Buddy Listing

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    Aug 22, 2008 1:16 AM GMT
    Is it just me, or does anyone else become annoyed when buddy listed by strangers?

    There should at least be some mutual correspondence prior to listing?
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    Aug 22, 2008 1:34 AM GMT

    In our humble, short experience, yes AND no. Sometimes messages are first, sometimes the buddy thing comes first, then we talk. We're pretty easy going that way.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 22, 2008 3:12 AM GMT
    Well like everything, the "buddy listing" tool can mean different things to different people.

    Some view it as strictly a recognition of those who you "buddy" with, others might view it as an invitation to become a buddy or simply someone they'd want to get to know. I get buddy listed by some who I've never even seen before. Always a nice thought I guess. It never irritates me however.
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    Aug 22, 2008 5:57 AM GMT
    I think maybe it should go something like this:


    Find attractive potential mate.

    Hot List said peice o' meat.

    Talk to it.

    Befriend it.

    Buddy list it.
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    Aug 22, 2008 8:34 AM GMT
    I have befriended something like 60+ hot pieces of meat, but I can never seem to entice them into the Oven. icon_sad.gif

    I think Gretel's letting them unto my plans. Gosh darn that bitch. And I wasted months making the gingerbread house!
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    Aug 22, 2008 12:02 PM GMT
    I find it odd when that happens. We have never chatted...yet your my buddyicon_confused.gif. Maybe its a guys attempt to get the other person to start chatting with them. Who knows.
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    Aug 22, 2008 12:16 PM GMT
    I am with gymguy1, not irritating just puzzling.