some married guys do but I will say that not all married guys are out there trying to get you (or the BBC) into their holes! Also, you don't know what the relationship is with their spouse so until you walk in their shoes, don't judge.

    Also, plenty of gay guys in 'monogamous' relationships that are out doing the same thing. The fact that many can't get married doesn't seem a reason enough to be excluded from your judgmental group.

    If you don't like dealing with married guys, just tell them. And do us a favor, come back in 30 years and let's take a look at your moral standing! That way we can all judge you.





    The nastiest emails I get by far are from married "straight", married bi and married gay men. "Hey stud, when are you going to hold me down and tear up my ass with that raw black cock of yours?" isn't as ambiguous as you think although I can see how one could interpret it as "let's go to bible study".icon_rolleyes.gif

    Everyone's situation is different, but many are just horny guys who want to fuck around and most will boast that they have to be discrete because their spouse doesn't know. Sorry man.
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:56 AM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidI hate getting messages from married guys. What's even more disturbing is how people actually BRAG about being married.

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC" icon_rolleyes.gif

    It's sad when I have more respect for your marriage than you do.

    If you are married, get a fucking divorce. How can people just play around with other peoples' lives like that?................

    I feel like there are a lot of them out there, advertising their married status like its a good thing. Is there a market for this? Do people get off of fucking married people?

    It doesn't make me think your straight. I just makes me think you're a liar.

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    Sep 10, 2012 5:19 AM GMT
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    DEKIRUMAN saidI hate getting messages from married guys. What's even more disturbing is how people actually BRAG about being married.

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC" icon_rolleyes.gif

    It's sad when I have more respect for your marriage than you do.

    If you are married, get a fucking divorce. How can people just play around with other peoples' lives like that?................

    I feel like there are a lot of them out there, advertising their married status like its a good thing. Is there a market for this? Do people get off of fucking married people?

    It doesn't make me think your straight. I just makes me think you're a liar.

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    LOL at the gif
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    Sep 10, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    Myol saidThe nastiest emails I get by far are from married "straight", married bi and married gay men. "Hey stud, when are you going to hold me down and tear up my ass with that raw black cock of yours?" isn't as ambiguous as you think although I can see how one could interpret it as "let's go to bible study".icon_rolleyes.gif

    Everyone's situation is different, but many are just horny guys who want to fuck around and most will boast that they have to be discrete because their spouse doesn't know. Sorry man.
    Not sure what sites you frequent but I've not had that regularly. On occasion, sure just like I have with 20, 30, and 40 year old gay guys.

    I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm just saying that gay guys (married or not) can be assholes just like everyone else but not all married guys who are gay fall into that category. Most sites have 'ignore' buttons to help with the OPs frustration.
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    Sep 10, 2012 8:01 AM GMT
    what if they are in an open married relationship and the wife is completely aware of what's going on? But yes if the wife has no clue then it really isn't a good idea!
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    Sep 10, 2012 8:08 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidI'm not going to try and justify what some married guys do but I will say that not all married guys are out there trying to get you (or the BBC) into their holes! Also, you don't know what the relationship is with their spouse so until you walk in their shoes, don't judge.

    Also, plenty of gay guys in 'monogamous' relationships that are out doing the same thing. The fact that many can't get married doesn't seem a reason enough to be excluded from your judgmental group.

    If you don't like dealing with married guys, just tell them. And do us a favor, come back in 30 years and let's take a look at your moral standing! That way we can all judge you.


    A most sensible man. I still can't for the life of me understand how so many gay men can be so instantly dismissive and judgemental towards others when they've had to put up with similarly baseless judgements all their lives from the rest of the world.
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    Sep 10, 2012 8:17 AM GMT
    Is it just to me.. but aren't a lot of married guys FREAKS! They are almost always bottoms when i've encountered them.. they always want to bareback.. they always like to swallow cum.. they always have some other kind of fetish... Texas was full of these reasonably handsome yet slightly terrifying married men. One married guy, which i humored and did fool around with was only into giving head and asked me if he could make a video for his wife of him giving me head. To which i said no.


    I've been with 3 in my entire life... In general i find it actually disparaging and feel for their wives and would not knowingly fool with a married guy again. Some gay men get off on it and somehow compartmentalize the experience, as if the wives are not being actually cheated on..and they are helping ruin a marriage. It's sadness on many levels.

    and yes.. white married guys LOVE the BBC.
  • kiwi_nomad

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    Sep 10, 2012 8:19 AM GMT
    everyone loves big block chevs..
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    Sep 10, 2012 8:48 AM GMT
    guyfromnz saideveryone loves big block chevs..


    But why would you obliterate your hole with one? That would clog the intake and I can only imagine the mess in the injectors.
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    Sep 10, 2012 8:54 AM GMT
    Aaah you'll live.. just delete it. icon_razz.gif

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    Sep 10, 2012 9:09 AM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidI hate getting messages from married guys. What's even more disturbing is how people actually BRAG about being married.

    "Masc married guy here, looking to have his hole obliterated by a BBC" icon_rolleyes.gif

    It's sad when I have more respect for your marriage than you do.

    If you are married, get a fucking divorce. How can people just play around with other peoples' lives like that?................

    I feel like there are a lot of them out there, advertising their married status like its a good thing. Is there a market for this? Do people get off of fucking married people?

    It doesn't make me think your straight. I just makes me think you're a liar.


    Couldn't have said it any better myself. It really shows what type of person someone is when they disrespect marriage.
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:48 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidI'm not going to try and justify what some married guys do but I will say that not all married guys are out there trying to get you (or the BBC) into their holes! Also, you don't know what the relationship is with their spouse so until you walk in their shoes, don't judge.

    Also, plenty of gay guys in 'monogamous' relationships that are out doing the same thing. The fact that many can't get married doesn't seem a reason enough to be excluded from your judgmental group.

    If you don't like dealing with married guys, just tell them. And do us a favor, come back in 30 years and let's take a look at your moral standing! That way we can all judge you.





    I am almost 52, and I still think married men cheating on their spouses are scum. If the other knows about it, who cares. But, liars and selfish people are on the bottom of the pond.

    Kudos OP for standing up to principles.
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
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    Myol saidThe nastiest emails I get by far are from married "straight", married bi and married gay men. "Hey stud, when are you going to hold me down and tear up my ass with that raw black cock of yours?" isn't as ambiguous as you think although I can see how one could interpret it as "let's go to bible study".icon_rolleyes.gif

    Everyone's situation is different, but many are just horny guys who want to fuck around and most will boast that they have to be discrete because their spouse doesn't know. Sorry man.
    Not sure what sites you frequent but I've not had that regularly. On occasion, sure just like I have with 20, 30, and 40 year old gay guys.

    I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm just saying that gay guys (married or not) can be assholes just like everyone else but not all married guys who are gay fall into that category. Most sites have 'ignore' buttons to help with the OPs frustration.


    Ahh... I think you have the topic confused. It isn't about married men, its about the subgroup of married men WHO ARE LOOKING TO CHEAT BEHIND THEIR SPOUSES BACK. We all know there are a lot of great married men who are not trying to cheat on their spouse behind their back.