Sep 12, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
Are there any bottoms out there that like a submissive top? Thus far I really prefer topping, because playing with and pounding a nice tight ass really turns me on. But, I am an inately passive person, so I usually hate having to take control during sex. I'm often so focused on what I am doing and making sure that the bottom is enjoying himself, that I can't enjoy myself. Whenever I meet a guy to top him I feel like I am expected to make the decisions and make sure we enjoy ourselves. Is taking charge what makes a good top? or are there bottoms that like telling me where to put it, how deep, how fast, and how hard?