Black and Latino Men

  • Kuba

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    Sep 12, 2012 2:41 PM GMT
    I live in NYC, and do go out quite a bit. I have trouble finding black and latino men to date. I am latino (white) ( masculine ( not closeted) and enjoy going out. I'd like to meet guys who are in their late 30's to 40's. Unfortunately, it seems I meet a lot of very young guys. They seem to be the most open to conversations.
    I have been to some weekly parties that cater mostly to black men. I find that in that environment, they tend not to want to speak to guys who are not black even though I have some friends that attend.
    Any suggestions as to where else I should go?

    Tired of being single!!COLORED TEXT GOES HERE
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    Sep 12, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    bostonsam saidHave you tried sites like mygaydar and gayromeo? Yes, they are primarily hookup sites, but you could meet people and it is easy to target your searches. Then, maybe, who knows, you might find someone also who wants to date and then take it from there.


    Both of those sites don't have much to offer for Americans because they are primarily popular in Europe and Australia.
  • TheBizMan

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    Sep 12, 2012 5:08 PM GMT
    I'm black and latino... halla!

    Edit: Nvm *sigh* looks like your not into guys 37 years younger than you..
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    Sep 12, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    OP..maybe your aim should be socializing in more of a mixed enviornment?...
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    Sep 12, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    its NYC, the biggest city in the USA. you. will. find. somebody.
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    Sep 12, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    Plus, there is no shortage of Boricuas/Nuyoricans and Dominicanos in NYC. Believe me.
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    Sep 13, 2012 5:41 PM GMT
    A4A has an unusually large number of black and latino men looking for either NSA sex or short-term/long-term relationship.
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    Sep 13, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    Yes.
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    Sep 14, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    jaround90 said its NYC, the biggest city in the USA. you. will. find. somebody.

    Ya, I agree totally with what he said. NYC is massive and I'm sure that they have slew of dating venues for homosexuals that have a nice mix of African American and Latino men. Also...Don't they have a search by city button here on Real Jock for finding people?
  • Kuba

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    Sep 14, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    I want to thank everyone that took the time to answer my post. Your suggestions are good, Unfortunately, I have tried all as have friends of mine with little or no success. Most of the sites ) A4A, or the ones are apps are more about hookups, which is fine, if that is what you are looking for. I also find the apps to meet men turn out to be a pen pal relationship! Most of the profiles state they want a relationship, but few want to meet and many just don't follow up.
    I'm not desperate, am very handsome, great job and life and independent.I know I am a catch, so I'm not going to waste my time with dudes that know what they want.

    Finding available, LTR minded black and latino men is without a doubt a challenge. Being latino, I do know and understand many of the reason why this is so.
    Again, I do appreciate all of your comments and the sincere comments.