Egotistical?

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    Sep 10, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    So I'm in a chatroom just chillin' and then this guy mentions "Wow, I have 5 guys viewing my webcam. That's a lot for me because I'm ugly."
    I reply "No they just want to watch people jerking off. I'm attractive imo and I don't get many cam views because I don't show my dick."
    Then, some random asshole started attacking me, saying it was bad that I think I'm attractive and that I'm egotistical and that modesty is a virtue etc.
    I replied "I'm sorry that I have a decent self-esteem, but I don't think it's a problem. It's not like I'm calling myself ~hot~ or ~sexy~ or anything."
    The guy kept going on about how he wished he could block me (they don't have that option for non-paying members) so that he wasn't tempted to say mean things.

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    Sep 10, 2012 7:05 PM GMT
    That person attacking you just needs to chill. Seriously. And as for wishing he could block you and that he's tempted to say mean things to you, that just sounds like those people who say: "You make me do things that hurt you."
    Diplomacy has failed. Just ignore him now.
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    Sep 10, 2012 7:11 PM GMT
    Aress saidThat person attacking you just needs to chill. Seriously. And as for wishing he could block you and that he's tempted to say mean things to you, that just sounds like those people who say: "You make me do things that hurt you."
    Diplomacy has failed. Just ignore him now.
    Alright, cool. I was just kind of making sure that I wasn't the crazy one in this situation.
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    Sep 10, 2012 7:34 PM GMT
    Some people simply want everybody else to hate themselves as much as they do.

    They can't stand that there are others who don't feel the need to denegrate and minimalise themselves in the eyes of others (or themselves)- which, in fact, only enables people with poor self-esteem to have mass company in their self-imposed misery.

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  • HottJoe

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    Sep 10, 2012 8:05 PM GMT
    That's like what I go through. Some days I'm hot, and some days I'm really hott. Some days I'm hottt times 3. It creates a lot of jealously in the world, but, oh well.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 10, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    My opinion? What's the point in changing your screen name a adding a fake pic if you cannot change your personality. Expecting to be treated different because you use a fake profile will only work for a very little while, because you do not try to change who you are, so expect the same comments you have always received in the past, because you can't hide who you are.
  • FuriousGeorge

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    Sep 10, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    Personally, I would've just let the first guy think what he wants. He obviously has low self-esteem if he outright calls himself ugly. Even if you're 100% correct, I wouldn't have gone out of my way to tell him that the guys looking at him are just looking for penis. In that sense, you probably didn't have to rain on his parade, but as far as thinking you're attractive, I don't think that's inherently egotistical. Maybe it was just you calling yourself attractive alongside explaining away the "ugly" guy's attention that gave a bad impression. Sounds like it was all a bit overblown.
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    Sep 10, 2012 8:30 PM GMT
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    METAMORPH said... own your awesomeness; as I do icon_cool.gif

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    Sep 10, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidThat's like what I go through. Some days I'm hot, and some days I'm really hott. Some days I'm hottt times 3. It creates a lot of jealously in the world, but, oh well.


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    Sep 10, 2012 9:00 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidMy opinion? What's the point in changing your screen name a adding a fake pic if you cannot change your personality. Expecting to be treated different because you use a fake profile will only work for a very little while, because you do not try to change who you are, so expect the same comments you have always received in the past, because you can't hide who you are.


    Ya know, from what I can see, based on the Anduru of today this is uncalled for. We should encourage and reward positive changes.
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:19 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidMy opinion? What's the point in changing your screen name a adding a fake pic if you cannot change your personality. Expecting to be treated different because you use a fake profile will only work for a very little while, because you do not try to change who you are, so expect the same comments you have always received in the past, because you can't hide who you are.
    What the fuck are you talking about?
    I put photos of my role models in my profile, just like Cranky_no_more. My real photos are still in there. I changed my screenname because I was bored of my other one.

    You truly are one of the dumbest people I've ever had the displeasure of meeting.
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    FuriousGeorge saidPersonally, I would've just let the first guy think what he wants. He obviously has low self-esteem if he outright calls himself ugly. Even if you're 100% correct, I wouldn't have gone out of my way to tell him that the guys looking at him are just looking for penis. In that sense, you probably didn't have to rain on his parade, but as far as thinking you're attractive, I don't think that's inherently egotistical. Maybe it was just you calling yourself attractive alongside explaining away the "ugly" guy's attention that gave a bad impression. Sounds like it was all a bit overblown.
    I told him he wasn't ugly and that he is attractive in the conversation. When I said "I don't get a lot of views either because they're looking for cock" I was saying that he's not ugly just because people don't usually watch his cam. He even said "yeah i don't show my dick on cam ever".
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:23 PM GMT
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    But I wasnt paying attention because I am too busy looking DAMN GOOD on a Monday icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    K, like seriously. Fuck him.
    He was prob some ugly, disgusting little troll on the other end of his computer, sitting in his dimmly-lit one-bedroom apartment in a pair of basketball shorts and a wife-beater with food stains on it.

    And I don't think u were being egotistical at all. So what? You think you're a good-looking human being? What's wrong with that? This guy was obvi ugly and had a chip on his shoulder about being ugly and wished attractive people would not rub it is his ugly face.... He felt inferior that he did not have the same self-confidence and rattled off some bullshit about "humility" and "modesty".....puh-lease.

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    Sep 10, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    Claystation said
    McQueen said(said something)
    But I wasnt paying attention because I am too busy looking DAMN GOOD on a Monday icon_cool.gif
    ahahahah
    i should have been like "Sorry, what's that? I can't hear you over the sound of my own gorgeousness."
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    McQueen said
    Claystation said
    McQueen said(said something)
    But I wasnt paying attention because I am too busy looking DAMN GOOD on a Monday icon_cool.gif
    ahahahah
    i should have been like "Sorry, what's that? I can't hear you over the sound of my own gorgeousness."


    That's more like it!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:34 PM GMT
    Import saidK, like seriously. Fuck him.
    He was prob some ugly, disgusting little troll on the other end of his computer, sitting in his dimmly-lit one-bedroom apartment in a pair of basketball shorts and a wife-beater with food stains on it.

    And I don't think u were being egotistical at all. So what? You think you're a good-looking human being? What's wrong with that? This guy was obvi ugly and had a chip on his shoulder about being ugly and wished attractive people would not rub it is his ugly face.... He felt inferior that he did not have the same self-confidence and rattled off some bullshit about "humility" and "modesty".....puh-lease.



    Yeah, and meanwhile he's jacking off to pics of other ugly people... Oh wait, no one does that.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:34 PM GMT
    McQueen saidahahahah
    i should have been like "Sorry, what's that? I can't hear you over the sound of my own gorgeousness."


    Hell yes you should have!
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    Sep 10, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    Import saidK, like seriously. Fuck him.
    He was prob some ugly, disgusting little troll on the other end of his computer, sitting in his dimmly-lit one-bedroom apartment in a pair of basketball shorts and a wife-beater with food stains on it.

    And I don't think u were being egotistical at all. So what? You think you're a good-looking human being? What's wrong with that? This guy was obvi ugly and had a chip on his shoulder about being ugly and wished attractive people would not rub it is his ugly face.... He felt inferior that he did not have the same self-confidence and rattled off some bullshit about "humility" and "modesty".....puh-lease.
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