fastprof--- taken from your comments, I have always said, I have found many hotties in the gym, but not all are sexy. There are a lot of older, sexier men on this site and considering I'm 37, that 40, 50, 60 range is very nice indeed.
Confession: Though they may not be jocks, but very very cute, two 22 yo college students take care of my "needs". Quite often in fact. I say that to say this, it leaves me available with a larger opportunity to meet other men and allow myself time for a relationship to develope. Sometimes, I will admit, hormones have ruled in rushing things in the past... lol BUT I'VE GROWN EMOTIONALLY over the years.
I don't like to think age is a factor, but I don't see anything developing with either one of these guys and we are talking 15 years here.
I say live and let live and if things happen that's great. Brian was younger than me in my last relationship, I'm dating a guy younger than me now, yet I'm attracted to older men. Go figure. It's about like I love brunettes, but always end up with a blonde.... lol I don't get that either.