A gay guy was approaching my straight brother in the supermarket!!

  • kemoze

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    Sep 10, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    Two days earlier, I was hanging out with my brother, we visited someone in the hospital then went to the supermarket to buy some stuff and while we were inside the market a Philipino guy approached my brother, he kept smiling and whenever we went he came behind us, I was the one who was buying and busy but my brother was just talking to me., my brother told me that guy is gay and he said if that guy said anything I will bait him., I was like wtf., if I tell my brother that I am gay he would think that I am doing what that guy was doing, I mean he might think that I am approaching guys in the bus, streets bla bla

    I don't understand why some gay guys would try to approach straight guys that's really pathetic and gives people a bad impression about us.,

    Just wanted to share this small story.,
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
    Isn't every gay guy's fantasy to turn out a straight guy?

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  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 10, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    How did the guy know your brother was straight ... was he wearing a sign icon_lol.gif
  • kemoze

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    Sep 10, 2012 4:47 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidHow did the guy know your brother was straight ... was he wearing a sign icon_lol.gif


    So you would approach any guy in the street as long as he is not putting a straight sign!!!
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    kemoze said...I don't understand why some gay guys would try to approach straight guys that's really pathetic and gives people a bad impression about us.,.,


    He just smiled at your brother? What, no international pick up line?

    Maybe he caught a gay vibe? How close were you to your brother. Perhaps his gaydar requires calibrating.

    Meanwhile, gay guys should only approach guys online or in apps? Being out in public where we are not put to death for being gay is not generally considered pathetic. It might still be dangerous, but I'd consider that brave. What did you do to meet other gay men before electronics?
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    kemoze said
    AMoonHawk saidHow did the guy know your brother was straight ... was he wearing a sign icon_lol.gif


    So you would approach any guy in the street as long as there he is not putting a straight sign!!!

    What exactly do you mean approach??? You mean like standing next to some in a grocery store and smiling and nodding? ... Does he have a wedding ring? ... If a guy is alone and no wedding ring ... an opening conversation is fair game. ... It's not like you're dropping to your knees and unzipping his zipper ... straight guys talk to each other in stores all the time

  • Sep 10, 2012 2:12 PM GMT
    There's no real way of telling if a person is interested in or they are gay or straight , unless you approach them and ask them a question. There's nothing wrong with a harmless question with a yes or no answer. As with "following" someone with a smile, some people like to reduce their chance of rejection before approaching. I believe there's nothing pathetic about approaching/asking a question to anyone. Unless it turns into a harassment case.
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    Sep 10, 2012 2:17 PM GMT
    Your bother said if the guy said anything he would ask you to jerk off the guy? I am confused.
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    Sep 10, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    OP telling your brother you're gay will not automatically resort to him thinking you're a slutty skeeze ! icon_eek.gif

    ...My straight friends accuse me of being the prude !...
    Sometimes my straight bff and i go out and he gets hit on by other guys..we laugh it off... it's no big deal !!..
    ..So folks what this post is really about .. is the impression the OP's brother has of the gay community... Which in his mind is making it harder for him to come out!..
    am i off??
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    Sep 10, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    How did the straight brother know the other guy was gay? Wasn't this in the Middle East, where homosexuality is kept heavily closeted? Maybe the guy is just overly friendly in a strange land, by the standards there. What did the OP's own gaydar indicate? This may be much ado about nothing.
  • Buddha

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    Sep 10, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidYour bother said if the guy said anything he would ask you to jerk off the guy? I am confused.


    Not sure myself, my guess was that he would beat him up?
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    Sep 10, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    Buddha said
    Dallasfan824 saidYour bother said if the guy said anything he would ask you to jerk off the guy? I am confused.


    Not sure myself, my guess was that he would beat him up?


    Maybe....but if they are handing out hand jobs at the supermarket, I need to tell Ralphs to fuck off. I just wonder if they do double coupons.
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    Seems to me that if your brother doesn't know you're gay, how do you know that he's not gay? Maybe he was 'baiting' the guy because he was interested.
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    Sep 10, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidSeems to me that if your brother doesn't know you're gay, how do you know that he's not gay? Maybe he was 'baiting' the guy because he was interested.
    Thats my thought as well!
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:18 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidOP telling your brother you're gay will not automatically resort to him thinking you're a slutty skeeze ! icon_eek.gif

    ...My straight friends accuse me of being the prude !...
    Sometimes my straight bff and i go out and he gets hit on by other guys..we laugh it off... it's no big deal !!..
    ..So folks what this post is really about .. is the impression the OP's brother has of the gay community... Which in his mind is making it harder for him to come out!..
    am i off??


    No you're not.
    The OP Needs to get a backbone and come out to his brother.
    And how does his brother know he's being cruised? Maybe he's gay too.
    And they're both in the closet and have the case of internalized homophobia!
    Wonderful.
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    Sep 10, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    kemoze said...while we were inside the market a Philipino guy approached my brother, he kept smiling and whenever we went he came behind,


    So you and your brother were in Egypt yet you knew this guy--who you do not report as having said a word--was from the Philippines? Filipinos are that distinctive looking? Is this someone who you knew? Who knew you're gay?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filipinos_in_Egypt
    Filipinos in Egypt consist of migrant workers in a variety of sectors, as well as a smaller number of international students.[2] An estimated 2,300 reside in Egypt legally, while another 1,878 live there illegally
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    Sep 10, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    You've obviously never seen straight guys go after girls have you hunny....
  • Koaa2

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    Sep 10, 2012 6:37 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidYou've obviously never seen straight guys go after girls have you hunny....


    Exactly, straight guys do it all the time. Seems like it may have been more your problem dealing with your own sexuality, being with your brother, and not being truthful with him. Sounds like you are projecting unto the gay guy, your own negative feelings about yourself.
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    Sep 10, 2012 6:49 PM GMT

    " my brother told me that guy is gay"

    kemoze , how did your brother know that guy is gay?
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    Sep 10, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    " my brother told me that guy is gay"

    kemoze , how did your brother know that guy is gay?




    Oooooohhhh..... BUSTID!!!!!
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    Sep 10, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    ConQuest said
    meninlove said
    " my brother told me that guy is gay"

    kemoze , how did your brother know that guy is gay?




    Oooooohhhh..... BUSTID!!!!!


    LOL!

    I rather like Kemoze, and a lot of this is new for him, but his brother made a mistake I think. The man may have thought he recognized Kemoze's brother from somewhere and so was trying to make contact by smiling etc.

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    Sep 10, 2012 9:02 PM GMT
    kemoze saidA gay guy was approaching my straight brother in the supermarket!!
    THAT SLUT!
  • unicoman1

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    Sep 10, 2012 9:08 PM GMT
    I'm sorry, I lost interest in this 1.

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  • BeingThePhoen...

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    Sep 10, 2012 9:18 PM GMT
    Why do straight women come after gay men. You are attracted to whoever you are attracted to. People just need to deal with it like grownups.
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    kemoze saidTwo days earlier, I was hanging out with my brother, we visited someone in the hospital then went to the supermarket to buy some stuff and while we were inside the market a Philipino guy approached my brother, he kept smiling and whenever we went he came behind us, I was the one who was buying and busy but my brother was just talking to me., my brother told me that guy is gay and he said if that guy said anything I will bait him., I was like wtf., if I tell my brother that I am gay he would think that I am doing what that guy was doing, I mean he might think that I am approaching guys in the bus, streets bla bla

    I don't understand why some gay guys would try to approach straight guys that's really pathetic and gives people a bad impression about us.,

    Just wanted to share this small story.,


    TRUE THAT. it's like, why dont they get that they feel the same way about guy, as we feel about girls