barbieee saidI would like to know how u guys deal with being rejected? and im not talking about the pussies who wait people to beg them for relationships and don't put themselves in the situation that involves the risk of being rejected by the guy they like .
personally i cant deal with it , i just go buy a big box of ice cream after being rejected, listen to sad songs and cry
I think it's because you blame yourself for the rejection when really it's not something you are or are not-- it simply is something the other person did not fancy.
It is hard but think of it like this: You're applying for a job and a person interviews lots of candidates. You may be good at typing and organizing but the other candidate is good at reports and accounting. The employee is looking for a bank teller. Who is he going to choose? Most likely the second candidate, right (unless he has a crappy rapport)? Does that mean you suck? Does that mean you're incompetent or useless? No. It means you probably should look into employees who are more interested in your skills-- typing and organizing.
In a similar sense, we all have something distinct and unique about ourselves. Certain things which people don't care for but certain things that people do. You just gotta keep on hustlin' and bustlin' till you find the person who seems to complement you the most.
If it makes you any happy, I think you're plenty handsome.
Don't take rejection personally and it'll help a lot!